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Q: No Period :s ??? :s
asked by: rae_06 on October 26th, 2004
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My period is late and its never late. I've taken 4 tests and they have all been negative, but not since I have missed my period. Should I tell my ex that I might be pregnant yet, or should I wait and see what the test says? He's gonna be moving and what if I find out late and he's gone--moved to omaha...That would suck.My mom asked me tonight if I was pregnant,out of nowhere,i said no. Im suprised she didnt say it in a mean way, she was smiling. She probably thinks that I am and I know she wouldnt be too mad with the boyfriend I have right now, hes a cop and we've known him for about 3 years. He wouldnt even be the dad tho....Ooooh man...Things will be hard if im pregnant Sad Question im gonna go in to birthright and just take a test there..See what they think...Ive neve missed my period and had backaches,sick feelings to my stomach, and...Im worried....Kinda freakin out a bit.....
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jessamyn
replied on October 26th, 2004
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If you think your pregnant and still getting neg go to the doc
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nippz
replied on October 27th, 2004
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I think you should tell him in advance.
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Dancinchick0587
replied on October 27th, 2004
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I think you should tell him. And also go get a blood test taken. If your mom asked your if your pregnant, she most probley knows whats up. Be honest with her maybe then you can get the support you need to find out whats going on and help you through everything. Good luck hun!
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bluebubble888
replied on October 27th, 2004
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I would go to get a test done. Laughing
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IDABABY
replied on October 27th, 2004
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Hello bubble-
how do you think your ex would feel about it? If I were you I would wait until you know for sure! Or else you are going to cause a lot problems between your ex and current boyfriend. Anyways, just because you have symptoms doesnt mean that you are pregnant. You need to relax...This could be making your period late because you are freaking out about it. There is always a first time for being late...And stress is the number one cause of being late...And pregnancy is the second. Consult your doctor...Good luck
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rae_06
replied on October 27th, 2004
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I have nooo idea how I would tell him. He is really sick and he has this disease...Chronix disease and now weighs 105 and it really worries me. Thats the reason we broke up in the first place, he doesnt want me going through that and I told him I would be there for him but he thinks I need to be with someone that can be with me and go out and have fun. He does go out and party but when he gets sick, hes sick for about a month and he cant eat without throwing it back up or it just goes right through....Thats why he wants to move to omaha, the best doc for his disease is there....So id feel really bad telling him im pregnant and him having to stay here. What would u do if u were in my situation???
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nippz
replied on October 27th, 2004
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Wow im sorry to hear that, but hunn you need to tell him sooner or later if you are pregnant.
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bbak
replied on October 27th, 2004
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I think he needs to know of the possibility. I agree that you should go to your doctor and let your mom know, these will be supports for you.
For your ex, you could just say to him something like "i don't want to alarm you, but i've missed a period and i'm concerned." tell him that he doesn't have to stay, that you want the best for him, ask him for a phone number and address. Tell him you'll keep in touch. Be honest! Tell him that you've thought long and hard about telling him. Tell him that you don't want this to be a burden on him, that you only thought he should know. Let it go from there, and don't worry too much about it.
If you'd rather not go that route, get a test real quick before you tell him. The test takes 5 minutes. Even if you go in to your doctor, unless they do a blood test, the results will come very quick.
The plus to going to the doctor is that he/she can tell you the margin of error. Provided you give accurate dates, they can tell you right away whether this is a false reading if it comes back negative (positive results are almost never wrong).
That way if it comes back negative, you don't have to tell him a thing. It's your call, hope all goes well.
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nippz
replied on October 29th, 2004
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So are you preggo? Did you tell the boyfriend yet??
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rae_06
replied on October 29th, 2004
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Omg
Today I was taken a pregnancy test because my friend told me she got her period today and I always have my period b4 her and its always over b4 she even gets hers. My period has always been on time. So I took a test and its negative again.I dont know whats wrong. I have headaches and backpains and I feel sick to my stomach at night and ne more I can barely go out and have fun with my friends ne more cuz I get so tired and dont feel good. They said its just not me. Its weird. The lady at birth right told me that I need to go to doctor cuz she thinks I am pregnant and the tests are wrong. My mom accidently walked in on me today in the bathroom when I was taking the test.I felt so stupid. She asked me if it was positive or negative and she didnt seem mad. I was suprised. She told me she was gonna take me to the doctor next week so then I should find out. Can ne one keep getting negatives when they are really pregnant????? And no I havent told my ex yet. I dont know what to say or how he will react and if it will change things with me and him. I will feel soooo stupid if im not...But I dont get why I havent had my period! This never happens! Its always on time.And why have I been having back pains and headaches......After unprotected sex........Ooomg..I really think I am but the tests say negative. I even had cramping along with a little bit of spotting for about 3 days...Really weird......I dont know what to do...This sux
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nippz
replied on October 29th, 2004
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Yeah you can keep on getting negatives if your pregnant. Well justas long as your mom is taking you to the doctors - let us know!
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rae_06
replied on October 30th, 2004
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Thats Weird
Why does that happen? The preg. Tests come out neg. When you are pregnant......Thats really weird.....
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bbak
replied on October 30th, 2004
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Pregnancy tests work by looking for a specific hormone that generally only occurs in pregnancy. That's why it's more likely for a negative test to be wrong than a positive, it can't read the hormone that isn't there, and if it is there you are most definately pregnant.
Sometimes your body won't create a lot of this hormone for one reason or another and the test can't detect it. Since you're still concerned about the possibility, and mom knows...
Get a blood test from the doctor. Those ones will show for sure.
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