Sorry for the long post, but I dont know what to do anymore. And I know he isnt all the problems in the relationship, thats why I am trying to work on my part, but he dont seem to work on his me and my boyfriend have been dating 2 1/2 years and have a son together ( I also have a daughter who loves him and calls him dad even though he is not her biological father) well ever since I became pregnant with our son (this was 1 1/2 years ago) we started having really bad problems. We consantly agrued. I would complain about him not being there for me and he complained that I was trying to take his freedom away and being syco.So as a result of us fighting he whould leave me and my daughter when I was pregnant he would leave for weeks at a time and the come back for a few days and leave again. Since then we ended up having to move out of our apartment and move in with his mom. He still thinks that I am a syco bi*** and I cant do anything to make him happy. We have been fighting really bad lately and his parents think that I just need to deal with it, but it is hard to deal with when he is consantly putting me down and calling every name in the book. Plus he has been reciving text messages on his phone and phone calls from some girls. And we have been reciving alot of hang ups. I just recently found out that he has a account set up with his phone company and I asked him about it and he said it was none of my business. He has been acting like he dont want me around and actually told me he wishes I would just leave him. (i dont have a place to go, other wise I would) I dont know what is going on, I am trying to make things work because of the kids, but I dont have the strength anymore. This morning he said it was ok to take a shower and after I got out he was chewing my a** out for taking a shower. I am beging to think that he is purposly starting fights. I just dont know what to do, I love him and would like for things to work but if he dont want that I need to find somewhere else to go.