Just a Note....think About This. Posted: 10-29-04 23:30pm
I just have to say something. Someone
asked me tonight for some pictures of
tiffaney and i. (my sis that was mur
dered) and I only have like 3. And I want
to say why. Tiffaney and I had gotten in
a big, big fight one night and I was so
mad at her that I tore up every pic I had
of her and I together and I put them in an
envelpoe and gave them to her. After that
point, we only had like 3 or 4 pics taken
together cuz we just never thought to
"take pics" together. Well, the moral of
the story is. Everyone else has many,
many pics with tiffaney, but I only have 3
or 4. 5 at the most. Moral: don't ever
throw away pictures! You never, ever know
how valuable they may become.
~i dunno why I posted this, but I was
thinking about it tonight and wanted to
share!~
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nippz
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Joined: 11 Sep 2004 Posts: 2173 Location: ,
Re: Just a Note....think About This. Posted: 10-29-04 23:33pm
I regret ripping up pictures of me and al
thanks for advice chanda. Tiffaney is
always in my thoughts and prayers.
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kitty_55
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Joined: 18 Aug 2003 Posts: 1473 Location: Canada
Posted: 10-29-04 23:45pm
I tore up cut up and burn all the pictures
of me and my ex bf joe I wish I still had
them....But at the time I was happy lol
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mommabear16
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Joined: 16 Jan 2004 Posts: 1222 Location: illinois
Posted: 10-29-04 23:48pm
Oh I keep everything, no matter how much I
hate the person. Cause I know that at
that time it was a happy point in my life,
so keep the memorbilia and stuff...I have
pics of ex friends, boyfriends.....I still
have every single picture stephen (babys
sperm doner) and I have ever taken stocked
away....I'm sorry that you dont have very
many pics chanda!
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jessamyn
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Joined: 18 Aug 2004 Posts: 4107 Location: San Diego, CA
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Posted: 10-30-04 02:55am
Okay I knwo I dont even come close to
tiffany with this... But okay growing up
my like best friend was this guy kevin...
Then we moved apart and then in 7th grade
we ended up at the same school 8th grade
started and we started dating we dated all
of 8th grade and allof 9th... Soo close
he was my first everything... Then we had
a horrible break up and didnt talk for
years... I got rid of everything tore it
all up and blah... Years went by then one
day we liek ran into each other... There
was no drama from highschool, nothign to
bicker about blah we ended up spending the
whole like weekend together just going out
lunch and shopping and just hanging out
catching up... Now it sucks... Because I
have like memories with everyone but him I
destroyed them now I wish I hadnt... I
mean even though he like hated me all
those years like he saved em... He was
devasted when he found out I ruined
everything... I mean he called me and was
like hey guess what I just pulled out of
the garage I was like what? Hes like this
box filled with every note and gift and
memory all the little meaningful stuff...
And was like bring over anything u have we
should go thru it... And I told him and I
knew he was just crushed... So yeah I
agree with u chanda I know I dont come
close to what you went thru with your sis
but still!
Rip..
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IDABABY
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Joined: 12 Mar 2004 Posts: 2236 Location: ***Wisconsin Baby***
Posted: 10-30-04 08:32am
Exactly chanda, you think those people
will be in your life forever, but you
never know when god will call them home.
Keep them close to you!
Kristin
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Daile
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 11 Oct 2004 Posts: 319 Location: Missouri
Posted: 10-30-04 09:12am
Well, I agree you should definitely keep
all pics of family and such...But i'm not
so sure about exes. I burned everything
(and I mean everything) that my bf of two
years had given me when we broke up, and I
loved it!! That was prolly the best hour
of the entire two years!! I still love
it! I wouldn't want his stuff around
me...
I guess it just depends on if you still
like them or not. I know i'll never even
be able to be in the same building as my
ex, so there's no point in holding on to
his stuff...
Daile
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bellax0x
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Joined: 10 Jun 2004 Posts: 3572 Location: Jersey Baby!
Posted: 10-30-04 09:40am
Aw im sorry you had to figure that out the
hard way girlie
<3
gaby
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cherriegurl
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Joined: 11 Jul 2004 Posts: 1218 Location: Washington state
Posted: 10-30-04 12:03pm
Oh chanda im so sorry girlie. I love u
and I know u love tiffaney!! Im so sorry
that u have to think about that!
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Michelle1337
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Joined: 04 Aug 2004 Posts: 1739 Location: Houston, Texas
Posted: 10-30-04 12:18pm
Aw chanda sweety, that must be really
hard. You know we love you though!!!
Yeah, I didnt rip up my health question
ex-boyfriends pictures because I wanted to
save them for nathaniel. And besides the
last part of our relationship . . . It
was incredible. I loved every second of
it. And its nice to be able to go back
and look at pictures of when we were happy
together. And could actually be within
10 feet of eachother without fighting.
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oangelc543
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 25 Sep 2004 Posts: 521 Location: TX
Posted: 10-30-04 14:52pm
Aw chanda:(
yeah I dont usually rip things up or throw
them away.. Here's my theory
*you cant regret things that once made you
smile*
my ex boyfriend gave me his class ring..
And after we broke up everyone asked me
why I still had it.. But I wouldnt get
ride of it.. He lives in nc now, and I do
miss him.
