Kia
Supporter
Joined: 23 Jun 2004
Posts: 6594
Location: Planet Tampaxia,
|
Life & Death Surgury*bump For People Who Asked*
Posted: 11-03-04 14:51pm
|
|
|
|
Hey girls got rushed to hospital from work
on wednesday afternoon, got scanned on
thursday and had emergency surgury.
Apparently when I was born I did not
develop right hand side reproductive
organs so I had only one ovary, one tube
and only half a uterus, my pains were from
baby expanding and rupturing my remaining
uterus and bleeding and amniotic fluid in
my abdominal cavity.
The surgeon was unable to save baby, or my
uterus.
Short story - I have never been able to
have and will never have children!
My surgeon saved my ovary so I shouldn't
need hormone treatment.
Technically right now I am in hospital
still, but I have "run away" and come home
providing I go back every day for check
ups. After all I ony left intensive care
3 days ago. I'm quite shaky and stiff
and sore still.
If any one would like me to post my pics
of baby .Oliver .Reece b&d 28/10/04
(18 1/2 weeks) let me know.
Last edited by Kia on 11-16-04 13:47pm; edited 1 time in total
|
|
|
|
|
 |
|
babyrae
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 19 Jan 2004
Posts: 2957
Location: Manitoba, Canada
|
Posted: 11-03-04 14:54pm
|
|
|
|
|
Omg kia I am soooooooooooooo sooooooooo
sorry hun! Omg I cried when I read this.
I dont even know what to say. Im so sorry
hun. I would love to see a pic of ur
baby... Oh jeez hunny we're here for u..
Anytime u need to talk im so sorry
shauna
|
|
|
|
|
|
Kia
Supporter
Joined: 23 Jun 2004
Posts: 6594
Location: Planet Tampaxia,
|
Posted: 11-03-04 14:57pm
|
|
|
|
|
Thanks i'm gonna need you girls to get
through this
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
JeNNy985
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 21 Oct 2004
Posts: 295
Location: INDIANA!!!
|
Posted: 11-03-04 14:57pm
|
|
|
|
|
I'm am so very sorry! Did they not see
those problems when you first got
pregnant?? We are all hear for
you..Whatever you need! And you make
sure you go to the doctor when you are
supposed to! Only post pics if you are
comfortable doing it! Remember even if
you want to vent..We're hear to listen!
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
smith8500
Especially EHEALTHy
Joined: 17 Sep 2003
Posts: 6623
Location: Louisiana
|
Posted: 11-03-04 15:00pm
|
|
|
|
|
I'm in tears. I am so, so sorry. I
don't even know what to say to you. I
am so horribly sorry. I wish I knew what
to say to make you feel better......
I'm sorry hun. So, so, sorry.
If you are confortable posting pics, i'd
love to see. If not, I totally
understand. Huni.....I'm sorry. We're
all here for you and I hope we can help
you through this rough time! Always with
you.
Chanda
Last edited by smith8500 on 11-03-04 15:03pm; edited 2 times in total
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
bd1012
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 31 May 2004
Posts: 1998
|
Posted: 11-03-04 15:00pm
|
|
|
|
|
Omg! That must have been some shocking
news to swallow.. All these years not
knowing. I am so sorry!
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
Ellie6388
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 26 Oct 2004
Posts: 201
Location: Destin Fl
|
Posted: 11-03-04 15:02pm
|
|
|
|
|
Ohh my that is the most horrible thing I
have ever heard... I am so sorry you are
in my prayers
|
|
|
|
|
|
linuxChique
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 05 May 2004
Posts: 4535
|
Posted: 11-03-04 15:05pm
|
|
|
|
|
 i'm soooo sorry
girl! I was so excited for you about this
baby. I know that is devastating news,
and you better believe we will be here for
you every inch of the way in healing from
the physical and emotional pain and
scarring this must have caused. If you
need anything from us, please don't
hesitate to ask! We are here for you!
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
babyluvwu
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 25 Sep 2004
Posts: 509
Location: Charlotte, NC
|
Posted: 11-03-04 15:18pm
|
|
|
|
|
Oh my gosh kia I am crying! That is so
horrible and unexpected. How are you
feeling? Are you physically hurt at all?
Aww kia I am so sorry I will pray for
you that things will get better ok!
