Joined: 22 Oct 2004 Posts: 1089 Location: with my love
I Wanna Posted: 10-30-04 18:08pm
I wanna get out of here my dad is such a
suckers he blamed me for stealing his pot
what ughhhhh I wanna leave so bad I hate
him so much and my mommy wont leave him
all he does is drink and health forum at
me for every lil thing uhhhh I wanna cry
right now is soo bad ever since I was lil
he drank and made a fool out of our family
why cant he just stop huting us he calls
me and my mom and the other girls in the
family sluts what how can u say that about
yr wife and yr daughter? I wanna get a
gun and shoot him but I dont wanna spend
the rest of my life in jail mayb I will
move out with my friend her family is like
mine does any ever had the problem if so
what did u do abouit it
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TQuartz490
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 12 Jul 2004 Posts: 444 Location: New York City
Posted: 10-30-04 18:14pm
the best
thing u can do is calm down and understand
things could be worse. Relax and know
allah don't give u more than u can handle.
Take it easy hun because if u decide to
stress urself over it and bury it deep in
ur heart. Your only going to let him
win.
If I had a low tolerance for stupidity and
ignorance, I would of already been
floating in a river. So keep ur head high
gurl...Yeah it might be rough in the
beginning but these are experiences u
learn from and avoid..In life..
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linuxChique
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 05 May 2004 Posts: 4535
Posted: 10-30-04 19:16pm
Aw i'm sorry! Just hang in there!
You'll be able to get away soon!
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nippz
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 11 Sep 2004 Posts: 2173 Location: ,
Posted: 10-30-04 19:38pm
I know how you feel. My father used to be
abusive and curse at me, my siblings and
my mother.
I know it's not easy to get over it, but
he's ur father. If he has a heart deep
inside him, he will change for the better.
I mean ever since my mom got sick my dad
completely changed, well, he's still a
little health forum now and then ever
since I got preggo but yeah.
I stuck with my father through everything.
For everything he called me and my
mother. He used to say I was bad luck to
his life and even called me a dog! But I
stuck with it. My mom even left him,
brought my brother and sister to cali and
stayed there for seven months. She tried
to take me but they fought and my dad made
me stay with him. I tried committing
suicide and I used to always burn my arms.
I still have the scars and everytime I
look at them it just reminds me of when
that time period when my father treated me
like an animal.
He blamed me for phone bills, water bills,
electric, everything! Even gas! So I ran
away.. And I regret those times.
I know its hard when your father health
forum and blames you for everything, even
though you didnt do anything, but he's ur
father. Just be patient.
Don't do anything stupid, like I said,
wait till your a little older and if you
can't take it anymore, move out.
Im sure he has a good heart deep inside.
I didnt know my father did. I never knew
he loved me. But when I got pregnant, he
got so depressed. He even said "she
doesn't know how much I love her". I was
hurt, too. But I didn't say anything, he
treated me my mother and siblings like
caca!
Once he see's how great you and your
family are, he will realize all the bad
caca he did. If he see's..He will change
for the better. Just dont think your
alone on this.
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kitty2luv
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 22 Oct 2004 Posts: 1089 Location: with my love
I Kno Posted: 10-30-04 21:05pm
Nippz I tried killing my self plenty of
time espcially when I had my abortion I
have scars up my left arm and I hate
looking at them
i dont think he will ever change im 17 and
I have my own mind and I kno he cares but
dont show it and I want him to realize
what he does to us he calls my mom a
promiscuous person and me and that just f
uped and my lil sister grew up with him
treating us like caca and thats what I
hate I dont want her to go thorugh the
caca I went through and its hard I hide my
feelings alot because of him and I know
its hard haven a abusive father annd my
brother callees me a promiscuous person
and a person lover dont wanna use the
otyher word that ig yea I do luv me some
black men so what its non of there
business and the sapnish men too and I
cant really say I dont care cause I do but
I dont kno how much longer I can deal with
it .... My friend and her mom is more
then welcolm to take me and im really
thinking about it alot and its hard ...
Me and my father got into a fist fight a
couple times and my brother I dont take n
e caca from them
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IDABABY
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 12 Mar 2004 Posts: 2236 Location: ***Wisconsin Baby***
Posted: 10-31-04 15:10pm
Honey, just relax. You just have to deal
with things..Try avoiding him as much as
you can. If you can move out that is what
I would do...Do you have any other family
you could move in with?
Kristin
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jessamyn
Moderator
Joined: 18 Aug 2004 Posts: 4107 Location: San Diego, CA
