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kitty2luv
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 22 Oct 2004 Posts: 1089 Location: with my love
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Pull Out Method
Posted: 11-11-04 11:18am
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How save is what are the chances of
getting preg on it ???
My friend used the pull out method last
night and wanted me to ask everyone
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Tubby
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 15 Aug 2004 Posts: 120
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Posted: 11-11-04 11:29am
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Absolute, 100 percent chance she will get
pregnant. Did she ever hear of birth
control? I love these women who are too
lazy to use contraception and then panic
and worry that they might get pregnant.
Well, duh!
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kitty2luv
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 22 Oct 2004 Posts: 1089 Location: with my love
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Posted: 11-11-04 11:35am
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She was ovulating tooo ..... She cant
take b/c cause it makes her sick and the
guy was alergic 2 latex
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Tubby
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 15 Aug 2004 Posts: 120
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Posted: 11-11-04 12:03pm
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Well, then how about a vascemtomy for the
guy? 
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kitty2luv
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 22 Oct 2004 Posts: 1089 Location: with my love
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Posted: 11-11-04 12:08pm
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Yea that would be funny as hell 
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JanetBee
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 28 Apr 2004 Posts: 332
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Posted: 11-11-04 12:16pm
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| kitty2luv
wrote: | | she was ovulating tooo .....
She cant take b/c cause it makes her
sick and the guy was alergic 2
latex |
allergic to latex?! Wow, that is a great
excuse to not wear a condom. She actually
believed that? Well, if she was
ovulating, and had sex without using
protection, is sounds like your friend is
a not just gullible but pretty darn
stupid. There are non-latex condoms
around, so that is just nonsense.
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Tubby
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 15 Aug 2004 Posts: 120
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Posted: 11-11-04 12:37pm
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Tubby's words of wisdom: if the woman
can't be responsible and use some form of
contraception, then she should keep her
legs crossed. If the guy can't be
responsible and use some form of
contraception then he should be
sterilized. 
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mybabygirlorboy
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 28 Sep 2004 Posts: 17
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Pull Out Method
Posted: 11-11-04 12:40pm
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I can bet your friend will get pregnant
probaly not right now but if she continues
yes she will I used the pull out method
for 2 years straight and I finally got
pregnant and now i'm 7 months preg but i'm
not mad although she was'nt plan but tell
ya friend if she does'nt want kids she
should use some type of birth
control......................
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starshyne530
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 22 Aug 2004 Posts: 90 Location: NY
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Posted: 11-11-04 13:05pm
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Pull-out method is not a good form of
birth control at all! There is this
thing, called pre-cum, and there's sperm
in that. The pill may make her sick but
there are other options, like the patch
and the shot, or absitnence, and yes,
there are non-latex condoms. Sorry kiddo,
but your friend has a high risk of
being/getting pregnant doing what she's
doing. If you think you are responsible
enough to be sexually active then please
be responsible enough to be protected...
Doesn't anybody have sex-ed in their
health classes in high school anymore? Or
project know? Safer sex or no sex!
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Jocelyne
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 20 Nov 2003 Posts: 121
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Posted: 11-11-04 13:16pm
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Its funny how a lot of smart people think
the pull out method works!! The smartest
guy at my high school (seriously the
smartest he got awards in everything)
anyway he got his girl friend pregnant not
once but twice using the pull out
method...She didn't have the baby either
times but I would have thought he would
have been smarter if not the first time
the second time.....Anyway your friend
could be pregnant I suggest she uses
protection next time and never take any
guys word about being allergic to
condoms...Theres always some kind of
protection that can be used....Unless shes
ready to me a mommy!!
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starshyne530
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 22 Aug 2004 Posts: 90 Location: NY
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P.s.
Posted: 11-11-04 21:21pm
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There is also spermacide foams you can
buy... Those are at least some form of
protection. Don't leave the responsibilty
entirely to the male because he will
conveniently forget... Not saying all
guys are like that, but you know, just a
gross generalization. Anyway, your friend
should do more research on forms of birth
control other than the pill, if she doesnt
want to use that, and condoms, if this guy
really is allergic to condoms or
whatever... Spermacides, sponges,
diaphragms, condoms, pills, shots,
patches... A whole world of options. Be
safe kids!
