Of course he's beautiful lol look at me and his fathern

Haha a girl that knows how to accept a compliment ! I love it!

Pregnant and feeling totally perdy today!!!

I loove pregnant woman seriously at work i'll see one and go up to em and be like awwww how far along are you!

Well I totally agree with biracial relationships hun..I have only been with one white guy and thats my babies fther ..Ironically.. I have always dated black guys..My mom at frst was a little edgy but when I brought respectful guys over she was fine..Hun its not you and your boyfriend against eachother its you guys agianst everyone else..And if you guys can overcome that its a wonderful thign..Dont goive up..

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marisa

I know what you mean. My sisters and I are biracial (asian and caucasion), and my dad's side of the family (asian side) was sooooooooo mad at my dad when he first brought my mother home. They learned to *accept* her but they absolutely love my sisters and i. And now that my parents are divorced, my grandparents and my aunts are still polite and nice to her! I hope that your family will one day come to grips with the fact that there's nothing you can do about biratial babies or marriages... Just as mine did!
~sam

Well, about 3 months ago, I missed my period completely (i'm now regular again). My boyfriend is biracial and we thought I was pregnant. Let it be known that i'm almost 16 and he's 20!! Anyway, my mom wouldn't of had a problem with it. Infact, when I told her I thought I was pregnant, that woman was picking out names, lol. My mom's side of the family is really cool, they are okay with biracial relationships. My uncle has 4 biracial children with a black woman. But my dad's side of the family...I wouldn't be so sure about them. My dad passed away in 2003 and he never liked the fact of mixing races in relationships. Although, he had many black, mexican, and asian friends. I know he would sh*t if he knew I was with a biracial person, but I think he would've learned to accept it. I know when my baby came, he would've been proud of me. Don't worry about what your parents say...They will learn to accept your situation in the end. Plus, as soon as your baby is born, they will fall deeply in love with it. It's a guaruntee.

I agree...My sister was living with her mom in kansas and when she found out my sister was pregnant she was mad but when she found out the dad was from pakistan...She kicked my sister out and said that her and her stepfather were disgusted..Then she had to come live with us and they didn't talk to her for 3 months..Blah blah blah..But now he is here and her mom can't go a couple of weeks without seeing him.
It will all work out. She was so afraid to tell the rest of the family she was even pregnant because of the things her mom was saying...She finally decided to tell our grandma and the day she called my grandma had passed away just a few hours before.
-valleri

Sry val........
Like I love me some black men and spanish men my parnets dont approve of it well more my dad then my mom but I dont care if I like da person im gonna b with him no matter what and now im messin w/ a spanish guy and my dad dont like it he calls me names and caca so I dont kno but I dont think I could see my self with a white man but who knows

I'd be disowned & thrown out of my house for good

I just dont get it I mean I even just called my mom I guess I was just raised differently... I mean my mom would be okay with a biracial baby and so would i. I mean I wouldnt even look at them differently.... I just dont get it...

I dont get why people dont like it... Its just a skin color it doesnt mean anything.....

Me either. I never understood. Like really I dont, whats the difference?? Its not like your baby is half donkey or horse!!

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gaby

In my family it was unheard of and my family always had high hopes that we would "stick to our own kind" I fulfilled that family wish, because that too is what I wanted. I dont have anything against the other race, and I have been with the other races, more recently than I wish I could say. And I dont see anything wrong with it. But my sister got pregnant by a black man mind you, and that started family issues that will never die. My uncle is the most prejudice of all however, always saying the n word and he is simply not a nice man. He is nice to them to there faces, but mean back. Larry was raised in a family like that too. It stinks...

Im here if you wanna talk.

Sorry to hear about your situation sweetie, hopefully things will get better for ya, maybe if you get pregnant it will bring your two families together. You never know, good luck!

~<3becca

lol sam, I thought asian's liked caucasion's though! I know my asian family would love it if I married a caucasion, but anything other than that and asian, my parents would disown me

It was your choice to go out with him and you did because you liked him and now you are pregnant and your family will just have to deal. They can't force their opinions on you. If you love him or like him then it your life and now they can't stop you from seeing him. I hope you 2 are very happy together and have a beautiful baby.





~meghan~

Thank you so much for all your advice and support!!! You girls are so great I am still going to be with my boyfriend no matter what my family or anyone else says...Although I wish things just didn't have to be like this because dissapointing my family is the last thing I want....I love them so much and feel like i've already dissapointed them more than they deserve (not with just this situation, but other times in my life as well ) *sigh*...But I really care about my boyfriend and know that he's a good person that deserves to be loved, cared for, and treated with respect by everyone, especially my family.
I thought your family was supposed to support you when you find someone that is really good to you and makes you happy?--but I dunno, guess this might of changed without my knowledge :p don't get me wrong, my parents are usually so great about supporting and being there for me in almost everything--thats what makes this even harder.....

My foster families accepted me and im mixed (though u wuldnt kno it looking at me) so when I had a bi-racial child my foster parents (the only good set I ever had) were very supportive

My best friends little girl, shataya, is biracial and she's sooo adorable! I'm sorry about your situation hon I never understood why some parents or just people in general can get so upset over something like that..I mean what's the big deal? People piss me off sometimes lol