I too have always worried that my minora are longer and stick out rather than tucking in neatly! It bothers ME, but no man has ever commented on them, let alone said he didn't like it. I haven't aske dmy boyfriend what he thinks of them, but thou I haven't been with lots of men, I have had enough sexual experience to say that it would appear men really don't care, or mor eto the point probably don't notice. How ever it has always made me scared of things like smear tests, in case they think I'm weird down there... But what matters is that we just accept our selves, and that any man who love syou will accept you too - he probably won't even notice you are different x

I have been dealing with this problem all my life. When I first became sexually active it really bothered me, although it didn't stop me. I only had one guy make a comment on it, and he actually thought he hurt me during sex and something was hanging out of my vagina. He was a virgin who hadn't seen any porn, so I don't even count that. Not to get graphic, but I have had men that love large inner labia. One of my ex-boyfriends used to suck on them and call them "porn star" lips.
My left one is longer than my right one, and my current boyfriend sucks on the right one more, trying to make it just as big. He is very understanding about it. The bottom line, like everyone before this said, just learn to be comfortable with yourself. If you are with someone you trust (which you should trust them if you are going to have sex with them) there shouldn't be any problems.

Well, I've slept with several men now (including oral and such) and none of them made any comment on the way my vagina looked so I asked if they thought it was unattractive. Nobody ever said it was. The truth is, they didn't care either way. Vagina is designed to FEEL good, not to LOOK good. I don't know about you, but I don't often see vaginas that I think are pretty... Plus, sometimes vaginas with slightly dangley labia minora can look better; more like vaginas than elbow creases or whatever. The only BOYS that ever make comment on dangely vaginas as gross or whatever are the kinds of boys who want to sound "cool", the boys who you wouldnt ever want anywhere near your vagina anyway, the boys who probably haven't ever seen a real vagina in their lives and who are quite unlikely to. Please don't worry about your labias girls!

hello, i realize that i'm 5 years late, and who knows, maybe you wont read this ever. but if you are still struggling with this problem I can say, if its at all a comfort to you.... i feel the exact same way. my labia are huge and i am shameful of them. It really affects my sexual self esteem. I look at pictures of woman who have this problem and i can honestly say that only a few woman have come close to how bad mine are. I remember being aware of them since i was around 7 but never thought of it. the female anatomy wasn't something i was focused on... as i grew older i realized i was different. I was so scared that i thought i had a cancerous grow or something ( i didn't know what labia was at the time, i was 15) and went to the doctor. no it was just my stupid hypertropic labia.. I've had one boyfriend go.. uh so what is that down there... i was humiliated. i could go on forever about how bad i feel about them. and honestly, if you haven't already done so, go get it done.. i can't afford it but if i would i could. i know its terribly against feminism and leaning towards cosmetics and the "designer" vagina and we as woman shouldnt have to feel this way.. but you know what>!? we do! and there is no shame with fixing something this bothersome so do it if you think it will make you feel better..

I had mine reduced. It wasn't on account of men, but I didn't like how they got in the way. Now I look good and feel great.