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Tubby
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 15 Aug 2004 Posts: 120
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Posted: 11-12-04 12:08pm
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| starshyne530
wrote: | | pull-out method is not a
good form of birth control at all! There
is this thing, called pre-cum, and there's
sperm in that. The pill may make her
sick but there are other options, like the
patch and the shot, or absitnence, and
yes, there are non-latex condoms. Sorry
kiddo, but your friend has a high risk of
being/getting pregnant doing what she's
doing. If you think you are responsible
enough to be sexually active then please
be responsible enough to be protected...
Doesn't anybody have sex-ed in their
health classes in high school anymore?
Or project know? Safer sex or no
sex! |
i'm sure that there is
sex ed in high schools. The problem isn't
that it's our moraless society where
people just don't have any rules or
standards. We live in a "do whatever
feels good at the moment and worry about
the consequences after it's too late"
society. And especially since abortion
was legalized because that gave women
another excuse to be irresponsible. I
know of some women who in their mid to
late thirties that are too irresponsible
to use contraception, so it really doesn't
surprise me that younger women are
irresponsible. When you've got women that
are old enough to be their mothers (and in
some cases they are already mothers)
acting irresponsible, what can you expect?
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kitty2luv
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 22 Oct 2004 Posts: 1089 Location: with my love
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Posted: 11-12-04 14:57pm
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Tubby : what is yr deal???
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Tubby
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 15 Aug 2004 Posts: 120
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Posted: 11-13-04 11:54am
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My deal is that i'm sick and tired of
women screwing up their lives because they
do things that they know are irresponsible
and then taking their frustrations out on
innocent bystanders. I've dealt with too
many of these women in everyday life and
when I read some of these posts, I just
can't believe how women can easily prevent
things like unwanted pregnancies and
abortions, but refuse to do so simply
because they don't want to take
responsibility for their own actions.
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sweetdiego7
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 02 Mar 2004 Posts: 35 Location: CA
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starshyne530
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 22 Aug 2004 Posts: 90 Location: NY
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Posted: 11-13-04 15:53pm
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I also agree with tubby... He's saying
everything that I correct and just isn't
sugar-coating it for anyone. You continue
to do your thing tubby.
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JCSC2
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 21 Sep 2004 Posts: 61
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Posted: 11-13-04 17:02pm
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When I was a stupid high school kid. I
used the pull-out method on my g/f at the
time. I was very lucky she never got
pregnent. That was probably one of the
stupid mistakes I made. Even bigger if
she got preg. My parents are still taking
care of a dog she gave me seven years ago.
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JCSC2
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 21 Sep 2004 Posts: 61
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Posted: 11-13-04 17:03pm
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Not endorsing pull out method.
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wakkochic17
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 01 Mar 2004 Posts: 494 Location: South Carolina
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Posted: 11-14-04 13:39pm
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I don't know about where this girl goes to
school.. But a lot of schools do not have
sex ed. It's possible this girl was
never educated on it so let's not jump
down anyone's throat..
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starshyne530
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 22 Aug 2004 Posts: 90 Location: NY
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Posted: 11-14-04 14:05pm
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I suppose I would just like to assume that
before becoming sexually active,
especially if you haven't been educated
about it, you would do some research about
how to go about it safely and what methods
there are for protecting yourself against
diseases and pregnancy. It just seems
like common sense, ya know?
...Sex = chance of pregnancy/diseases...
Don't want any of those things, so how do
I protect myself? Hmm, I dont know, I
didn't learn anything in health class
about it, maybe I should look it up or ask
some questions first, so I dont have to be
unnecessarily nervous about something
happening...
If you're uneducated about sex and the
responsibility/consequences that can come
from it, you shouldn't be having it...
How can you possibly enjoy something as
great as sex if afterwards all you do is
worry about whether or not you might be
pregnant? I think that would ruin it for
me, but maybe i'm the one with the
issues...
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