Well one thing that should be emphasized...don't force her to give you a blow job. If you keep bugging her about it she's either going to get fed up with you, or if she does do it, you'll be more or less using her as a playtoy and she won't even really want to do it.

The bottom line is not to make her go against her will - some girls enjoy or don't mind giving fellatio, while others can't stand it. One of my girl friends was what you could call a "bad girl", but she refused to give any guy oral sex - I don't know why; she has her reasons.

But if you are so desperately intent on receiving oral sex, there's a couple of methods I might suggest:

1. Try giving her oral sex, if you haven't already. If you're antsy about stds or the taste/smell, use a dental dam or plastic wrap or something to block it out.

2. Reverse psychology - quit imploring her to suck on your rod. She might start to miss your pleads and maybe she'll give it a shot.

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Now in the event she lets ya walk all over her , be sure to do things her way the first [few] time(s)...If she wants you to wear a condom, then let her. But if she starts doing stuff like gnawing on you or continuing to perform uncomfortable motions on you when you say you don't like it or it hurts, etc.

Of course, if there is any risk of stds from either of you, a condom would be a wise thing to use. But if the relationship is monogamous, or you've both tested negative for any stds, then you don't absolutely need one.

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Wow that was good...I should save that xd

go work your magic ^-^

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Scaredbaka

Patience is a virtue...

It took awhile for my gf to get comfortable giving at bj. I mean, you can't tell her give me give me give me.. Cause she is just gonna say no then she is uncomfortable and the whole situation is bad... For the longest time I never even brought it up until one night she got in a "kinky" mood (her word not mine) and she wanted to try it... When they do go for it - that first time take it slow - dont start thrusting into her mouth... That is gonna turn her off.. Take it slow - tell her how good she is doing and how good it makes you feel (thats what girls want to hear, that they are pleasing you... Just like if you go down on a girl, you want to hear that too... Saying stupid stuff is only gonna make the situation worse - put yourself in her shoes (mentally - not literally).... But ya just gotta be patient.. However some girls just dont ever want to do it... Some cant get enough of it... ... Just be slow - take your time and stop brining it up until shes ready....

Good luck

ej

Hey could you be any more blunt? "health forum suck my penis" isnt going to work on any female lol-----chances are, shes not giving it to you because you probably say something "assholish" like "baby give me head" and push her down----newsflash- we dont "suck penis" on men that make us feel like we have to-----------------

Why would any girl want to be so intimate with a guy who talks like he's in the 7th grade? Guys like you make me sick.

Lol: forcing her or asking her to suck ur dick is a terrible idea...



Solution to dat dude: practice body language better, no need to ask her... Just bring the mood into that scene ...

Hey this is a girl's perspective but find out why she doesn't want to give it. Some girls honestly don't like it and aren't going to no matter how much you beg but it could also be a smell issue, she might not like swallowing, may have choking sensations when she does it, or may just be uncomfortable if she isn't experienced.
If its the last one, obviously thats easy to solve, everytime she does it tell her how much you love it.
I give my boyfriend head everytime we have sex and he got me to do it because he told me how good it felt and I love pleases him. Just communicate with her about it and if she doesn't like it, then sorry...No luck there.

she could just be uncomfortable with it...has she been sexually active with other guys before? my current bf and i have been together over 2 years now..for the longest time when we first started dating i didn't return any favors if you get my drift...i was too nervous...i was 19 and the only thing i'd done with any boyfriends before that was kiss..it took me a while to warm up to the idea...he was patient with me...the first time was...hmm we'll just say a learning experience...haha...but i figured things out fast enough and he has no complaints now! maybe just give her time and eventually she'll come around if its bc shes nervous..if its just bc she thinks its a disgusting act...well...then i guess you'll just have to settle with a hj instead....