Man sounds like you're better off without him!!

Im sorry ka! You dont need him if he is gonna treat you like crap!! There's other fish in the sea!

I agree with the others. Dont be sad =(

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gaby

Wow that really sucks i'm so sorry to hear that.

He is no good if you're the one that has to pull money out all the time. I mean it's no big deal if it's the two of you where at times he pays or you pay but when it's you all the time that sucks. He is no man and like erin said you are better off with out him.

Hopefully he'll realize what he is losing and you don't have to marry him right? Like are the two of you together?????

If I dont stick with him, i'll dissapoint all my family again and they'll laugh and say "i told you so".

My family is so critical. Getting pregnant at a young age was their worst nightmares. The last thing they expected me to do, because everyone in the family had gotten pregnant young, too, and they didn't want me ending up like them, being a single parent mother with no job, stressing all the time borrowing money from parents.

I let everyone down. And the only way to prove to them that I can still succeed in life is if I finish my education, graduate, and live happily ever after with al.

Ka, how old is this "boy" ( he should be a man considering he's about to be a dad) ? Is he in cali? You are so young and beautiful (inside and out) i'm sure you will find someone much better to be apart of you and kaila's life!

He's 18. He was 17 when he got me preggy, though. He's in jersey right now and i'm expecting him to come here along with my mom, when i'm about to deliver, but he's been a real problem lately and is changing his mind. Thank you so much, that made me feel a little better (:

Grr and u know what I realized? Im like .. "the man" of the relationship! I used to always pay for food whenever we went out! Gas for .H.I.S. Car! And on valentines day I got him a gift and I got nothing and I even had to pay for my share of dinner. [/quote

youre a pretty cute man ka! Lol just kidding, hun I think you need to let him go already hes done nothing for you and the lil one but make you cry and get upset. I know that family is important to you *if not the most important thing* but you need to do whats best for you and kaila


meg

Ka- I know what you mean about "dissappointing" your family... Kinda runs in the asian bloodline (i know, i'm korean). I, along with the other girls here, know that it's going to be tough, but you need to quit thinking that you let everybody else down. If he's so immature and unsupportive, why do you need him? He won't do anything but pull you down and make you cry. You and your baby don't need that. I know that you think that you can prove to your family that you're not a "failure" is to finish school (which is definitely a good idea anyways) and live "happily ever after" with the boy, but that's soooooooooooo totally not true. You just be the best mom you can be and do the best you can for you baby and that'll be the .B.E.S.T thing!!!!!

Im sorry ka!! *hugs* I hope things start looking up for you..Dont worry about him, youve got me and I love ya!!

Kristin

Aww thanks girls *cyber hugs*

Dont marry someone to please your family. Thats something you have to live with. Youre so young, and you dont need someone who doesnt treat you right.

I know it must be hard with family and that you are so young. I know the last thing you want is for them to think your're a failure. But yes you better finish school get your education and if al is not the one who will make you happy then you can kick him to the curb. I hope this baby will bring you both together but if not then you will have to just ignore what everyone thinks because your happiness should come first and the babies well being.

I had an asian friend and her parents were like that too, but she did not get pregnant but this guy she was dating they expected them to get married. But they didn't she's a bad girl.

I told you he was a friend babe! But I know you cant help but love him :-/ has he called? Or anything yet? This baby is not a game and he needs to realize that good and hard... He cant treate you this way! I love you baby girl!