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Q: I Think I Was Raped And Am Pregnant!!!!!
asked by: blairestb514 on November 12th, 2004
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Exclamation yeah it's true I think my boyfriend raped me. I know he didn't use any protection and I feel pregnant. I have no way of finding out except to wait. My stomach hurts bad and i've thrown up periodically. I dunno whether or not that's just nerves or what...I'm only 14! My mama would kill me if she even knew i've had sex. And she hates my 16 year old boyfriend!! Is there really a chance that I could be pregnant?? Somebody please respond.
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baby_cakes
replied on November 12th, 2004
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Oh hunni im so sorry! Can you take a home pregnancy test? If u wanna talk pm me.. I was raped when I was your age (not by a boyfriend tho)
have yu said anything to your boyfriend?
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blairestb514
replied on November 12th, 2004
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Thanks
Thanks for that link...I'm lookin into that but yes I have said something to my b/f I really don't think he even cares. I was gonna break up w/ him b/c I caught him with another gurl, but then all of this happened and I think he did it so that I would stay w/ him. I'm just really confused
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nippz
replied on November 12th, 2004
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How do you think you were raped? Were you drugged or something? Did he force you?
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amandaclare
replied on November 12th, 2004
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Yeah the only way you can know is to take a test...Home tests arent too expensive, or you can find out where in your area gives out free tests. Good luck and im here too if you need someone to talk to
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blairestb514
replied on November 12th, 2004
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I Said No
I said no. He pulled me down and just made me do it. I didn't want to but I was afraid that he'd get aggressive or something so I was just there and I prolly couldn't have even tried to fight him off b/c I was paralyzed w/ shock that he was actually doin that.
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nippz
replied on November 12th, 2004
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So basically you said no and yet he forced you?
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blairestb514
replied on November 12th, 2004
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Yes.
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amandaclare
replied on November 12th, 2004
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Well thats definitely rape, sweetie...Do you want to report him? You should at least talk to a counselor or something. They could also help you out with your options if you are pregnant.
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baby_cakes
replied on November 12th, 2004
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Omg he cheated on u as well??? U poor thing im so sorry *hug* so u think he raped u so you wouldnt leave him??? Or cheated on u so u wouldnt leave him? Sorry im confused...
I think u should tell someone... Like a close friend or a counsellor cos wat u are going through is very serious

good luck babe mwa
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nippz
replied on November 12th, 2004
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Well that is absolutely disgusting. I'm 14 as well. 32wks & 1 day preggo. I wasn't forced. Boyfriend was 17 when he did it, not raped.

You should definitely report him. You shouldn't take that shiit.
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nippz
replied on November 12th, 2004
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Oh yeah did he cum in you or pull out. It's like a 50/50% you can be pregnant.
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blairestb514
replied on November 12th, 2004
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I told my best friends about it. One of them told a counsler. The only thing is I don't know what to do about my mama. And he made me b/c he thought that if he got me pregnant I wouldn't break up w/ him.
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amandaclare
replied on November 12th, 2004
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Your mom shouldnt be mad at you if you were raped...Its not your fault. You should talk to her, she'll probably be able to help you through all this
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nippz
replied on November 12th, 2004
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Take him to court.


Did he cum in you or what?
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baby_cakes
replied on November 12th, 2004
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Telling ur parents is the hardest thing I think... I still havnt told mine... What do you wanna do about your boyf hun? I know it must be hard and u prolly are scared to report him... Do u want to tell ur mum the truth... That it was forced? Cos you know its not your fault at all
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blairestb514
replied on November 12th, 2004
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He came in me. And my mama will be furious. I think if they find out that this happened their gonna take em to court...My parents I mean.
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nippz
replied on November 12th, 2004
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Oh, um. There is a 99.9% you are pregnant.
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amandaclare
replied on November 12th, 2004
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They should take him to court. And they should be mad...Not at you, but at him. Even if he is your "boyfriend" its still rape b/c you didnt want it. You need to tell someone who can help you do something about it
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nippz
replied on November 12th, 2004
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Look, you need to tell your parents. I'm 14, too remember. I told my mom and she supported me. Your so young, she should support you. I think she would show more sorrow than anger.
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