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angel20
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 11 Nov 2004 Posts: 8 Location: Florida
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Could I Be Pregnant
Posted: 11-11-04 19:16pm
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I have been with my first boyfirend ever
for almsot 3 years. Ands about a month
ago we both started having sex for the
first time. Well my last period was
october 19. And we have had sex november
5,6,7,10 and I want so babdly ot be
pregnant, my period isn't due til next
week. I am 21 and take no medications
birth control never had and no alcool, are
my chances high for being pregnant please
tell me they are.
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nmmama2005
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 29 Oct 2004 Posts: 164 Location: New Mexico
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Posted: 11-11-04 19:24pm
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Ive got no clue but I hope everything goes
good.
michelle*
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Galaxy16
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 31 Oct 2004 Posts: 66 Location: kentucky
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Re: Could I Be Pregnant
Posted: 11-11-04 20:58pm
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If u didnt use a condom then yes you could
be... Good luck
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bluebubble888
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 21 Oct 2004 Posts: 499
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Posted: 11-12-04 11:48am
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Chances are high!! Every couple has
about a 25% chance of conceiving every
month if they have sex during the fertile
days, which you have! Good luck and let
us know what happens!
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shawdy
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 12 Nov 2004 Posts: 6 Location: chattanooga
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Cold I Be Pregnant Please Help Me
Posted: 11-12-04 12:21pm
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bluebubble888
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 21 Oct 2004 Posts: 499
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Posted: 11-12-04 12:24pm
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Ewww, I hate the word nutted! Lol okay,
well if your ready to have kids and you
can financially support it and give it a
good stable home then go for it! How old
are you??
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shawdy
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 12 Nov 2004 Posts: 6 Location: chattanooga
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Posted: 11-12-04 12:26pm
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I am sorry thats the problem im just 17 I
want be 18 until march I have a job.
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BeckLyn
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 04 Nov 2004 Posts: 476
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Posted: 11-12-04 12:45pm
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Why aren't u on bc? Pills, patch, shot
or condomns?????
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bluebubble888
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 21 Oct 2004 Posts: 499
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Posted: 11-12-04 13:28pm
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Well, having a baby is a huge deicison!
You have to talk it over with your
boyfriend first!! He shouldnt be cumming
inside of you like that if he's not
willing to talk to you about the risks of
doing it! Why are you not using condoms
or anything?? You need to think this all
the way through!! How good of job do you
have?? Think of what your life will be
like ten years from now if you have a baby
now or decide to wait a little bit!
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shawdy
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 12 Nov 2004 Posts: 6 Location: chattanooga
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My Little Story
Posted: 11-15-04 11:33am
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Okay this is how it all started we was
using condoms at first but I started my
birth control I was on the patch for a
while but had to take it off because it
caused me to have high blood pressure I
used to weight 135 but when I started the
patch I ganded up to 150 the doctor told
me to get off of the patch because it was
making me sick so I just didnt use
anything but I told myself that I was not
going to do anything else but its like I
could go like a month without having sex
with him I lost my virginity to him I mean
I really love my baby. I have been off
the birth control for like 7 months now so
I dont know if the madison is still
working in me but the doctor told me it
diff for diff people body but I dont know
when should I go take the test do yall
think I might be preg I work at bojangels
we get paid every week every time I get
paid I put money in my savings account so
I can have money later on down the line
when I need it but I am not for abortion
so I guess if I am I guess I will just
have to step up and be a mother to my
child you know but like a lot of people
said it's not easy but I know my family
and the father will be there for me.
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bluebubble888
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 21 Oct 2004 Posts: 499
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Posted: 11-15-04 12:16pm
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First off: will the pay check every week
suppost insurance, house payments, a car,
feeding the family, and other expensises??
Secondly theres other forms of
protection besides birth
control....Condoms!!! They're very easy.
I don't know what you symptoms are but
take a test whenever you have a missed
period to find out!
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shawdy
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 12 Nov 2004 Posts: 6 Location: chattanooga
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Did I Take It Too Early?
Posted: 11-19-04 11:18am
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I took my test or whatever it came back
negitive but I don't know if it was too
early or what because my friend also think
that she might be pregnant or whatever and
she had sex before I did and she is just
now taking a test and she took four of
them and they all came back pos except the
first one she took so I think that I took
mine too early I am supposed to be coming
on my period on the 24th but I was wanting
some people to tell me what they think.
