i am 20 years old and I dont understand
what is happening. 3 days ago I could
get an erection to its full potential.
Earlier in that day I had masturbated
using a liquid body soap (which I shouldnt
have ) and everything was fine. Later
that night I had sex with a girl and it
was the 1st time we've ever been together.
I could only get a weak erection and I
was not able to please her, leaving me
very embarrassed and shamed being the 1st
time we've had sex together. For the
past 2 days i've only had a weak errection
in the morning and can only get a weak
erection during masturbation. I was
wondering if anyone has ever had this
problem or if the soap may have in a way
affected my penis by getting in the hole
on my penis head? Is there a sudden or
temporary impotence? Any help is
appreciated....
Thanks, please
help..........
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C0nfus3d_Ab0ut_L1f3
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 10 Nov 2004 Posts: 19
Posted: 11-10-04 13:06pm
Are you stressed about anything? That
could be a big problem.
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swimmer
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 10 Nov 2004 Posts: 65 Location: Utopia
Posted: 11-10-04 13:16pm
Okay, I am a female but yup, I am on the
mens board ( sometimes the chicks board
gets boring sorry) - hey, I am not here to
tease, but genuinely interested okay- so
before you harp, let me speak- it really
sounds like you have something on your
mind- and our minds influence our bodies
more than you think- although any sort of
sexual gratification is hot, sometimes it
takes more than just a body to get us
humans going- the more you worry about why
its not happening, the greater the chance
it wont- its like if you try too hard it
just wont happen- relax a bit, dont worry
so much, and if the girl cant see past the
"first time", then shes not worth it- sex
isnt everything- trust me-
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ConfusedNotTooSure
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 07 Nov 2004 Posts: 2
Its All Good Now Posted: 11-13-04 04:58am
Well i've never had this happen to me
before so I was very worried. Those were
a couple very long days in my mind feeling
like a lesser man, but every day I was
able to get a little more errect. It
just came back slowly everyday a little
more and more. I'm back to normal now
after 4 days, can't say for exact what it
was but I got another chance with her and
it was all good, she said so herself.
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Assena
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 12 Nov 2004 Posts: 328 Location: Georgia
Posted: 11-13-04 07:21am
Have you ever been tested for diabetes? I
know my friend can tell when his blood
surgar is off ( and not time to test) when
he is unable to go full staff.
You might want to check it out.
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juniper
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 01 Oct 2004 Posts: 65 Location: Southern California
Posted: 11-13-04 20:43pm
If your morning wood is weak as well, it's
usually an indication of something
medical, not mental.
Go to the doctor and get it checked out.
More than likely it's just a simple
urinary tract infection (some swelling is
probably blocking full blood flow) but it
can indicate something more serious as the
other poster said, such as diabetes, a
blood clot, a problem with your prostate
or testicles. Always better safe than
sorry, and most problems are more easily
treated the sooner they're detected.
