Hey sweetie, I have no idea what your questions are , but I am finally here to answer if I can. Please keep in mind, I have a daughter 21 years ago......But ido remember all thedetails of pregnancy! Ask awa, sorry it took me a few days to get here! My wings are what they use to be!!!!!!!!!

hey my question was if I am having pregnancy symptoms I will be 21 in april. I have started having sex a month ago the last tiem I had my period was october 19. I want a baby been with my first b/f for almsot 3 years and he is my first. We noth lsot out virginity last month. And I haev been trying on nov 5,6,7,8,11,12 and have been dizzy and havign slight cramping jsut barely but light and don;t feel as if I am goign ot have my period thanks so much if you could get back ot me

Yes, you might be pregnant but more likely your symptoms are due to stressing out about a) wanting a baby & b) whether you're pregnant or not.

It often takes awhile to fall pregnant & longer the more you stress, so please relax, both of you & enjoy making love - then you'll be more likely to a) have fun & enjoy each other & b) have a baby

Wait........Stop the train. Get off and breath.......First, let me get this straight. You and you b/f have been together for 3 years. You both lost your virginity last month. Have you both not thought about protection and what it is going to cost in the long run to raise a baby in todays world? Also, you both are so very young..........What is the rush? You both have just begun to experience sex, and now you are thinking you may be pregnant? Back in my day, my mother the grand fairy*godmother always said, "if you want to dance you have to pay the fiddler ". I am not passing judgement or trying to "tell you what to do". I am just another concerned parent, who tries to take all young people(and about anyone else-people or pet) and put them under my wings to take care of. I just want you and your b/f to make wise choices in life. You both are still young and will want to do things and enjoy the things young people today enjoy doing. I don't think "playing house" for real is what you may think its cut out to be. Its not what it seems...........I know you both would want only the best in this world for a child that you would bring into this world. Time,patience, experience and stability- not to mention a good paying job/steady income, a home and $ in the bank for emergencys to name a few things to keep in mind. Gosh, I know I didn't answer you question, but I am concerned about you and wish you only lifes best. This is the advice I would want someone giving my own daughter....Keep in touch...There are lots of us here who care!

i think she said that they want a baby, they waited 3 yrs to do anything and decide to try. She is an adult. I had my first child a few months shy of turning 22 and my husband and I could not be happier, we are due with our third girl on thursday, we love our children and didn't want to wait and we are doing anything but .P.L.A.Y.I.N.G. H.O.U.S.E.!!!! I hate it when people say that. People truly mature at different ages, I know 20 yr olds who are more mature than any 30 yr old. If it has been 3 yrs I am sure this is a mutual desision between her b/f and herself, all she asked for was advice as to whether anyone thinks that maybe she could be preg and I say, possible, take a preg test, but wait anouther 3 days first. Good luck angel20, raising babies isn't an easy job, but it is good that there are people who want to bring their beautiful little faces into this world. And if you and your b/f are ready I say go for it.

Well...If you do want the best for your baby, you will wait until you have enough money to raise him or her so you are able to give him or her everything she or he deserves. Every child deserves the best, and bringing one into the world willingly knowing that it may not have the best is unfair....Just my opinion...

You know what sweety I have five children and one on the way and I am 27. I guess all I do is play house then. I hate when people say that and also when they say everything about money. Money is the route to all evil. This is my advice to you. No one is ever ready for a baby and so many people want blessings from god and miracles. More money, I want a house I want a car it's always I want more of, but what people fail to realize at times the best blessings that god can give you and you give back is the miracle and the birth of a child. So hun good luck and do as you feel. Could you be pregnant yes hun. If not god will let you know when it is the right time. He is not going to give you anything that you can not bare or handle. Sorry so long but that is how I feel.

I'm 49, I did choose to wait - of course I didn't find my love till late either!!, but as was pointed out earlier angel has been with one guy for 3 years & they chose to wait until they were ready before a) having sex & b) deciding to have a child - I only hope that my own daughter currently 16 shows as much maturity.

C) who the he ll do the narrow minded idiots here think gave them the right to comment on whether they're old enough or whether they have enough money????

Do you know her age or his or their financial circumstances or what support they do or dson't have - did angel ask for anyone here to moralize - no so mind your own business & either leave her be or answer the question she asked do not give moral lessons about things you don't know & have no right to comment on!!!!

Yes, in case I haven't made myself clear - i'm angry - no disgusted that people can decide to judge wit no right - no information & when they themselves in all probablitiy live in glass houses.

Angel, if you're not pregnant this time - like I said before just relax (both of you) it will happen in due course & probably when you least expect it - many people swear by a glass or two of wine a romantic evening & some great lovemaking!!>> baby

hi I agree with all of what you said!!!

If you read my post I was mad to, but she said she is 20 and going to turn 21 in april, I believe... But like I said, I am on the same page as you. I found my love and we couldn;t wait to start a family and at least they had their wits about them enough to waot long enough to have sex that they understand the consequences and they want to have a baby... That means that baby will have 2 loving parents to care for him/her... So you tell 'em girl.. An angel20, we are sorry to take this away from you, but it is all about you and your rights to have a child just as much as anyone else!!!!

Angel-congrats on waiting 3 years!!!!!!!!!! I always said I was going to wait til I was married. I didn't have enough willpower. I lost my virg. At 15 and now here I am at 22, 4 b/f later... Still not married. Sounds like u could be preg. Get a blood test to be sure. U may just be stressed out. Relax and ull get preg when the time is right. I do agree that u should be sure u feel as though ull be able to do the best by ur child once he or she comes. I want a baby too but at this time in my life, I want to be married first and I know I need to make more $. I barely can pay my own bills. So as much as it sucks, I am waiting... Good luck with what u want, hun!

Hae you tried an ovulation kit?