You should confront him...He might get angry that you were looking into his stuff. But you shouldnt put up with that...

Thats just my opinion..

What should I say. I don't want to be like hey I was looking through your stuff and what were you doing here or whatever. I dont know I am so off when it comes to stuff like that. I usaully just break up with him no matter what he says to save me the heartbreak and drama I am so confused about it.

Whitney

Huni, I dunno how to bring up the subject, but bring it up! You should not have to put up with that caca! Tell him something girl

You dont need to explain yourself. Or even tell him how you know, just ask him straight up..."what were you doing in a motel on the 24th?"

Call the hotel and ask them about it. Tell them you'll dispute the charge with your credit card company unless they tell you who stayed in that room. Tell them they can prove to you that it was a legit charge by verifying who stayed there. Ask what time they checked in and out.

If you threaten to dispute the charge, it means the hotel doesn't get paid. And they'll wanna get paid, so they just might tell you.

You girls have a lot more balls than me..Lol. I am scared. But I just asked him if he had sex with someone else and he said no...But really, would he tell me??? Hell no! Cause I wouldnt tell him..Lol. But I wouldnt do it. I dont know what to do tho. Cause if I lose him ill go crazy..But he wont just be losing me he'll be losing his son too until we go to court, so hopefully its a misunderstanding.


Another thing I looked up the motel and it doesnt exist, not a name, or a number at least not under the name the bank has it under, its not even in the phonebook. Does some motels go by different names or something?

Any advice? Anyone?

Anyone

Hey jeni, I dont know what you should do, but budget inn does exist in lousiana. I did a search on it. Theres one in jonesboro, la, and another in monroe, la, and another in gonzales, la.

I wish I had some advice on ur situation, but I dont know what to tell you.!!

These are the addresses of the budget inn's in louisiana!

2115 louisville ave
monroe la
71201
318-322-8161

and

305 allen ave
jonesboro la
71202
318-259-3022

and

2142 west highway 30
gonzales, louisiana 70737

<3 june

Thx, im whitney by the way not jeni..Lol.. :d . But ok one more thing this is the exact thing from the statement

10/26/2004 card purchase
budget inn motel marrero la 20.00

ok but there is no budget inn in marrero, I checked a thousand times and I called information. Now there are other motels thats why I asked if they put diff names. And 20.00 is only for those nasty pay by the hour motels so that makes me more pissed. I know this is really annoying to yall but I really would like input cause I have no one else to talk to about it right now.

Hey.... I dont know what I would do but you deffianly need to ask him about it... Where did you find his credit card bill?? If it was in the open say you didnt know what it was and looked at it and you saw the motel.....

Actually it was off his online banking thing on the net, he doesnt know that I know his social security #. So thats another reason I dunno how to approach him.

Wow I would deff say somthing to him

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gaby

Dont tell him how u know! Pretend like a "lil birdie" told u!!

Lol I know it sounds bad..But id be like my friend seen you walking out with someone..And use like reverse physcology..Haha it always works..I wish yah luck tho hunni

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marisa

That would make me really pissed off, if he never mentioned it to me. Wow, I am sorry that you have to be in that situation, definitly confront him about it...Hope it goes well!

Kristin

Yup! Don't tell him you looked at the statement. Tell him that you were called and told! And be like what!

yeah do that. I confront my boyfriend all the time when I see his msgs with other girls or if hes spending his money on his car again instead of me and the baby, and he gets pissed that I was hacking into his account and stuff, and how I dont trust him. So yeah tell him u heard from someone (;

Tell him that someone saw him and told you and u wanna know whats up... Heck I have balls of steel hahahahah i'll call the hotel for u like erin said!