hey everyone. I have been all over the
internet today trying to figure out what I
should do. I am 18 years old and over the
course of the last 4 months I have had
three of the Bartholin's Cysts. The first
one did not rupture and went away. The
second one ruptured and the doctors told
me if I got another one chances are that
they will have to remove the sac that
produces the cysts. Last night I got my
third one. I have a doctors appoitment
today and I am freaking out. I am so young
and the websites I have looked at show
that like 2% of women aged 14-40 get
these!!! If anyone has any advice for me
please let me know. Thank you so much and
god bless!
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scuster
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 03 Apr 2008 Posts: 2
help Posted: 04-03-08 09:09am
hey everyone. I have been all over the
internet today trying to figure out what I
should do. I am 18 years old and over the
course of the last 4 months I have had
three of the Bartholin's Cysts. The first
one did not rupture and went away. The
second one ruptured and the doctors told
me if I got another one chances are that
they will have to remove the sac that
produces the cysts. Last night I got my
third one. I have a doctors appoitment
today and I am freaking out. I am so young
and the websites I have looked at show
that like 2% of women aged 14-40 get
these!!! If anyone has any advice for me
please let me know.
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Ashleepaige
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 14 Apr 2008 Posts: 2
Cyst Posted: 04-14-08 16:56pm
Dont feel bad Im 16 will be 17 in May and
I have had the same cyst 2 or 3 times this
year. It sucks and it hurts really bad
even to walk sometimes but the only thing
is is that its not on the lip of my vagina
its on the upper part of the crease
between my leg and vagina. So Im not sure
if it is a Bartholin cyst or something
else but that is what everyone is telling
me
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shortie_7788
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 18 Apr 2008 Posts: 1
:( Posted: 04-18-08 21:34pm
Wow after finally researching this online,
ive realized this is a bigger problem then
i thought. Ive gotten a cyst about every
year since i was 16 im now 20, recently
married and 5 months pregnant. It seems
like the best way to get rid of these are
surgery, but i dont think thats an option
because im pregnant. I might get the
marsup. surgery after delivery, has this
helped anyone or should i just have the
gland removed? Im just so tired of going
thru this pain! And does anyone know ..if
i have it removed will i be able to
produce my own lubrication anymore? Its
really frustrating and depressing. Im a
newly wed and my sex life already seems
like its going to be horribe:(
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strawbelly
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 20 Apr 2008 Posts: 1
bartholin cysts Posted: 04-20-08 16:52pm
hi all --
firstly, i am very happy to have found
this forum. i've had many bartholin
cysts/abscesses and many times, i feel
like the only person going through this
since i don't know a single person who can
relate to my problems.
i've had cysts that have come and gone;
i've had abscesses that have been lanced,
marsupialized and have returned in less
than a week; i've had abscesses that grew
so large that it ruptured on it own and
have returned in a few months. i've never
had kids before but have preached to
others that sometimes the pain is so
great, i am 100% sure that it's worse than
birthing a child.
i have seen two obgyns with different
viewpoints on how to handle this matter.
the first prefers to lance and put me on a
strong course of antibiotics until the
infection is gone. she tells me that this
is something i will have to deal with for
the rest of my life unless i remove the
entire gland (not just cyst), a procedure
that is often advised again because of how
it can stifle your sex life (i am only
24). my second obgyn is determined to
make sure she can find a solution that
will prevent cysts and abscesses from ever
coming back without having to remove my
gland. i've been seeing my second obgyn
because if anyone has ever had a bartholin
abscess before, you would know that it is
something you don't ever want to
experience again and the idea of
constantly living in fear and anticipation
that the infection will come back is a
lifestyle no one should have to conform
to.
for the last two years, i've had
reoccuring abscesses on my left gland. my
obgyn marsupialized it and placed a gauze
inside to keep the incision open. rather
than to let it eventually close, i saw her
twice every week for 6 weeks to have the
duct cleaned and to be kept open -- much
like the logic of keeping recently pierced
ears open. the idea is to form a larger
duct to prevent future blockages which
would lead to the formation of
cysts/abscesses. i am now left with a
small opening that i maintain on my own
every few days to make sure it stays open.
obviously the size of the new duct is
larger than what it normally looks like
but this is a decision i made for myself
because a) i do no want to lose the gland
entirely, and b) i do not want these
cysts/abscesses to ever come back. this
has worked so far for the past half year.
i am now currently waiting to have the
same done with my right gland since the
last time there was an abscess, it grew so
large so quickly that by the morning of my
appointment to have it marsupialized, it
had ruptured on its own.
i would like to note that this posting is
for the purposes of sharing my experience
with everyone and in no way am i offering
advice on how others should deal with this
problem. these are choices we all have to
make for ourselves depending on how much
we are willing to sacrifice and
additionally, treatments work differently
for each person. my heart goes out to all
who have dealt or are going through this
ordeal. fully aware of how scanty the
research available on this issue is, if
anyone would like to learn more about my
experience, feel free to reach out to me.
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lilac12
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 13 Jul 2007 Posts: 11
Posted: 04-26-08 13:39pm
Hello, sorry to all of you out there
suffering... I am too at the moment,
unfortunately.
I was interested by something the last two
posters mentioned. For people who have had
the gland removed, HAS it affected your
sex life?
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nylady
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 28 May 2008 Posts: 1
Excision Posted: 05-28-08 20:48pm
I am 25 and have had a recurring cyst from
my right bartholyn's gland for about 5
years. The first treatment they tried was
marsupialization. This worked for about a
year and then the recurrences started and
became more frequent. Since my first cyst
and marsup I've had a word catheter, they
tried "burning" the cyst with some kind of
cauterizing device, and and additional
marsup. I have had about 5-10 cysts
develop and rupture on their own.
I really trust my doctor and believed she
tried everything she could before advising
me to have the gland excized.
I had a full gland excision a week ago and
was so terrified of something going wrong
that my dr had to prescribe me clonopen
two days before the operation because i
was freaking out.
I had looked up the surgery online and
read all these awful possible
complications "deformed vagina, painful
sex forever". It was a really difficult
decision because i'm 25 and hope to have a
long healthy happy sex life ahead of me.
The first couple of days are tough. You
definitely need someone around to take
care of you. By day 4 I could go for
little walks and moved from percoset to
motrin. I am on day 7 of recovery. I am
still bleeding a little from the stitches
but do feel a bit better every day. My
vagina on that side is still very bruised
and swollen, and I feel most comfortable
when sitting on an ice pack. I am going
back to work tomorrow. So far my recovery
hasn't had any complications.
If all continues to go well, I would say
this was definitely the right decision.
It is really scary to have an excision,
but i hated living in dread of these awful
cysts that interrupt your life so
dramatically. I'm hoping to continue my
steady recovery and then be rid of this
awful problem forever. My fingers are
crossed.
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linnyskins
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 02 Jul 2008 Posts: 1
I too had my bartholin gland removed! Posted: 07-02-08 17:06pm
I had my Bartholin gland removed about 2
months and 2 weeks ago. i would have to
say that was the worst pain in my life! I
had some complications with the surgery
and developed a hemotomia. Than after a
month and 2 weeks the lump was still
there, so i decided to get a second
opinion. So that doctor said i didn't have
a hemotomia, and that it was just scar
tissue, at this point i had develped an
infection, so i was put on antibiotics to
take that away. But then he said i
shouldnt be having pain if it was just
scar tissue. So now i dont know what to
believe, and it is 2 months and over 2
weeks after the surgery. I was thinking of
going to Pheonix Arizona to see a
specialist, does anyone know of a good
doctor down there, if so please help me
out,I just want to be healed!
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