i have recently lost a close friend whom
ive been brought up wid.. His family n my
family r very close too..
My friend has died in a hold up...
I cant talk to his parents or his sis.. I
dont know what to say n how to react...
Please help..
Its rude if I do not show sympathy.. But
how do I do so?
Help
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Jocelyne
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 20 Nov 2003 Posts: 121
Posted: 11-12-04 10:51am
Thats a hard one....
I lost one of my closest friends in a
drunk driving accident 5 years ago and I
still have problems talking to her
family.
They probably feel the same way you
do....Start off by asking how they are
doing ...I'd probably talkk to his sister
she probably doesnt know how to react
either and just tell them if they need
anything they can call you...They probably
need all the friends they can get
well I hope everything goes okay
and i'm sorry for your loss
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indianrose
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 08 Oct 2004 Posts: 15
Posted: 11-12-04 23:53pm
The last time my friends dad past away I
asked his family how are u and they said
how can we be fine.. Which is an honest
answer but I dunno how to react to it..