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Q: Could I Be Pregnant
asked by: angel20 on November 11th, 2004
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I have been with my first boyfirend ever for almsot 3 years. Ands about a month ago we both started having sex for the first time. Well my last period was october 19. And we have had sex november 5,6,7,10 and I want so babdly ot be pregnant, my period isn't due til next week. I am 21 and take no medications birth control never had and no alcool, are my chances high for being pregnant please tell me they are.
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nmmama2005
replied on November 11th, 2004
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Ive got no clue but I hope everything goes good. Smile


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Galaxy16
replied on November 11th, 2004
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Re: Could I Be Pregnant
If u didnt use a condom then yes you could be... Good luck
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bluebubble888
replied on November 12th, 2004
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Chances are high!! Every couple has about a 25% chance of conceiving every month if they have sex during the fertile days, which you have! Good luck and let us know what happens!
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shawdy
replied on November 12th, 2004
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Cold I Be Pregnant Please Help Me
I was wanting to know do yall think that I might be pregnant I came on my period oct 27 and I had sex on the 27 now keep this in mind I am not trying to get pregnant he nutted in me I had sex on the 3rd he nutted in me then we also had sex on the 7th but I didnt know that he nutted in me until he got home and called me and told me that he nutted and I ask him why did he not tell me that he nutted in me he was speachless but we have been togother for 2 years as of today my heart is telling me that he is not doing anything wrong my family already knows that I am sexually active but if I am pregnant I will still have a hard time telling them somebody please write me and tell me what do you think. Sad Sad Confused Sad Confused Sad Confused Sad Confused Sad Confused Sad Confused Sad Confused Sad Confused Confused Sad Confused Sad Confused Sad Confused Sad Confused Sad Confused Sad Sad Confused Sad Confused Confused Sad Confused Sad Confused Sad Sad Confused Sad Sad Confused Sad Confused Sad Confused Sad Confused Sad Question Question Question Question Question Question Question Question Question Question Question Question Question Question Question Question Question Question Question Question Question Question Question Question Question
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bluebubble888
replied on November 12th, 2004
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Ewww, I hate the word nutted! Lol okay, well if your ready to have kids and you can financially support it and give it a good stable home then go for it! How old are you??
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shawdy
replied on November 12th, 2004
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I am sorry thats the problem im just 17 I want be 18 until march I have a job.
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BeckLyn
replied on November 12th, 2004
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Why aren't u on bc? Pills, patch, shot or condomns?????
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bluebubble888
replied on November 12th, 2004
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Well, having a baby is a huge deicison! You have to talk it over with your boyfriend first!! He shouldnt be cumming inside of you like that if he's not willing to talk to you about the risks of doing it! Why are you not using condoms or anything?? You need to think this all the way through!! How good of job do you have?? Think of what your life will be like ten years from now if you have a baby now or decide to wait a little bit!
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shawdy
replied on November 15th, 2004
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My Little Story
Okay this is how it all started we was using condoms at first but I started my birth control I was on the patch for a while but had to take it off because it caused me to have high blood pressure I used to weight 135 but when I started the patch I ganded up to 150 the doctor told me to get off of the patch because it was making me sick so I just didnt use anything but I told myself that I was not going to do anything else but its like I could go like a month without having sex with him I lost my virginity to him I mean I really love my baby. I have been off the birth control for like 7 months now so I dont know if the madison is still working in me but the doctor told me it diff for diff people body but I dont know when should I go take the test do yall think I might be preg I work at bojangels we get paid every week every time I get paid I put money in my savings account so I can have money later on down the line when I need it but I am not for abortion so I guess if I am I guess I will just have to step up and be a mother to my child you know but like a lot of people said it's not easy but I know my family and the father will be there for me.
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bluebubble888
replied on November 15th, 2004
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First off: will the pay check every week suppost insurance, house payments, a car, feeding the family, and other expensises?? Secondly theres other forms of protection besides birth control....Condoms!!! They're very easy. I don't know what you symptoms are but take a test whenever you have a missed period to find out!
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shawdy
replied on November 19th, 2004
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Did I Take It Too Early?
I took my test or whatever it came back negitive but I don't know if it was too early or what because my friend also think that she might be pregnant or whatever and she had sex before I did and she is just now taking a test and she took four of them and they all came back pos except the first one she took so I think that I took mine too early I am supposed to be coming on my period on the 24th but I was wanting some people to tell me what they think.
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l2at24
replied on November 19th, 2004
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Shawdy, it sounds like you're playing with the idea of getting pregnant. Like, I want to, but i'm not sure. And then if you get pregnant you'll have the excuse in your mind about your b/c stuff. Anyway, let me tell you from experience don't play around like that. Unplanned pregnancy does happen, but you are planning to get pregnant if he's cumming in you. If you can, wait until you are 100% sure you want a child. It can be a lot harder than you think. Wait and see how your friend does with her baby and then decide.
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shawdy
replied on December 7th, 2004
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Whats Up Yall
Whats up yall I found out that I am 5 1/2 weeks pregnant but I am going to get an abortion my mom said that its my choice on what im going to do but she said that she dont want me to get an abortion.
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BeckLyn
replied on December 7th, 2004
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Wow. Well, I don't know what to say. Personally I am against abortion. I think of it as murdering another human being, and even worse because this human being can't fight back. I want you to think this through thouroughly before you decide and make sure you get a lot of advice. Some women have a lot of emotional problems after an abortion. Just remember, that baby is part of you. Good luck with whatever you decide.
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Newmommy23
replied on December 7th, 2004
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Wow..One minute u say u will step up and take care of your child because you don't believe in abortion and now your getting an abortion?? I think you have some growing up to do before you have unprotected sex again!! I am not totally against abortion if it is an extreme case but yours is not. You had unprotected sex knowing full and well that you could be pregnant. Sbortion should not be used as birth control in my opinion! Sorry if that was harsh but it is how I feel!!
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steen
replied on December 7th, 2004
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Re: Whats Up Yall
shawdy wrote:
whats up yall I found out that I am 5 1/2 weeks pregnant but I am going to get an abortion my mom said that its my choice on what im going to do but she said that she dont want me to get an abortion.
remember that it is your life. There is lots of advice and pressure from your mom, and probably from people here for you to do one thing or the other.