If you ever need anything dont hesitate to
pm me or email me: aer
isangel88@hotmail.Com
~<3becca
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
Michelle1337
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 04 Aug 2004
Posts: 1739
Location: Houston, Texas
|
Posted: 11-03-04 15:27pm
|
|
|
|
|
Omg kia I am sooo sorry! I am at a loss
for words! *hugs* I am sooooo sorry!!!!
You are definitely in my prayers
honey...
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
mommaashley
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 26 Oct 2004
Posts: 420
Location: Canada
|
Posted: 11-03-04 15:40pm
|
|
|
|
|
Omg im so sorry to hear that! You and
your family and everyone will be in my
thoughts and prayers. Be good and stay
safe. Were all here for you.
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
cherriegurl
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 11 Jul 2004
Posts: 1218
Location: Washington state
|
Posted: 11-03-04 15:41pm
|
|
|
|
|
I dont know what to say to u girlie. We
love u and we will be here for u forever!!
If u would like to post pics please do I
would love to see.. I will also be
praying for u.
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
IDABABY
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 12 Mar 2004
Posts: 2236
Location: ***Wisconsin Baby***
|
Posted: 11-03-04 15:42pm
|
|
|
|
|
Wow kia, I knew there was something wrong
with you when you werent coming online
anymore. I love ya girlie, I wish there
was something that I could do to say to
make you feel better, im so sorry for your
loss. Dont say that you can never have
any children, because you did...You have a
child and thats oliver...My baby and your
baby are up in heaven playing together.
Really! I would love to see pictures of
him!!! *hugs*
kristin
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
mooma2binmarch
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 19 Oct 2004
Posts: 89
|
Posted: 11-03-04 15:43pm
|
|
|
|
|
You named him oliver reece? Thats a cute
name. If posting pics would help you
feel free.....I'm so sorry
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
oangelc543
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 25 Sep 2004
Posts: 521
Location: TX
|
Posted: 11-03-04 15:55pm
|
|
|
|
|
Kia, I don't know what to say...I'm crying
for you, because this is the most awful
thing I have ever heard.. You have been a
true friend to me in the short time I have
known you, and I want you to know that if
you ever need anything, i'd be so grateful
to help you out..
I'm so sorry.. I'll be praying for you
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
rissalee21
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 01 Feb 2004
Posts: 526
Location: michigan
|
Posted: 11-03-04 15:59pm
|
|
|
|
|
Awe kia honey I am sooo sorry my prayers
are with you .. Im always here if you
need anyone to talk to..Dont be a stranger
hun..Keep your head up you have wonderful
people here to help..
<3
marisa
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
lauren22
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 24 Jun 2004
Posts: 647
Location: Alabama
|
Posted: 11-03-04 16:02pm
|
|
|
|
|
Nothing we say can take away your pain,
but just remember we are all here for you!
I'm so sorry for your loss!
Lauren
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
lilmama2b_oct04
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 01 Mar 2004
Posts: 1970
Location: Wisconsin
|
Posted: 11-03-04 16:19pm
|
|
|
|
|
Oh my god!! Im sooo soo sorry!!! We are
all here for you. Whenever you need us,
we will always be here for you. I just
wanna cry for you so bad. I would like to
see pics if you are comfortable sharing.
 I
knew something was up cuz you werent here
for awhile, I was really starting to worry
about you... I
just cant believe that happened!
|
|
|
|
|
|
Kia
Supporter
Joined: 23 Jun 2004
Posts: 6594
Location: Planet Tampaxia,
|
Posted: 11-03-04 16:59pm
|
|
|
|
|
The physical side is that I have 20
staples running down the middle of my
belly and a drain wound to let out the
infection I caught (oh joy).
I am suprisingly mobile given the extent
of my surgury - I was in theatre for 4 and
a half hours.
But really gross is that beacuse I haven't
eaten - hospital food is grim and they
only give you warm tap water to drink - I
never drink tap water and that's why I
have "run away". So it means that I am
pooing and puking dark green slush! But
this will stop when I get some "real food"
in me.
My first food was a mcdonalds mcflurry on
the way home.
Oh yeah and my boobs keep leaking.
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
LHSbabe0207
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 24 Oct 2004
Posts: 632
Location: Louisiana girl!!!
|
Posted: 11-03-04 17:03pm
|
|
|
|
|
Oh my lord! Im so sorry gurl!!!
|
|
|
|
|
