hi..my boyfriend of almost 2yrs have been talking bout a 3sum .i never done this stuff before.he used to tell me he loved me and when he looks at other girls he sees me but now its different he dont tell me he loves me he calls but mostly txts me when he feels like it.i ask him if he lost intrest in me but he says no i never could loose intrest...i want to know is there something wrong with me?...i mean at 1st i kinda wanted to try a 3sum but now it seems like i need to do it to keep him..i dont no wat to do anymore im so stressed.i have a history of being suicidal and im scared if he gets the other girl pregnant or likes her better like he said he wont cuz he has feelings for me but im not sure.im scared i might selfharm myself.can anyone help?
I know how you feel. My boyfriend wants a three some too and it sucks because the thought of him doing sexual things, to another girl, right in front of me.. That's just weird and uncomfortable. The good thing is: it's probably nothing to do with you and how you measure up in bed. Guys just want three somes because they see it in porn and things like that. It's a fantasy to them.. they just want to fulfill it and they don't realize that by asking us, they're risking a lot. I honestly never thought I would have a three some and I still don't think I ever will.. there's too many feelings involved if two of the people are a couple. Good luck!!
awww well thank u so much for replying back.they really are risking alot jus to be with another gurl.i jus dont know wat to say to them.they can be real dumb.i hope things go well on ur end too.lifes too damm short for all this drama..good luck with everything
My husband has asked me the same thing and I.am still in shock that he wants another women , I love him so much that if it was me I couldn't imagine myself with another man , just knowing that he wants something like that makes me feel like he doesn't really love me , if he actually did he wouldn't want anybody else but ,me. ..
I've been in a ton of relationships, some long term, some short term and I've never had a man ask me for a threesome. I have had my friend's boyfriends ask me for a threesome, to which I've always replied "no thank you." Maybe all men fantasize about a threesome but not all men ask. A man that wants to have sex with another woman is saying you're not enough. They can use any excuse they want - excitement, boredom, fantasy, whatever - but at the end of the day, sex with you is not enough. And that's fine. I believe in calling a spade a spade and people have a right to do what makes them happy. Including you. You have a right to be happy and if your bf wants a threesome, regardless of what you want, then you're not going to be happy. Move on before you waste any more of your valuable life with the selfish @ss.