Hi ! I thought i'd reply to this topic as I am quite the expert on moles as I had one removed 3 days ago ! If any of you are worried that you may have a mole that looks abnormal you should get it checked out. Check for darkness and roughness on the moles - raised ones especially. The one I had removed 3 days ago was on my left arm, it had a very rough surface and was slightly dark.
Although the doctor said this didn't look cancerous he reffered me to a special surgery. Once again, I was told it didn't seem cancerous but I should have it removed anyway to avoid any risk. (great ! I hated the mole anyway so why not get it removed for free, haha!)
i went to the surgery, lay down on a comfy table - and stretched my arm out on an arm rest. I was then told I was about to be injected to numb my arm - this stung slightly. I hate needles, but I can assure you it is nowhere near as bad as you might think. Once this is complete you lay still for a minute or two untill you become numb. The surgeon then checks if your numb by jabbing your arm with a sharp instrument - once you confirm you can't feel much he will continue.
The surgeon now cuts an elipse shape around your mole which you can only slightly feel - it feels like someone gently hovering a compass over your skin, not painful at all. Once this is complete, they have to sew you back up !
Having the stitches in is nothing to worry about - I wont lie, you might get a few small pains when they first pull the stitching, but it's nothing to worry about - just like someone pinching you, nothing at all !
Once you're stitched, they apply a water proof dressing and send you on your way ! I should also mention that removing this dressing plaster from my arm (i'm male so i've got hairs! :p) hurt far more than the operation it'self haha (no joke!!).
About 10 days afterwards you return to your local surgery to have the stitches taken out - I can't comment on this as my stitches are still in. I suppose if anyone is really interested I could take a digital photo of my arm so you can see how it will look. Let me know if anyone wishes me to do this.
To anyone worrying about a mole - get it checked out ! It's nothing to worry about. Look on the bright side, you get a great scar to show off with. I have had a mole removed when I was younger too, on the side of my chest - the scar looks like a bug. I had it removed in 2000 so I named it the millenium bug. :)
good luck, stay safe.