Hey guyz I just wanna ask u for some
advice
i had been going out with this girl for a
bit more than 3 years and she always told
me how I was all that she ever wanted and
that she was really happy with me...Just
recently she broke up with me and I really
want her back.
I know ive done a few wrong things but I
never intended to hurt her...I usually
dont say when things bother me and I just
keep it inside but sometimes I can say
things I dont mean...And she tells me that
she still loves me but she dont wanna be
with me and shes been going out a lot and
shes always talking on her cell and when I
asked her who she was talking to she says
its none of my business...We have been
thru so much caca together and now she
dont want me anymore...We almost had a
baby that she aborted because she didnt
feel ready to have a kid...I cried so much
over it trying to convince her to keep
him...And now shes been hanging with this
latino dude and when I ask her who is he
she says hes just a friend but she tells
other pple that they are dating
hes short and ugly(not saying this cuz im
jealous but other pple say it too)...And I
was talking to her and he was hitting on
her with me right there...I felt like
killing the fu**er...Just didnt say one
word cuz I respect her and I didnt want to
hurt her
she tells me that she just wants to have
fun and meet new pple...And maybe she'll
come aback to me...
I feel so worthless and I cant get over
what has happend
i tried to tell her that I have changed
and that I know what I did wrong and that
it wont happen but she just wants to make
me suffer...Shes so saddistic...I love her
so much and it kills me inside knowing
shes with that a**hole...I have spent so
many days crying and she says that im over
reacting
i dont know what to do anymore cuz I feel
that im letting go of everything around
me... Plz help me
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FairyLexi
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 04 Jun 2004 Posts: 398 Location: chicago
Posted: 11-01-04 14:38pm
What did you do that made her desided to
leave you?
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BbyBlu0602
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 10 Feb 2004 Posts: 822 Location: Virginia
Posted: 11-05-04 16:52pm
Well, I can see that you honestly do care
about her if you respect her enough to let
her be. My advice to you would be, let
her go and see if she comes back. If she
doesn't, then it wasn't meant to be.
Despite whatever you had done to her to
hurt her, I can see that you have a good
heart. There's nothing you can really
do. She just needs to think about
everything and realize either that she
wants to be with you or that she wants
something else. As for that latino guy
that people say she is dating, he's
probably just a rebound. She just got
out of a relationship with you and she's
just rebounding. I'd wait a few days and
just leave her alone...Not talk to her or
anything and then just out of the blue
give her a call and tell her that you guys
need to talk. It would be better if you
could talk in person so she couldn't just
hang up on you. Then, explain to her
that you know you did her wrong and hurt
her and explain your feelings to her and
how much you care about her and if you
really love this girl, you would be
willing to change whatever it is that
drove her away. If that's the case, then
tell her that you'll change whatever that
is...But only say it if you mean it.
Remember though, you aren't trying to get
her back by telling her all of this,
you're simply just stating your feelings
about everything. Then, ask her to think
about all the stuff you said and hopefully
she'll come to her senses and you guys
could have a second try at your
relationship.
