People have told me I am anorexic, because I resorted to starvation last summer to drop over 40 pounds. And in my case, after being on birth control (the pill, ortho tri-cyclen lo) for less than a month, I gained 6 pounds! And with recent steroid use I gained another 4, so I am probably going to go back to my old tricks to drop those extra pounds.
I know the nurse who gave me the pills said that equal numbers of women would gain weight as would lose it - I was one of the unlucky ones to gain it, sadly o.O
but it depends entirely on the complexity of your body...No two women will react the exact same to birth control. It's just like how some women experience breast tenderness and growth, and others will not.
And, if I may ask, why are you paranoid about using a condom? Are you allergic, or do you fear breakage or having it fall off?
I assure you, honey, I have bad menstrual problems too - I get morbid cramps on the first day only, accompanied by hot flashes, sweating (followed by chills), dizziness, nausea, vomiting (rarely), and of course fever. And my birth control doesn't help...I apologize if i'm wrong, which I most likely am, but were you looking at a relapse as a possible "cure" to menstrual misery?
Just curious, because while I have read that drastic changes in one's diet can alter her period, or make her miss it, when I was on my "diet", I still got them, on time and just as painfully as before.
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But the side effects will be different for each woman. You could always discuss options with your doctor, as pattyv said. Include your medical history along with your concerns and you can go from there.
Hope things get better for you ^-^
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Scaredbaka - 138, formerly known as 129 o.O