Embarrassed, Please Help Me Posted: 11-01-04 17:23pm
This is such an embarrassing thing to talk
about. The thing is, i'm 20 and I don't
know what a vagina is supposed to look
like. I mean as far as health is
concerned, I know you'll all tell me they
all look different. I don't know the
names of the parts... Down there. All I
know is it looks disgusting to me. There
are these draping pieces of skin on either
side of the opening that are wrinkly and
hang down an inch or so. Is this a
normal thing? What are the names of the
parts? I can't imagine a guy ever
wanting to look at that mess.
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catch22
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 27 Oct 2004 Posts: 3 Location: tuscaloosa
Posted: 11-01-04 22:35pm
!!!!!
I just wrote a post about this less than a
week ago.
You need to check out some books girl!
Try the book I recomended to catch 22.
Get female part of the body, by inga
musico, this will give you a 180 on how
you feel, cause that attitude needs to
change!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Get: our bodies, our selves.
Search the web for femminist based
publishers. The is one in california ( I
forget the name) that has all these books
and more.
Read read read, and learn to love
yourself!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!1
darkv
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PattyV
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 01 May 2004 Posts: 1103 Location: Chicago area
Posted: 11-03-04 13:03pm
Oh,honey!!I feel so badly that you feel
that way about your body!Get yourself "the
vagina monologues" by eve ensler.She had
interviewed many women about their
vaginas-some in their 80's!!!It is a great
book and it will help you to see that your
vagina is not an ugly thing.Those draping
hanging things are your labia majora.If
you get a mirror and sit on the
floor,you'll be able to see your vagina
and your other parts.Inside the labia
majora are the labia monora and if you
open these,you will see your vagina.Right
above your vaginal opening is a little
protrusion of skin-if you touch it,it
should become erect.Like a penis.This is
your clitoris-the only part of the body
designed exclusively for pleasure ....And
we have it!!!!Not men.They have a penis- a
dual purpose organ-used to urinate and
copulate.We lucky women are the ones to
have this beautiful part.And so many do
not know what it is capable of doing!!If
you feel your vagina is ugly ,how can you
possibly enjoy sex??I hope you will get
one of the books recommended, educate
yourself on your body and how it
works!!!Best of luck to you!!Patty
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swimmer
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 10 Nov 2004 Posts: 65 Location: Utopia
Posted: 11-10-04 14:05pm
And thats what barnes and nobles is
for...Get some coffee and find a good book
on the human anatomy- nothing to be
embarrassed about or ashamed- its there
honey and you better get acquainted with
it cause its not going away! When in
doubt, whip out a mirror and take a peek
down below- every woman should at one time
or another-
