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Q: :( Please Read Love Yall
asked by: CAMAROGIRL82 on October 28th, 2004
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Hey guys I was just curious what everyone else thought. Well hears the story, my boyfriend has not been wanting to be around me. So, I decided to see if he wanted to go out with kurt, so I called kurts fiance up and asked if she needed him home for any reason and if she cared if he went out with my boyfriend. (kurt and his fiance have a baby together, so I wanted to make sure she didnt need him home, thats why I asked her first) then I left my boyfriend a message telling him that if he wanted to he could go out, and that it was ok with sarah that kurt left. He called me back and told me I was being controlling and got pissed. I only tried to do something nice. I was wondering what everyone else thought, or if there was a better way to do this if I was sounding controlling. Thanks guys your the best love ya alls


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bellax0x
replied on October 28th, 2004
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Hm, maybe you should ask him if theres been anything bothering him lately

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gaby
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CAMAROGIRL82
replied on October 28th, 2004
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He just said he dont want me around. Did I sound like I was being controlling. I didnt mean to come off that way, I just wanted to do something nice
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GuitarJade
replied on October 28th, 2004
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Ouch... That's a toughie. For a girls perspective, I don't think you were being controlling... You just wanted to give your boy some time for r&r. But for a boys perspective, I can see why he might think that you're being controlling... Most guys don't want their girls making their boys-night-out "dates." honestly, it just sounds like your guy needs a little space. I would suggest just backing off and let him come to you when he's ready. Sorry, I know i'm not much help, but that's the best idea I can give you.
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Michelle1337
replied on October 28th, 2004
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Hmm...I dont think you were really being controlling. Although a guy would definitely take it that way....What probably went through his mind was "why does she have to give me permission, I can go if I want, when I want"

maybe try talking to him . . . Good luck!!
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CAMAROGIRL82
replied on October 28th, 2004
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Thanks guy, you are the best
i guess I need to read that book men are from mars womem are from venus lol I need to start thinking like a male I guess
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IDABABY
replied on October 28th, 2004
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Aww, I think that is kind of nice!! I dont see that controlling but yeah in a mans eyes anything you do for him is controlling unless its cleaning or cooking. Lmao


-kristin
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mommaashley
replied on October 29th, 2004
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Aw hun I dont htink that you are controlling...Guys are just like that sometimes...They like females except they cant use the excuse of pms lol they have really bad mood swings!
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nippz
replied on October 29th, 2004
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What?! Not controlling at all! You were just being polite!
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mama+1
replied on October 29th, 2004
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I don't think you were being controlling, I think you were trying to be considerate. However, calling your boyfriend to tell him that he can go out with his friend if he wants to? I can see why he got upset. Just think, if you were already upset and your boyfriend called to tell you that you have his permission to go out with a friend....Would you be a little more upset. Don't worry, you weren't being mean. Guys just think differently than we do. What we think is nice comes off as us being controlling to them.
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jessamyn
replied on October 29th, 2004
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I know you meant well babe ( and sooooo dont get mad at me for saying this ) but if paul were to set up a lunch date with me and my friend katie outta the blue I would be mega weirded out...
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