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fantasies

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Oral Sex...your Openions Needed.
Posted: 11-01-04 01:00am

Hi,
i want to know whether oral sex is a common sex activity or it is a dirty and wrong activity, explored by the porn movie makers. Actually my wife does not like to perform oral sex on me as well as on her. She says that it is wrong and dirty way of sex and not in common. I want to collect true opinions from you on the oral sex. If I found it wrong and uncommon then I will never force her to perform and if I found it a common and genuine sex activity then I will show your opinions to her. I?M sure, your valuable opinions will extremely help us to perform or leave the same.
Personally, I like it very much and feel that it is not wrong if done with proper cleanliness.
So, please give your true opinion and help us.
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soldierfletch

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Oral Sex
Posted: 11-01-04 05:39am

There is nothing wrong with oral sex between a loving couple. Sex is supposed to be fun and enjoyable, however if both partners do'nt agree don't do it. But to answer your question it is perfectly normal.
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sally20

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Oral Sex Is Great
Posted: 11-02-04 11:07am

:d
if you are married, then I dont see why she is so against it. However, I do know of women who dont like the idea of oral sex. I think its a case of her confidence with you as far as her body image goes. If you make her feel attractive, you will probably find she is more willing. The dirty and wrong label she has given oral sex, she is of course entitled to do, however it is not something stigmered, its more common than not.
Good luck
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darkV

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Posted: 11-02-04 12:16pm

Oral sex can feel great, its true, and yes I would agree it is normal. The best part about it however is how close it can bring you together. There is nothing more intimate and venerable and it really opens you up to one another. As soon as it is a comfortable thing it becomes kinda fun and can be a turn on for both partners. There is no reason not to explore with the one you love, but to push such a thing can ruin it completly.
Dark v
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doola

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Posted: 11-07-04 15:09pm

I like giving my husband oral sex I like pleasing him a watch his toes curl up sometime I go ahead and finish him off so we both can get some sleep.
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Granps

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Oral Sex...your Openions Needed
Posted: 11-12-04 07:21am

My current lady friend and I have oral sex before and after intercourse.
We kiss after I / her have oral. We call it "recycling". To some this may sound gross, but for us it works. I will perform oral on her and finger her "g" spot, which maximize her climax, again. She and I don't have any hang ups about our sexual relationship. Having said that, we find we can discuss everyday differencess without arguing.
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oldbroad

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Re: Oral Sex...your Openions Needed
Posted: 11-15-04 09:55am

granps wrote:
my current lady friend and I have oral sex before and after intercourse.
We kiss after I / her have oral. We call it "recycling". To some this may sound gross, but for us it works. I will perform oral on her and finger her "g" spot, which maximize her climax, again. She and I don't have any hang ups about our sexual relationship. Having said that, we find we can discuss everyday differencess without arguing.

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gramps, you sound like my kind of guy. Smile
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PattyV

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Posted: 11-15-04 11:32am

Oral sex is only dirty and wrong if you or your partner think it is!!!If you have been brought up to have sexual hang ups, it is hard to reprogram your mind to think otherwise.That's a shame,because many sexual taboos are cultural and what we may see as taboo is common in other cultures and viceversa.I do not think oral sex is wrong,quite the opposite!My husband and I enjoy it almost as much as intercourse!!If your wife is not willing to give or recieve,there is not much you can do .She needs to make her mind up on her own!Patty
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kitty2luv

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Posted: 11-15-04 12:12pm

Oral sex is ok if u like doing it and are not forced to do oral( I was foursed by men to do it on them) but if im in the mood I will give it
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Granps

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Oral Sex
Posted: 11-15-04 12:34pm

Baby, you sound like my kind of women., too. Lets not lighten Sad Smile up everybody's hope until we have chance to get more3 aquainted. Smile
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kitty2luv

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Posted: 11-15-04 12:43pm

Baby, you sound like my kind of women., too. Lets not lighten up everybody's hope until we have chance to get more3 aquainted. .............
Pm me some time
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Granps

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Oral Sex...your Openions Needed
Posted: 11-15-04 13:06pm

Oldbroad
i danm sure could be if this would work 4 u ?
I like an older lady that has had her sexual experiences and knows what she likes.
It certaintly make the trip more desirable.
By the way, do u like oral. I love giving it both ways and afterwards.
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kitty2luv

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Posted: 11-15-04 13:19pm

Umm im more giving I dont like reciving thats just me
i danm sure could be if this would work 4 u ????/ huh
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Granps

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Kitty2luv
Posted: 11-15-04 13:35pm

Kitty.
Are you following me? 4 a 17 yr old you are really pushing it. Why don't you concentrate on an education. Then you can have all the sex you'll ever want..
Caution: sex doesn't cum without complications, either. Find a friend to share and care with.
It has taken me 28 yrs to find a women that pleasure me, both sexually and emotionally. Trust is very important, too. I have granted a lot of responsibilty to her, also.
Just be careful.
Don't give it away.
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Granps

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Oldbroad
Posted: 11-15-04 13:39pm

Danm sure could be if this would work 4 u ?
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kitty2luv

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Posted: 11-15-04 13:44pm

If wat would work for me???
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Granps

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Kitty2luv
Posted: 11-15-04 14:19pm

U hitting on me? Why I have grand children older that you.
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kitty2luv

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Posted: 11-15-04 15:52pm

No im not hitting on u sorry I just mis under stood what u were saying im sorry I can be such a blonde if ya kno what I mean sorry if u took it that way
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PattyV

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Posted: 11-15-04 18:00pm

Kitty-he's trying to make time with oldbroad,not you.Like he said,he has grandkids your age!!Like granps said,try focusing on your education,not so much on sex with guys who do not respect you and use you like a farm animal.I wish I had been more into school at your age,now i'm back in school at age 40!!!I'm glad i'm back in school,but it' so much harder with a full time job,family and other responsibilities.Listen to granps,he means well.Patty
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xConfusedx

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Posted: 11-19-04 12:59pm

Mmm oral sex...Now that is a good question. I used to think oral sex was gross and wrong..But when I actually thought about it...And let it be done..It really changed my mind. I really think oral sex is really great for the both of you. Tell your girl she is really missing out !!! But I think and know of wut I know...Oral sex is pretty common. And is not wrong.
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