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Q: Oral Sex
asked by: vijay75 on October 29th, 2004
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Hi guys, i'am very much dipressed as my partner dont like to suck my penis. I've tried a lot of tricks to convince her, but unfortunately i'm to far to get my dick sucked. If any guys have advice for me to convince my girl for this. Please tell me.

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JanetBee
replied on October 29th, 2004
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You sound like a quite ignorant and uncaring person, if you use language like that and think that maybe someone should be interested in you. If that's what you want, and your girlfriend isn't interested, there is probably a good reason. My advice to her would be to ditch you and find someone who has some respect for her.
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adormer221
replied on October 29th, 2004
Experienced User
Learn how to spell
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PattyV
replied on October 29th, 2004
Extremely eHealthy
If your girl does not want to do oral on you,there's not much you can do about it.Some women do not enjoy this and no amount of persuasion can or should change her mind.It is her choice to do this,not yours!!Either accept that fact or get another girl if you cannot do without head.(sounds pretty selfish,if you ask me!)patty
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vijay75
replied on October 30th, 2004
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Spell ????
adormer221 wrote:
learn how to spell


what to spell ?????????
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aanifant
replied on October 30th, 2004
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With that attitude, who would wanna suck that thing?
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kitty_55
replied on October 31st, 2004
Extremely eHealthy
Most women find giving head very gross I am onbe of them I cant not stand it and I will not give it no matter what so if she doesnt dont push her cuz she wont do it
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kazza23662
replied on October 31st, 2004
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Shave ur balls and see what happens
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PattyV
replied on October 31st, 2004
Extremely eHealthy
Some people are just grossed out by oral sex-if she has this predjudice,it will be very difficult if not impossible to change her mind.I have talked with some who are repulsed because the penis/vagina are associated with urination,and they see that organ as dirty.In fact,the mouth has way more bacteria than a clean and healthy penis or vagina,so maybe you'd like to share that info with her.If you want to make oral sex more appealing , make sure you are clean and smell good.Nothing is worse than a funky crotch!!!That goes for both men and women!!!Patty
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2ferano
replied on October 31st, 2004
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I find it disgusting. I will do it if my partner deserves it. And if he acted like you....I would never touch that thing!
You need to be a caring, unselfish lover. Maybe try pleasing her? Be sensitive to her needs as well as your own and maybe you will earn some oral sex. But, maybe not. Some women don't like to do it!
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sally20
replied on November 2nd, 2004
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Your Going About It All Wrong
I agree with the other comments the girls have said. Mate, using language like that and treating it like such a big deal will only frighten her. Lots of girls find it really intimidating. What ever happens, even if you lie, if you do get her to do it, tell her she was good, no one wants to hear they're rubbish. Treat it like a game, but no rules. You give, she gives. The fact is though this isnt gonna happen in a week you've got to be patient with her and if you really love her and if you really deserve it you will.
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Heathergirl
replied on November 2nd, 2004
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You shouldn't try to 'trick' her into giving you head buddy, that is just wrong. You apparantley do not care about this girl. Suck your own dick.
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zoomer815
replied on November 4th, 2004
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You know, asking the question like that is pretty lame!

Unless you're looking for a prostitue or someone like that, I don't know many people that would even consider it if asked like that.

Grow up! Life isn't a porno movie, where everyone has a trash mouth when they talk about sexual matters.

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doola
replied on November 7th, 2004
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Sound like it's all about you what is you doing for her. I don't want to sound mean like the others but they are right. I would hope you don't use such bad lanugage with her. Oral sex is the word nowadays.
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BeckLyn
replied on November 9th, 2004
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Maybe you should try going to the mens forum. And also u can't force a woman to give you head. It will ruin the relationship, so if it's that important to you, you need to find someone else
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BeckLyn
replied on November 9th, 2004
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Maybe you should try going to the mens forum. And also u can't force a woman to give you head. It will ruin the relationship, so if it's that important to you, you need to find someone else
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mivn1306
replied on March 15th, 2006
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I agree with what above girls said about this.Tricking your gf just for that is really bad.In a relationship, sex or those things is not everything ( in my opinion) as long as you love someone so much.

No one can force girls to give you head.If she wants to do it, she will....But in fact, I feel a bit scared of u when you use such language.My fiancee never talks to me in that way.It sounds rude. I guess if you give her more respect and talk to her more tenderly,maybe it will work.But anyway, it really doesnt matter if she gives u head.You should find another one if this is so important to you
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sh5nton
replied on March 16th, 2006
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My main problem with oral sex isn't just the idea of uncleanliness, I just find it degrading. It could be the media or ignorant people like the original poster associating it with foulness but I just feel degraded when I do it even if it's not forced or coerced in any way.
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diamondsz
replied on March 16th, 2006
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First off talking like that aint gonna get u nowhere

sex is supposed to be enjoyable by both partners so try returning the favor first, I believe sex is 50/50 I wont do something unless were both gonna enjoy it im married so I look at stuff from a different perpective as for doing it its not that degrading if it makes ur man happy and u get to be happy too anyways im not going yap anymore
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ashlee_veronica
replied on March 16th, 2006
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No sensible girl will want to come anywhere near your penis if you put it in those terms.

Also, tricking her is not the way to go either, that's just plain messed up.

Here's a concept, trying asking her like a normal human being, that's what she is afterall... You're making the whole act feel degrading and who really wants to feel degraded?
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