I know I posted to you last night so I don't know what happened, but anyway your belly more than likely will have changed in some way. My belly was bigger with both of mine and I had lost weight (from morning sickness). Just a thought- you should spend some time with your man just being married, without kids. I miss spending a lot of time with mine. We had our first child and then I had an iud inserted. It should have given me up to ten years to have another, but just 20 months later we had baby number 2. You never know what will happen in your life. Take your time. I've been married for 6 years and I love it. Congratulations, marriage is awesome!

Thanks for your reply. We've spoken about having time to ourselves before the pitter patter. I'm 23 and quite happy to wait another 5 years to have children, however dale's almost 30 and doesnt want to feel like he's an old dad. I've always wanted children and well we've just bought the big family home and I guess we're both looking forward to it and ready. I guess we'll wait and see if I fall pregnant straight away too, hopefully no complications!

Hey,


my husband and I were the same way. He pretty much purposed to me and a couple months later we tried to get pregnant. At my wedding I was only 12 weeks and my dress had to be altered. Mostly because of bloating. You don't want it being too tight. I think my husband and I spent enough time together while we were going out and while we were engaged that we were both ready. Getting posted far away from home was a kicker but it's working out for the better. Now we've got number 2 on the way and by the time the husband is able to retire both kids will be out of the house, or close too it and we'll be able to do what we both want to do and that is travel and we'll both still be relatively young.

Good luck to you and your husband