Are u sure ur pregnant? How far along are you? Why does he think the baby will be odd?

Cuz he dose a lot of drugs and I aint had my period yet and its the end of the moth.

O.. Umm well i'd take a test to be sure you are pregnant, u might not even be pregnant at all

and as far as I know, his doing drugs won't affect the baby.. As long as you arent doing drugs then I think it's fine.

Thank god. But I did take the test twice first one came up posative then went to negative and the next one came up negative. But I asked my older sister about it and she asked if I touched the strep that you pea on and I told her I touched the first one and then the 2nd one it fell off so I put it back in.

Well false positives arent very common.. So i'd say your probably pregnant.. I dont think touching the stick does anything... Anyways, u should get a blood test done to be sure..

Naw it dose if you touch the strip it will come up false every time . And also I dont want my dad to know that I am cuz then he wont let me live w/my mom. He told me he'll send me away and I cant talk to my grandma cuz she'll make me have an abortion and I dont want to I medical question up the last time and killed my baby but I dident know I was and I dont want to lose this one like I lost my last one I was put under so much stress that I stopped eating and started smoking and doing things that your not suppose to do when your pregnant

Just dont stress out - maybe you should see a counselour weekly or something. Just so you can talk and keep yourself from doing those things.

Your grandmother cannot make you have an abortion. No one can...

How did u loose yr baby last time?? How old are you ?
And no one can make u have a abortion thats yr choice

I suggest taking another test..
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Yeah take another test because you never know. Try a blood test this time.

Thats going to be hard cuz my dad told me if I got pregnant one more time I wont get to move back in w/my mom. So I kow its not good to not see a doctor when your pregnant but I just want it to have a better life then me and I told my older sister and she said when I get biger I have to see a doctor. So I dont know what im going to do I told my b/f and he dident want to beleve it and I aint been able to get a hold of him sence yesterday hes probley getting drunk trying to get it off his mind cuz he'll get in trouble too if his dad found out.

No offense - I mean, I dont wanna start anything.

But if you didnt wanna get pregnant, then why did you continue to have sex? That was the risk you took when you decided to "pleasure" yourself. And you need to take the responsibility and own up to it. Sure, your dad may freak, but he will get over it with time. You cant just wait until your "bigger" to go to the doctor. You really need to go now . . .

You had sex, you need to deal with the consequences. You cant hide a baby forever. The sooner you tell your dad, the better.

With michelle I know I made stupid mistakes w/ haven sex unprotected and too much strees involved
i would tell your dad asap sooner the better

First, go to the doctor and have an ultrasound, let them run some tests to see if the baby is "odd" and yeah, you .N.E.E.D. To tell your father sooner or later, you can't hide it. And it's best if you tell him now instead of him finding out, trust me. I waited till I was 5 months pregnant to tell my father, I waited 4 months and a half to tell my mom. I completely regret it.

Oh yeah, about the dad/mom thing, if you knew that if you got pregnant again and all that drama, why didn't u be more careful? I dont wanna start anything either, just wondering. I mean, for me, I got pregnant without protection, and now I know of the consequences so i'm definitely gonna be careful next time. And even if you do use a condom or birthcontrol, they are not 100% effective. Jessamyn got pregnant using birthcontrol and a condom! Lol isn't that right my jessa (and I can't wait till dyllie is here!)?

Im with ka and michelle

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I agree! The sooner the better!

Well I was talking to a guy on the net and he likes me right so he told me its all in my head cuz I was going to meet him when I turned 16 but sense I think im pregnant I told him I cant cuz I may be pregnant and this time im not thinking for myself anymore if I am. So I went on the net and found out that I ovulated 2 days after I had sex so I asked a doc about it and I found out that sperm can live up to five days. I dont know I think im going to wait for about 2 more weeks and if I get any bigger then ill tell my mom first. Cuz right now my 9's are tight on me lol.

You need to get on some birth control, if you aren't pregnant.
Kristin