Oh honey. *hugs* first off, you should probably tell him (he has a right to know). Secondly, you probably shouldn't be playing basketball while pregnant. And thirdly, guys suck. Love hurts, doesn't it? I know what you mean about wanting to curl up and die... It's like being shot in the heart without a way for it to heal. There's no surgery or remedy... Only time. Life has a funny way of teaching us lessons that we don't want to learn... But unforunately, we have to. I'm here for you girl. *hugs*

~sam

No u probably shouldnt be playing basket ball. But im so sorry for all of the other stuff going in ur life.

Im scared 2 tell him because we have had a miscarriage in the past. So I wanna wait for awhile. Is a bad 2 play basketball while pregnant? Im not that far along.
"take me fast lord or take me slow,
i dont really care how I go,
in the daylight or in the dark?
But pls dont let me die from a broken heart"
thats from a song and thats how I feel right now. My heart is really breaking. It hurts to breath, and when he told me. I pretended I was happy...... That was so hard 2 do.

Hey, I played summer league basketball while I was pregnant. And summer league is like, the down and dirty, rough and tough stuff. Not just you rnormal everyday basketball...And as far as we know my baby is perfectly fine and so am i! So yeah, not recomended...But I dont think it will kill you.

I'm sorry to hear about paul...You need to tell him! Good luck!

Ok well playing basketball today was awesome just what I needed. But I just cant tell paul... I just...I cant. Hes gonna be happy with this new girl. I need 2 get out of his life. I dont think im gonna ever tell him. I want him 2 be happy and have a good life.

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I know the pain you feel when you see him with another girl. I don't know what you can tell him. Just try talking to him.
Love,
chanda

No way, that is a good way to lose your baby, having a the ball hit into your stomach extremely hard. Ouchie, and you need to tell him!
Kristin

Could I really loose my baby if I was hit hard in the stomach??

Would it be wrong of me 2 never tell him. I know if he knew...... He would probley wanna get back together and if not that he would want 2 be there for sure and I just feel like...... I dont really know.
I wish I could just stop loving him and stop caring. I want 2 soooooooooooooooooo bad! I mean like when we say goodbye, he always gives me a big hug and a kiss on the check (which I never give him back) but its really hard. I cant wait 2 start college. It will take my mind hopefully away from paul and, and start thinking about something else.

Is it weird that im already talking to my baby? Even though im only a few weeks (from conception date). I dont know it feels like me and my baby are a team. Lol im such a dork.

Yes you can!!! I am not even kidding...

Nope, not weird at all. I talked to my baby the first day when the blood test confirmed it and when the pink lines showed up!!
Kristin

Why, are you planning on hitting urself in the tummmy? Dont do it!

And about the ex thing, if he is your baby's daddy you .N.E.E.D. To tell him! Who cares if he has a girlfriend or not, he's the father, he needs to give you support to both you and your child!! Tell him kindra.

Hii I really dont know u but I think u should tell the daddy.... You should try to put yourself in his position and see what it would feel like to have some one keep something that big and serious from you.. And also think of your baby.... How will you feel later on in life knowing he/she could have had a father stick around (atleast) and support him/her in their every move along with your support. Being a single parent isnt bad, dont get me wrong thats not what I am saying b.U.T I really do think everything would be alot better with both parent aware that they are in deed parents :-\

hun I wish yah the best and only the best wih everything b.U.T please think about what your going to do very good.
If yah need anyone to talk to pm me

<3 stephanie

I was a competitive dancer when I first got pregnant and even after doing hard falls and jumps onto the floor, kayla turned out just fine. Believe it or not, your baby will be fine. I even got into a car wreck and my doc told me "babies have their own state of the art shock abosorbance system" so that's cool. Sorry about all the problems though sweetie!

I think it depends how far along u r, if the development is over... Then the baby is fine pretty much anything u do

I don't think it's safe to be playing hard basketball or getting hurt because these are the most delicate stage in pregnancy and you could get a miscarriage again. I'm sure you don't want that.
You should let him know regardless if he has a girl it's really not fair for him to be kept from a secret that is part of him too.

You have to take care of yourself while you are pregnant. It would be best to let him know and then you two can go from there.

Good luck and let us know what happened

I wont play basket ball, I whould be worried it might hurt the baby, and guys suck, but if you need someone to talk to you can talk to me right know I am going through stuff with my boyfriend or whatever he is (not sure he wont tell me)

You guys are right, I need to tell him but im gonna wait until I know that I dont have another miscarriage. Oh and with playing basketball im so sore today that im never gonna do that again! Well and the high tomorrow is supposed 2 be like 35 out side so thats way to cold to be playing basketball.
As for telling paul about the hole new girlfriend thing. Im gonna let him work it out on his own. His best friend told me that he got angie (new girl) to make me jealous. So im not sure what his problem is. Im just keeping myself busy with work and not dealing with it right now

If I were you i'd be extremely careful and treat myself as high risk, since you've had a miscarriage in the past. Amniotic fluid is good for protecting the baby and even though you'd probably be fine, i'd be extra careful.