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l2at24
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 06 Nov 2004 Posts: 1509
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Posted: 11-19-04 11:26am
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Shawdy, it sounds like you're playing with
the idea of getting pregnant. Like, I
want to, but i'm not sure. And then if
you get pregnant you'll have the excuse in
your mind about your b/c stuff. Anyway,
let me tell you from experience don't play
around like that. Unplanned pregnancy
does happen, but you are planning to get
pregnant if he's cumming in you. If you
can, wait until you are 100% sure you want
a child. It can be a lot harder than you
think. Wait and see how your friend does
with her baby and then decide.
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shawdy
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 12 Nov 2004 Posts: 6 Location: chattanooga
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Whats Up Yall
Posted: 12-07-04 11:43am
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Whats up yall I found out that I am 5 1/2
weeks pregnant but I am going to get an
abortion my mom said that its my choice on
what im going to do but she said that she
dont want me to get an abortion.
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BeckLyn
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 04 Nov 2004 Posts: 476
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Posted: 12-07-04 13:48pm
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Wow. Well, I don't know what to say.
Personally I am against abortion. I
think of it as murdering another human
being, and even worse because this human
being can't fight back. I want you to
think this through thouroughly before you
decide and make sure you get a lot of
advice. Some women have a lot of
emotional problems after an abortion.
Just remember, that baby is part of you.
Good luck with whatever you decide.
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Newmommy23
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 20 Sep 2004 Posts: 727 Location: Dyess AFB, TX
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Posted: 12-07-04 14:01pm
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Wow..One minute u say u will step up and
take care of your child because you don't
believe in abortion and now your getting
an abortion?? I think you have some
growing up to do before you have
unprotected sex again!! I am not totally
against abortion if it is an extreme case
but yours is not. You had unprotected sex
knowing full and well that you could be
pregnant. Sbortion should not be used as
birth control in my opinion! Sorry if
that was harsh but it is how I feel!!
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steen
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 18 Nov 2004 Posts: 1797 Location: Upper Midwest
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Re: Whats Up Yall
Posted: 12-07-04 23:05pm
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| shawdy
wrote: | | whats up yall I found out
that I am 5 1/2 weeks pregnant but I am
going to get an abortion my mom said that
its my choice on what im going to do but
she said that she dont want me to get an
abortion. |
remember that it is your
life. There is lots of advice and
pressure from your mom, and probably from
people here for you to do one thing or the
other.
But remember that you are the only true
expert in your own life. Only you know
what you can handle and what you want to
happen.
If you feel that you need an abortion
because you can't see what else to do,
there might be help available instead.
If you really don't want to be pregnant
and really don't want a baby in 9 months,
then an abortion may be the best option
for you. If you feel you can handle the
pregnancy but don't want to be a mommy
yet, then there is the option of adoption.
There are several options, but the only
one who know which is the right option is
you.
So make your decision and then see what
help you can get to reach that goal.
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kristynchase
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 03 Nov 2004 Posts: 179 Location: Michigan
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Posted: 12-08-04 00:43am
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Personally if you were having sex and not
using any birth control it is your
responsiblity to take care of the child
b/c it was your choice to have sex. It is
your choice but like they said you need to
think about it... It is a desicion that
you will have to live with for the rest of
your life... Good luck with whatever you
do...
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steen
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 18 Nov 2004 Posts: 1797 Location: Upper Midwest
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Posted: 12-08-04 00:57am
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| kristynchase
wrote: | | personally if you were
having sex and not using any birth control
it is your responsiblity to take care of
the child b/c it was your choice to have
sex. It is your choice but like they
said you need to think about it... It
is a desicion that you will have to live
with for the rest of your life... Good
luck with whatever you
do... |
I am always really
uncomfortable when somebody tries to tell
anybody else what to actually do, as they
are not living the life of that other
person.
Sex frankly is *not* the same as a duty to
become a parent. Sex is sex and
sometimes ends in orgasm, that's all. A
pregnancy is a completely different
situation with a whole new set of
decisions to be made by the pregnant
person and not really anybody else.
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kristynchase
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 03 Nov 2004 Posts: 179 Location: Michigan
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Posted: 12-08-04 01:20am
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Who were you referring to about telling
her what to do?
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