Joined: 04 Nov 2004 Posts: 12 Location: washington
Help Posted: 11-04-04 21:44pm
Ok here gos. Im 18 and my boy friend is
17 and we have been trying to have kids.
We have been having sex without a condome
and with out pulling out for the past 5
1/2 weeks. I was shure that I was preg
but yester day I started my period, does
that mean that im not preg? I was sure
that I should be. We even had sex after
my period every day for 3 days. By the wy
I figure it I should be preg. Can I still
be preg if im on my period? Does anyone
have any ideas. Thanks
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bluebubble888
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 21 Oct 2004 Posts: 499
Posted: 11-04-04 21:50pm
First off, I would consider whether or not
you are really sure you want a child.
Look at it from every angle. Secondly,
for a majority of women it take months for
them to get pregnant. It can take up to
a year for a woman to get pregnant even
doing everything right!! Every month
there is only a 25% chance of you
concieving. Patience!! Know your
fertile days and good luck!!! But don't
forget......Having a child is a huge thing
ecspecially when the father to be isn't
even of legal age!! I'm not judging im
just trying to help you out!! Get good
steady jobs and make sure that the child
has a loving family and home to regulary
come back to!! Good luck!
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aertic
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 04 Nov 2004 Posts: 12 Location: washington
Posted: 11-04-04 21:56pm
Thanks for the help but I have all the
symp, could I still be preg and have my
period?
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bluebubble888
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 21 Oct 2004 Posts: 499
Posted: 11-04-04 22:23pm
Ummmm i'm gonna say your chances of being
pregnant are pretty low. I've heard
differently but when you have a regular
period than its a strong idicator that
your not pregnant. Now if it's extra
light and stops like after a couple days
than maybe, but im not sure!! Sorry I
can't be better help!!
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jessamyn
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Joined: 18 Aug 2004 Posts: 4116 Location: San Diego, CA
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Posted: 11-05-04 00:17am
Two things...
One... I dont think you are pregnant at
all...
Two... 17 and 18 and trying to concieve?
Slooowwww down.... Sorry I dont mean to
be rude but people have children at 18 but
dont ttc at 18 are you guys married?
Living together? Financially stable?
Emotionally stable? Insurance not under
your parents? Good jobs? Cars? School
complete? Going to college? Etc..?
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nippz
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 11 Sep 2004 Posts: 2173 Location: ,
Posted: 11-05-04 00:21am
jessamyn
wrote:
two... 17 and 18 and trying to concieve?
Slooowwww down.... Sorry I dont mean
to be rude but people have children at 18
but dont ttc at 18 are you guys married?
Living together? Financially stable?
Emotionally stable? Insurance not under
your parents? Good jobs? Cars?
School complete? Going to college?
Etc..?
yeah definitely think those things over
sweety..Your young and ttc, thats crazy.
I hope you know what your doing.. And
that your stable etcetc. Oh boy, having a
child is..Wow. Im not even there yet but
I will be soon and it's already hectic..