Pre-ejaculate has sperm in it!!!The fact that she has had other guys skin to skin should be cause for alarm.Aren't you worried about std's??You could get her pregnant very easily by using the withdrawal method.If you want to have skin to skin with her,both of you should get tested for std's and she should go on the pill or patch.Use a spermicide and then have your skin to skin.Sounds like a lot of work,but your life can depend on it!!Sounds like you are not too wild about her idea in the first place,follow your guts.They are there to keep you out of trouble!Good luck.Patty

D.O.N.T. D.O. I.T.....!!!! Youre smart enough to realize you dont need a kid so dont take the chance...Please, please....Really dont listen to her, pulling out doesnt work. Believe me, me and my bf thought that was a good idea too, and now i'm 13 weeks pregnant.....For youre own sake be careful and smart!!!!

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How old are you two? She dosen't sound like the best person to be with. She sounds irresponsible and not to smart about sex.

She just turned 18, and i'm 21. She's uh....Had a very sexual life.

(mainly because she hasn't had a father figure in her life...I would guess psychologically)

she's been used several times...And boasts somewhat proudly about the 18 different guys she's had. I don't care about that past...Because over the past 8 months of being her friend turned more...

....I've been able to shield her from that former life. And i've come to see that if i'm not there for her...She would go back to her old sexual ways. I just want to keep her from getting std's and getting pregnant.

Alot of people say it's not my responsibility...But if I was to leave her and not be around to keep her from doing that....Who would do it in my place? I could change her...All she needs to do is grow up some......And I don't care that people say I should just drop her because I care about her too much to simply forget about her. I love her...

...I really do. And I feel more like a protector/body guard of some kind more then a boy friend.

It made her mad, that after reading this I haven't (and won't) have sex with her without protection. I'm sure she'll thank me in the future for it. Right now, she'll just be childish and not talk to me. But she'll get over it.

Thank you all for clearing this up for me. I wasn't sure if precum could get her pregnant. I'm so glad I know now.

Thank you all again.

You sound like a very sweet guy,hopefully she'll see that you are being sensible and will be okay with your decision.Good luck to both of you.Patty

No pulling out does not work. It is very nice of you to be so helpful to her, I hope you don't get hurt. Does she love you?

Nope dont work cuz I might be preg from it

You sound like a really resposible guy, and you should continue to be careful. I got pregnant even using a condom, so you see, nothing is impossible.

Pulling out is not a method.

Goodluck!