But remember that you are the only true expert in your own life. Only you know what you can handle and what you want to happen.

If you feel that you need an abortion because you can't see what else to do, there might be help available instead. If you really don't want to be pregnant and really don't want a baby in 9 months, then an abortion may be the best option for you. If you feel you can handle the pregnancy but don't want to be a mommy yet, then there is the option of adoption. There are several options, but the only one who know which is the right option is you.

So make your decision and then see what help you can get to reach that goal.
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kristynchase
replied on December 8th, 2004
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Personally if you were having sex and not using any birth control it is your responsiblity to take care of the child b/c it was your choice to have sex. It is your choice but like they said you need to think about it... It is a desicion that you will have to live with for the rest of your life... Good luck with whatever you do...
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steen
replied on December 8th, 2004
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kristynchase wrote:
personally if you were having sex and not using any birth control it is your responsiblity to take care of the child b/c it was your choice to have sex. It is your choice but like they said you need to think about it... It is a desicion that you will have to live with for the rest of your life... Good luck with whatever you do...
I am always really uncomfortable when somebody tries to tell anybody else what to actually do, as they are not living the life of that other person.


Sex frankly is *not* the same as a duty to become a parent. Sex is sex and sometimes ends in orgasm, that's all. A pregnancy is a completely different situation with a whole new set of decisions to be made by the pregnant person and not really anybody else.
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kristynchase
replied on December 8th, 2004
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Who were you referring to about telling her what to do?
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