If I am preg how will I make it? I don't
have my ged or a good full time job. Im
so stressed! I had a dream last night I
gave birth. Im going friday to get a
blood test! I would be happy in my heart
if I was but my dad would kill me I mean
kill me and im 21 he treats me like im 5.
I live in a crazy house. Im home every
night with my parents. Should I move out
if I am? How do you tell them???
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jessamyn
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Joined: 18 Aug 2004 Posts: 4116 Location: San Diego, CA
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Posted: 11-10-04 12:07pm
How can you move out if you cant support
yourself? Would there be a dad? Why
havent you gotten yout diploma or ged yet
at 21? Are you workign at all? Do you
have savings? Can you get a fulltime job?
Even if its not a career? Or you working
on school? Could your parents help you?
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swimmer
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 10 Nov 2004 Posts: 65 Location: Utopia
Posted: 11-10-04 12:23pm
Firstly, how did you get yourself into
this situation? Every action has a
consequence, whether it be a good one or a
bad one. Think before you act. Secondly,
you say that you are 21, but your father
treats you as if you are 5? Could there
be a reason for that? Not trying to be a
wench, but, but but, at the age of 21, you
are an adult, a big girl, old enough to
make your decisions on your own. You
speak of wanting to move out? How do you
intend to do that with no money, no stable
job, and no ged? It seems as if you are
dependent solely upon your parents, and if
you are pregnant, then its not just going
to be about you anymore, its going to be
about the baby and your parents taking
care of the baby- where is the father ( if
you are pregnant) takes two to tango, and
he needs to be told if the case is true.
I am trying to think of something
supportive to say, but cant think of a
single damn thing- one good aspect of your
post? You said you were happy about the
pregnancy if its true.............If you
are pregnant, love that kid like youve
never loved anything else-
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Ixannahsmom
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 15 Jul 2004 Posts: 200 Location: Oregon
Posted: 11-10-04 12:41pm
I am with jess I am not judging or
anythign just wondering why you don't have
your ged at 21???
