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MiracleIn2004

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Location: Louisiana
I'm So Tired of Him
Posted: 11-03-04 19:45pm

My boyfriend makes me so upset. Everytime he is with his stupid friends he think that is a reason to treat me like shyt. He hangs up on me and says whatever and I hate it, seriously i'm crying so hard right now. I hate him so much but I am scared to lose him cause he is my heart and I love him so much but he has no right to treat me like he does...At times I wanna leave him so bad but I cant cause he is my world and without him I dont know what would happen...But I hate how he treats me sometimes, some days he can be a angel but I guess today wasnt on of those days Crying
or Very sad Evil or
Very Mad
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LHSbabe0207

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Joined: 24 Oct 2004
Posts: 632
Location: Louisiana girl!!!

Posted: 11-03-04 19:48pm

Gurl! I would str8 up confront his a$$!!! No lie! No guy is suppose to treat a woman like that!
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linuxChique

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Posted: 11-03-04 19:48pm

Aw i'm sorry sweetie!! Have you talked to him about it? Like sat him down and had a good heart to heart?
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LHSbabe0207

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Location: Louisiana girl!!!

Posted: 11-03-04 19:50pm

Im real sorry about your situation. Guys r just asses sometimes.. Evil or
Very Mad
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bellax0x

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Joined: 10 Jun 2004
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Location: Jersey Baby!

Posted: 11-03-04 19:50pm

Aw you dont deserve that sweetie!! Talk tohim about it!

<3
gaby
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MiracleIn2004

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Joined: 02 Feb 2004
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Location: Louisiana

Posted: 11-03-04 19:52pm

I told him about it and I was like you do it all the time when you are with your little friends, he like do what? No I don't....All of a sudden he gets amnesia or something, and it angers me off so bad. And if I say I will call him back on the phone he gets upset. Like tinight I told him I was gonna call him back cause I was gonna give dj his bath and he was like why? Why? I was like cause I am just gonna call you back. He was like no thats fine dont call me back and hung up in my face. Crying
or Very sad then when he called back he got mad cause I didnt answer! Hello didnt you just hang up in my face and I am supposed to run when you call???!!!! Umm no. Evil or
Very Mad
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GuitarJade

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Joined: 02 Oct 2004
Posts: 330
Location: Pennsylvania

Posted: 11-03-04 19:52pm

Awwwwwwwwww honey. I know what you mean. Boys can be so... So .I.C.K.Y sometimes! But if he's going to treat you like that, do you honestly need him? I know you love him and it's hard, but what are you going to do? Do you honestly want to live like that for the rest of your life?My dad basically did the same thing to my mom and now she has a major inferiority complex from it (she's finally getting better though... Thanks to my step-dad). I don't want you to end up like that! Love is hard... Life is hard... And it sucks. Feel better honey... And if you ever need to talk, i'm here. *hugs*
~sam
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bellax0x

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Posted: 11-03-04 20:07pm

Wow huni, you deff dont deserve that!! He needs a reality slap! Maybe you should take a break? Idk only you know whats best

<3
gaby
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linuxChique

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Posted: 11-03-04 20:24pm

Whoa. That's wrong.
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IDABABY

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Location: ***Wisconsin Baby***

Posted: 11-03-04 20:42pm

Ouch!!! That is horrible.... Crying
or Very sad Crying
or Very sad
last weekend my boyfriend was in the car, and I was telling my friend chris something..That "adam says, tonight you are his in bowling". And then adam got all pissed and was like you doing it health forum, didnt mean it like that...Gay. And I cried all night about him calling me a doing it health forum..It was just the doing it that was in front of health forum that really hurt. After we talked about, things seem to get a hell of a lot better.

Kristin
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linuxChique

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Posted: 11-03-04 20:58pm

Aw thats so mean!
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jessamyn

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Posted: 11-03-04 21:00pm

I dated a guy like that it was messed... Trust me babe you can find someone better you like think that you love him so much and because of that you wont find someone else better but you can! But if your willing to go thru it with him sit him down and tell him how it is.. Tell him you want to be a part of this relationship but he needs to open his eyes to reality and know how you feel and what it does to you that no matter how angelic he is aside from people he looses those points when he is with ppl... Your better than that!
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IDABABY

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Posted: 11-03-04 21:01pm

Wow, that sounds like a huge...Tongue twister...I just reread my post hehe.
Kristin
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bellax0x

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Posted: 11-03-04 21:05pm

Aww imsorry to both of ya! I love you and will always be nice to you! =)

<3
gaby
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nippz

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Re: I'm So Tired of Him
Posted: 11-04-04 00:29am

miraclein2004 wrote:
i hate him so much but I am scared to lose him cause he is my heart and I love him so much but he has no right to treat me like he does...At times I wanna leave him so bad but I cant cause he is my world and without him I dont know what would happen...But I hate how he treats me sometimes, some days he can be a angel but I guess today wasnt on of those days Crying
or Very sad Evil or
Very Mad


wow those words. I know exactly how you feel Sad I hope everything looks up between you two. And I know it's hard because im going through the same thing .. Every..Single..Day.
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MiracleIn2004

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Joined: 02 Feb 2004
Posts: 203
Location: Louisiana

Posted: 11-04-04 00:34am

When im with him I feel so good about myself and when he treats me bad I just brush it off cause I cant live without him and I dont wanna lose him. Like he cheated on me b4 but I forgave him cause without him I am nothing...And my son needs his father.
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nippz

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Posted: 11-04-04 00:36am

miraclein2004 wrote:
when im with him I feel so good about myself and when he treats me bad I just brush it off cause I cant live without him and I dont wanna lose him. Like he cheated on me b4 but I forgave him cause without him I am nothing...And my son needs his father.


Crying
or Very sad same here. Cheated one me twice, I forgave him, but I wasn't preggo then. But now if he cheats on me again, i'd have to forgive him, 'cuz like you said, without him im nothing, too and my daughter needs a father. Blah
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hm_03

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Joined: 30 Apr 2004
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Location: Massachusett

Posted: 11-04-04 12:14pm

Wow sorry to hear that you girls are going through this it must be so tough I can't relate because i'm not going through it (thank god) but I can imagine how you must feel inside.

It sucks to have to say that you will forgive him because you won't be nothing with out him and your baby needs a father. But what about your happiness does that even matter? I have seen so many single moms out there that made an effort to make it on their own, yes it's a struggle nothing comes easy but they never once gave up and continue to be the best mom and dad they can be.
I feel so bad because you girls are hurting so much inside. I think if you are willing to work things out you need to talk to him straigth up and if he acts like an a** in front of his friends tell him "this is exactly what i'm talking about how you be acting". I just hope he doesn't act even more stupid but if he was smart he will realize that it's not cool at all.

I'm sorry you girls are going through this

cyber *hugs* to all you girls
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bellax0x

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Location: Jersey Baby!

Posted: 11-04-04 12:18pm

Aww nobody should have to take that! Crying
or Very sad

<3
gaby
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samismama

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Posted: 11-04-04 12:35pm

Heres my dilemma, ive never had a problem with jimmy being with "hos" (seriously thats wat they are not prostitutes though hehe) as long as he always comes home to me... Problem is I haven't seen him in a week, when I call him I hear a girl in the background, im sick of it now!!! I swear its the girl that is always talking to him (on the cell phone and I pay that bill grrr) and is pissy when she wont talk to her when I need something and hes on the phone with her, but the thing is I love him so much and he really is a sweet guy, he just has women issues so I doubt ill ever leave him
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