The forum.. As in not respond to anything but my curiosity won't let me stay off completly so i'll be here... Just mostly lurking.. I never posted much to begin with but you won't be seeing my posts for days unless I really feel compelled to say something. Nothing really bad happened that caused this but I can tell that i'm not really wanted here and before when I left.. People that weren't involved in "it" didn't give a crap that I was going and they were actually relieved. I don't mean to seek attention or anything... That's not what I want but with all these people saying they are leaving sometimes and people begging them to come back and then I say i'm leaving and people who didn't even know about what happened showed that they didn't care... I can see if they were involved in "it" why they wouldn't care but...? I just don't feel welcome. Bye girls and i'll post whenever necessary but not often.
Plus there is too much hypocrisy and total uncoolness from some people on the board.. Not saying names. I mean..I see people praised by others for being "tell it like it is" and one of the same people who praised that person, bashed me for doing the same thing. My opinon just didn't happen to agree with the majority of others and that was why I was attacked.. It's "i'll praise you for being honest if what your honest opinion is agrees with mine" if honesty is appreciated then why was I told to keep my opinon to myself on some things? I really don't want to cause a rucus but some things happen on this board that I am just not cool with and I can't help but say something.. I mean speaking of rude.. What is the deal with bringing other peoples personal questions from other forums on here for you all to laugh at and why do you laugh at it? People don't come to a health forum for judgement.. They come for help and it's totally rude and immature to bring people's personal questions to a place where people can point and laugh and it's also rude to encourage it by laughing.. It wasn't put in this forum to begin with so it doesn't need to be here. I think that is twice as rude as I ever could be. You all like tell it like it is.. I'm giving it to you. I'm not trying to be mean.. I just needed to get it off my chest and i'm sorry if I offended anyone. You all jumped on newlife for assualting that nurse and yeah.. It wasn't the smartest thing to do or the maturest but neither is laughing at someone who wants help or needs help.. Or for any reason, there was no reason for it just like you all don't believe newlife had a reason to assualt the nurse yet you assault innocent people everytime you bring !**@! in here that don't belong. Do you at least understand where i'm coming from?
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I dont know what to say, because I never had anything against you or anything. Personally I have no problem with you staying! I'd like it if you stayed, I never had a problem with you. Well to me (from the pm) you seem like a sweetheart!
Well - I for one am sorry to see you go. Even though we dont agree on a lot of issues....
Every person adds a little something to this forum, and everytime someone leaves a little of what makes the forum so awesome leaves with them.
I totally agree with you about the stuff you said . . . I dont think anyone should ever make fun of anyone else for a question they asked. Or a post they made...How will people learn if they dont ask?
And about that thing about being honest. I agree with that aswell, people will jump down everyone elses throat about something if they dont agree.
The only thing that I disagree with slightly is the newlife thing...She shouldnt have hit that nurse. And as friends I feel that the people onthis forum were obligated to tell her that that wasnt right. Although, I stayed out of it.
But yeah, i'm sad to see you go - but if thats what you want...
I don't like some people on the forum. It's life. You just don't but I don't want to see you go. Everyone does a little something special for the forum to make it a great place. If you want to leave..... Go ahead. I understand. But you are welcome to stay!
Okay, this post was obviously talking about me.
I don't want you to go. Just because some people dont agree with you? If you want to tell it like it is, then tell it like it is.
As for joking about other people's personal questions. Yeah, I brought some on here from the men's sexual health forum that were obviously fake posts to begin with and were hillarious. Big deal? It isn't like I said john smith from 111 black road in rochester ny, telephone number 111-222-3333 asks, "......."
it is annonymous. Who cares? And most people who come to this forum just to ask a question never come back. And even if they do come back someone who just asked why their dick stinks in the men's sexual health forum isn't going to ever even come onto this forum and would never even know.
I really don't want to see you go, but this is just being very nitpicky.
Everyone cannot get along with everyone and that is just the way it is. Just don't worry about it.
This particular forum is about support but most of the other ones are just to ask questions. I would never take someone's serious question out of a serious forum and make fun of it. But when someone says, "my husband has sex with a tire tube what can I do?" come on now. Sorry, I cannot just let that one go as it was an obvious fake post to begin with.
P.S. I didn't see any post about you leaving. I am not on this forum 24/7 and I only read a couple of posts when I do come on so I am sorry I missed that one. I would have responded. But you know what when I was gone for two weeks only two people asked about me and that also hurt. I wasn't going to come back then either because I had put so much time and energy into this forum and then felt it was for nothing because no one even noticed I was gone. But, then I just decided to stop sulking and ignore it. Some people are just more popular by nature than others and I am just not one of the popular ones around here. I can accept that. If I help one person it was all worth it.
Bd why are you trying to start drama again? I mean I was totally fine with you and I thought you were being a normal forum poster for awhile. It's when you start doing stuff like this that I get annoyed. Not because it's something that you need to talk about, but because you seem to always want people to bend over backwards to understand you. Why do you let other people bother you so much? Let it go no matter what it is they did. Try not to look to deep into things. I just think you come off as a person who is extremely insecure and i'm not one to sit here and try to constently reasure people like that. I think we can all say that someone has offended them at one time on here, but we let it go. It's not a big deal. Do you understand that?
I'm not starting drama.. Didn't you see me say that in my post at least twice? I'm telling the truth.. This has been on my mind for a while and I needed to say something. If the truth is drama.. So be it.