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blairestb514
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I Think I Was Raped And Am Pregnant!!!!!
Posted: 11-12-04 21:46pm
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yeah it's true I think my boyfriend raped
me. I know he didn't use any protection
and I feel pregnant. I have no way of
finding out except to wait. My stomach
hurts bad and i've thrown up periodically.
I dunno whether or not that's just nerves
or what...I'm only 14! My mama would kill
me if she even knew i've had sex. And she
hates my 16 year old boyfriend!! Is there
really a chance that I could be pregnant??
Somebody please respond.
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baby_cakes
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Posted: 11-12-04 21:48pm
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Oh hunni im so sorry! Can you take a home
pregnancy test? If u wanna talk pm me..
I was raped when I was your age (not by a
boyfriend tho)
have yu said anything to your boyfriend?
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blairestb514
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Thanks
Posted: 11-12-04 21:55pm
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Thanks for that link...I'm lookin into
that but yes I have said something to my
b/f I really don't think he even cares. I
was gonna break up w/ him b/c I caught him
with another gurl, but then all of this
happened and I think he did it so that I
would stay w/ him. I'm just really
confused
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nippz
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Posted: 11-12-04 21:56pm
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How do you think you were raped? Were you
drugged or something? Did he force you?
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amandaclare
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Posted: 11-12-04 21:56pm
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Yeah the only way you can know is to take
a test...Home tests arent too expensive,
or you can find out where in your area
gives out free tests. Good luck and im
here too if you need someone to talk to
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blairestb514
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I Said No
Posted: 11-12-04 22:00pm
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I said no. He pulled me down and just
made me do it. I didn't want to but I was
afraid that he'd get aggressive or
something so I was just there and I prolly
couldn't have even tried to fight him off
b/c I was paralyzed w/ shock that he was
actually doin that.
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nippz
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Posted: 11-12-04 22:01pm
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So basically you said no and yet he forced
you?
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blairestb514
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amandaclare
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Posted: 11-12-04 22:02pm
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Well thats definitely rape, sweetie...Do
you want to report him? You should at
least talk to a counselor or something.
They could also help you out with your
options if you are pregnant.
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baby_cakes
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Posted: 11-12-04 22:02pm
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Omg he cheated on u as well??? U poor
thing im so sorry *hug* so u think he
raped u so you wouldnt leave him??? Or
cheated on u so u wouldnt leave him?
Sorry im confused...
I think u should tell someone... Like a
close friend or a counsellor cos wat u are
going through is very serious
good luck babe mwa
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nippz
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Posted: 11-12-04 22:03pm
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Well that is absolutely disgusting. I'm
14 as well. 32wks & 1 day preggo. I
wasn't forced. Boyfriend was 17 when he
did it, not raped.
You should definitely report him. You
shouldn't take that shiit.
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nippz
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Posted: 11-12-04 22:04pm
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Oh yeah did he cum in you or pull out.
It's like a 50/50% you can be pregnant.
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blairestb514
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Posted: 11-12-04 22:04pm
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I told my best friends about it. One of
them told a counsler. The only thing is I
don't know what to do about my mama. And
he made me b/c he thought that if he got
me pregnant I wouldn't break up w/ him.
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amandaclare
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Posted: 11-12-04 22:06pm
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Your mom shouldnt be mad at you if you
were raped...Its not your fault. You
should talk to her, she'll probably be
able to help you through all this
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nippz
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Posted: 11-12-04 22:06pm
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Take him to court.
Did he cum in you or what?
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baby_cakes
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Posted: 11-12-04 22:08pm
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Telling ur parents is the hardest thing I
think... I still havnt told mine... What
do you wanna do about your boyf hun? I
know it must be hard and u prolly are
scared to report him... Do u want to tell
ur mum the truth... That it was forced?
Cos you know its not your fault at all
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blairestb514
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Posted: 11-12-04 22:08pm
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He came in me. And my mama will be
furious. I think if they find out that
this happened their gonna take em to
court...My parents I mean.
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nippz
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Posted: 11-12-04 22:09pm
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Oh, um. There is a 99.9% you are
pregnant.
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amandaclare
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Posted: 11-12-04 22:10pm
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They should take him to court. And they
should be mad...Not at you, but at him.
Even if he is your "boyfriend" its still
rape b/c you didnt want it. You need to
tell someone who can help you do something
about it
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nippz
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Posted: 11-12-04 22:10pm
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Look, you need to tell your parents. I'm
14, too remember. I told my mom and she
supported me. Your so young, she should
support you. I think she would show more
sorrow than anger.
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