My wife's mother is bipolar. Her grandmother was a "mental case"(not sure what she had. Crazy and abusive is how my wife described her. My wife currently switched to zoloft. I think paxill is what she was previously taking. We have been together for 3 years. She has run everyone of her friends off because of her delusions that I am having affairs with them. She runs all of our office elp off too for the same reasons. She got better when she started taking antidepressents but she falls back time to time. She has been getting worse lately. She spends money like there is no tomarrow,takes up new hobbies and then drops them a few months later after spending large amounts of money. Her last indever she stated her own business, but doesnt seem to care if she sells anything or not. She has lost all care about it now. We get along great as long as I do what she wants. I love her and I try to make her happy. I am no tperfect but I think I do a great job at being a husband and a father. The thing that is hurting my love for her is the sudden outbreaks, she picks fights for no reason. These arent little fights they are strange. Jealousy,i dont treat her as good as everyone else, I dont help her around the house ect. There is no talking to her she boistrally laughs if I try and defend any actions,and she usaully makes no sense in her arguments. I try and walk away from her when I can. But she turns from the sweetest most mature person to the coldest most immature person. I have many ex. If anyone would like to discusss further. Is this bipolar?