Guess Everyone Has a Problem About the Truth of Abortion...

When did you put that? I think I remember seeing it, but they delete them I guess because its a real sensative topic and they dont like things said even if it is reality. I think I saw your post, but I have a bad memory! And a killer headache so it hurts to think!!! Lol

Sorry about your headache...Hope ya feel better. And good luck on finding your father, I hope he's okay and some place safe.

Best wishes,

jennifer

Thanks!!!! Im waiting to find out something. But everyone is stumped. Im waiting to go home to my advil! Haha my head will fall off any minute now! And my ride is late, then we have to pick up pizza for dinner. Thanks though! I hope I feel better too! How are your kids?

Everythings great now. I posted in the "marriage thing" again if you haven't read, but I would like to thank you for the help. I know it's only been a short time, but things are much better now.

Can't wait for halloween,

hubby is gonna be some cartoon, but not sure what yet, and I wanna be a sexy witch...As sexy as I can be that is, he he.

Jennifer

The post was removed because it contained aggresive language directed at another member of the forum. We have no objection with expression of opinion, but we do ask that members refrain from using the forum as a medium for inter-personal conflicts.

You know I understand that pthers may believe you are a "horrible selfish" person if you have an abortion but I don't. I know what its like, and why it was done. We/ they don't know our situation and why we chose to do it. These young girls do it probably for their parents, like me, the parents don't want to deal with it, it disappoints them, and their daughter istens and doesn't want to hurt them anymore. I am just tired of hearing these woman pass judgement at us, the ones who are "hprrible and selfish". So ladies before passing judgement, understand that you don't know what kind of situations these girls are in, only that they are pg and don't know or have chose abortion.
I do also believe that abortion is wrong for the reason, that woman use it as a contraceptive. I promised myself I would never put myself emotionally and physically through that again. And 4 months later I am pg again! It was obviously meant to be! The woman who can ddo that repeatedly I consider to be wrong and pass judgment. God bless everyone. And always remember that his judgment is the one that counts!

Much love,
sami

Your other child is already dead. So, I ask you, is it a better baby? Did the other baby not deserve to live? Parents can't force you to do anything, when you get to the clinic, it's your decision, once again, something i'm tired of hearing.

I myself got preg at 16, willing, but not really ready, I had no job, neither did my boyfriend. My family yelled, screamed, begged and pleaded for me to have an abortion, however I understood (at 16 and even at that abortion was wrong. On july 28th 1999 I gave birth to a beautiful baby boy-mikey (he didn't have to go in a trash can). 4 mo later I got preg with my daughter (still not financially ready, however I was working and going to school, while my husband stayed home and took care of our son (we lived with his parents) on august 28th 2000 zoe was born and. 8 mo after my daughter was born, my youngest son was conceived and once again not financially stable, we knew there was a reason he was here on january 16, 2002 I had my 3rd child (still a youngster myself).

I graduated in 2000 (went to school 2 yrs prego) and became an insurance producer (p&c) in july.

It can't be that hard.

Jennifer

My parents made me get an abortion when I was 15 but I honestly did't know that if I would have refused they could not continue with the procedure, I think some girls don't know that they have a choice

If they're happy that there grandbaby is dead. It's not fair to that innocent child that had to lose it's life because your parents were ignorant and you were to. If you know how to have sex (because you think you are adult enough) you should know the ins and outs of the consoquences. Age is no excuse, I don't want to hear it. You know laying down can create a life, if you don't want it, dont do "it".

So yeah, I am mad!

At 15 some girls not all like myself was not informed about being able to refuse to have a abortion, plus I had been having sex with the dude for months then he decided it was time to get me pregnant on purpose, which shocked me because I thought he cared for me enough not to put so much pressure on me being a child trying to carry and raise a child that is dangerous. I wish I wouldn't have been ignorant...But now im 18 and I know better, if I make a mistake im old enough to take care of my own reponsibilities.

Ever sense my son was born with out a father to teach him the things a woman could not possible teach him, I couldn't tell you the amount of times I have cried for not giving him life he desurves. I know having an aboration was wrong , part of me also thinks it was for the best, considering the father would not have been involved, I am struggling as it is, and I have a 14 month old. With not many people to help. What kind of life could I have provided for a child. I don't have a parents house to live in, 60% of my income goes on rent. I am not thinking about myself here I am only thinking of my son.

For the record I was on birthcontrol for both my pregnancy. I was on the pill for my son, and I was on the needle for this past time.

Shshs

I didn't know you could have an abortion at 5 months thats crazy, I thought that was illegal!?

I like your pics of the babies thats really cute I saw some calenders like that once. Precious

Anyway, to radon, it makes me sick to hear (or see) someone say it was for the best, no it wasn't, you could have gave it to someone that could take care of it, or raised it yourself because you made it...Your fault. Stop blaming the fathers too, you should have known them better before you slept with them...All of a sudden they run away (i don't think so) and plus there's child support for those fathers that don't feel like being fathers, and it is controlled now.

(in caps) stop making excuses and just admit that you are a murderer.

Jennifer

These past few days you have really pissed me off, I think you are being a health forum when writing your posts! Who the hell are you to say someone isn't anice person. People make mistakes, listen to their parents. I know now what I did was wrong and I have to live with that. That is the worst thing to live with. But now I am makjng up for it and going through with this pregnancy. I am just really tired of you being so damn harsh to these girls. They come here for our help not criticism. You are not being helpful, you are being rude. I understand you have your own opinions, just like everyone else, but you don't have to be so doing it rude when replying when these girls ask "us" for help. You don't help you make it harder on us. I am really upset by the things you say and how you say them. You have the righ to have your own opinion, but not the right to tell girls they are not nice, or horrible. You are not god, your judgment doesn't mean caca, but it does hurt. So please try and be alittle more nicer, not so judgmental and harsh. Because it doen't help at all. Have nice day.

Much love,
sami

Jennifer and sami you girls are both really sweet and both my friends so im not even gonna take nobodies side here.

Sami, calling jen a b**** is not very nice, I know you were upset but you dont have to be so rude back to her

jen, I know your upset that so many girls can go through with an abortion but all they can do is learn from their mistakes and hope to god they wont do it again. I feel your anger but try posting after you had time to put down the correct words so we dont hurt their feelings. I know, its hard, but please try!

Your girls are really sweet, both of you, and jenn you are a great mother so lets not fight in here.

For hurting the feelings of those who have been through this ordeal, and I hope you can forgive me. I know it's already done and can't be changed...However, I am trying to set a message for those who are thinking about going through it, it is reality that if they do it they are going to be critisized, but I didn't have the right to put it the way I did.

I just want everyone to realize that these babies are precious gifts, and that they shouldn't be thrown away.

Once again, i'm sorry.

Jennifer

Shshs