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I need excuses to make my boyfriend send me money, because his stupid ass is lagging and hasn't sent me any lately! It's been two months and I haven't even been able to buy myself some milk for the baby's brain development and crap because he keeps spending his money on hooking up his damn car. So I need excuses for him to send me money.


Last night I told him I was gonna buy a crib already since im 7 months and "what if I pop this month". But then he said "ill just send you the one my brother gave me instead so we dont have to spend money". Ughh. Your gonna send a crib from new jersey to cali!? Lol im not paying for the shipping and handling buddy boy.

So i'm thinking of one excuse as "bottles".. But I need more because I dont want him only sending me 50 bucks for bottles. And he might make another excuse with "i'll send you bottles". Ughh, I need money for food tooo! I keep telling him about milk for the baby but he won't listen.


I checked his email and he's planning on buying more stuff, he's like negotiating 200 bucks with this guy for his stupid ugly 240sx.

Plus I want me some handmade baskets Wink
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replied October 26th, 2004
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Anything! Lol babies need so much! He should want to provide foryou

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replied October 26th, 2004
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He keeps saying "ill bring stuff when I get there" but I dont even know when he's comming here, what if I give birth before he gets here?! Thats exactly why I need excuses ;[
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replied October 26th, 2004
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His excuses aren't good enough-you need to get tougher with him. He helped to get your pregnant so he needs to stand up to his responsibilities & help you out-what kind of a man is he??? Tell him straight out what you need & how much money you need-tell him that if he doesn't help out you'll do him big time for child support once the baby arrives. Don't let him keep giving you crap excuses-it's just not fair on you
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replied October 26th, 2004
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Tell him you wanna start stocking up on diapers. By buying a package everytime you go shopping...
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replied October 26th, 2004
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sparklypixie12 wrote:
tell him straight out what you need & how much money you need-tell him that if he doesn't help out you'll do him big time for child support once the baby arrives.


yep! Tell him you'll be reasonable then if he'll pay now. Tell him that if he doesn't you'll suck as much as you can get out of him!
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replied October 26th, 2004
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Im afraid Sad lol im serious. He's gonna think I just want his money or he's gonna !**@! and say "i dont have any at the moment im still looking for a job".

..Anyone else have any suggestions?
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replied October 26th, 2004
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Say you want to save up for the baby and what if something happeneds I dunno he should give you money tho!!!
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replied October 26th, 2004
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Ask him to send you a bag of diapers and $150 a week! (or more) until he comes

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replied October 26th, 2004
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Holy shiot, that's a lot of money. I dont even think he gets that in a month, lol
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replied October 26th, 2004
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Or you could be really cool . . . And threaten to send him to jail if he dosent stop spending money on his car and start sending some to you. Lol
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replied October 26th, 2004
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Lol he would get so pissed and probally leave me. He'd be like "well you agree'd to have sex with me so.."

or the infamous excuse ..

"your the one who told me age was just a number!"
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replied October 26th, 2004
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Wow girls..
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replied October 26th, 2004
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I dunno what to say huni. He should be sending money without you having to give excuses. I dunno what to tell him.
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replied October 26th, 2004
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Hun I dint know what to tell you I never got any money from my sons dad he owes me over 10,000 in childsupport. Good luck
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replied October 26th, 2004
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I have to agree with what liz *sparkly pixie* says, he needs to know this is his responisbility too and that you dont have to make excuses for him to send money he just should!!
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replied October 26th, 2004
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This is a tough situation.. You shouldn't even have to make up any excuses for this... First of all, it's not like you climbed on top of yourself and got pregnant.. So why should you have to deal with all the responsibility especially financially just because your the girl.... Secondly, if he's 18.. He's an adult, and should legally be more capable of getting money then you are... That being said, I know guys can still be really difficult...


So heres what i'm thinking... Tell him you have no money to pay co-payments or something about doctors visits.. And make it clear that doctors visits are n.O.W and you need money for them to keep you pregnancy healthy..


Will be buy that one?
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replied October 26th, 2004
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Dont pity him or take his crap! Tell him you ((need)) these things for your baby to develop!!!!
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replied October 26th, 2004
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nippz wrote:
lol he would get so pissed and probally leave me. He'd be like "well you agree'd to have sex with me so.."

or the infamous excuse ..


"your the one who told me age was just a number!"


if he tells you that just tell him to tell it to the judge and see if he lets him off the hook with that lame excuse.
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