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Q: Rant...
asked by: Michelle1337 on October 26th, 2004
Extremely eHealthy
Why does life have to be so doing it hard? I'm litterally sitting here balling my eyes out over a stupid guy. Why does it hurt so bad? I just want him to go away but he wont, he has to constantly make things more and more difficult for me.

My friend ashlyn told me about 30 minutes ago that chris wanted me to call him because he wanted to try and work things out between us so he could atleast be here for me as a friend. So I gave in and called. Well instead of wanting to talk he wanted me to apologize to him, because apparently i've been a health forum. And he got mad because I wouldnt apologize because I have no reason too. And he freaked and basically told me that he hated me and wants me out of his life. And he drug it out and bashed me for almost 10 minutes. Saying that i'm a health forum, and he hates me and he hates his son. And that all i've done for him is medical question up his life. I messed up his life?

I dont get it...

Sorry girls, I just really needed to rant..
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bellax0x
replied on October 26th, 2004
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Aw huni im soo sorry!! Guys are assholes!! =( feel better! We love you!

<3
gaby
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IDABABY
replied on October 26th, 2004
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Awww michelle sweetie, its okay to cry...But you dont need him in your life...You shouldnt even want him in your life! Everything is going to be okay...You are going to be a wonderful mother, he needs to have his ass kicked and im sorry you have to go through this *hugs* just hang in there, and be strong. I know its hard when you are carrying a part of him within you...And I hope that someday chris decides to grow up and be apart of you and your babys life, but until he decides to grow up....You need to be strong...For you and your son. I luv ya girl. He shouldnt have said all those hurtful things to you. I dont understand him...And I dont know why he tricked you like that.


-kristin
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cherriegurl
replied on October 26th, 2004
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Oh girl im so sorry u r a wonderful girl!! U are not a b*tch! And if he really feels that way u dont want him in ur life or the babys life! Im so sorry girl good luck!!
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linuxChique
replied on October 26th, 2004
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Michelle, you just gotta start ignoring him. You should have hung up on him. Don't worry girl, things will get easier.
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1sttimemama
replied on October 26th, 2004
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Stop calling him!!!Dont even both michelle...You know he's no good for you and you said yourself that hes insecure, he's trying to make you feel like sh*t iin order to make himself feel better. And the whole thing about him hating his son...That just shows how immature he is and hes obviously no where near ready to be a father. All you can do is be the best mother that you can possibly be (and we all know you'll be awesome!!). Forget about chris, I know it seems hard but eventually everything will be so much easier. We all love you, hang in there.
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smith8500
replied on October 26th, 2004
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Talking to ya now
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JeNNy985
replied on October 26th, 2004
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Girl what did I say last time?? He's dirt on ur shoulder...Brush him off!!! Haha!! I know what you are going through though. I did it for 4 years with my ex and I feel so much better now that I don't have to talk to him anymore. You don't have to talk to him anymore either. You may feel lonely or that you are gonna be all by yourself for the rest of your life or even that nobody else you could try to date will be as good as him in some ways...But ya gotta move on. You cannot stress over somebody that has nothing good to say. Look at him, an ignorant kid who says hateful things to get himself off and make his day better? Who does that? Dumb boys do! Don't cry about it, that's what he wants you to do!! He wants to be able to control your emotions but you know what...Don't let him. Don't let him get that satisfaction! The only thing that is going to make you feel better and that is going to make him feel like s#$ t is if you just act like he doesn't bother you the least bit. You run things girl, and he needs to know that! Hope this helps!
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Ellie6388
replied on October 26th, 2004
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I'm so sorry to hear that, you would think that a man that is about to have a child, would be a little more mature and not hurt the mother of his son! I am so sorry for you, don't worry about him just concentrate on the beautiful son your about to have.
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cherriegurl
replied on October 26th, 2004
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Oh ya michelle I dont know if u have already done this but I would reccommend u getting a notebook and documenting every thing he says everything he does .E.V.E.R.Y.T.H.I.N.G. Because if someday he decides he does want to be in his life u have evidence. Good luck girl im so sorry
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Michelle1337
replied on October 26th, 2004
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Thanks ladies, i'm starting to feel a little better now. I was stupid to call him...I shoulda known better.

I'm trying so hard to get him out of my life, but it feels so impossible. A part of him will always be with me, no matter what I do.

But thanks girls, I really appreciate you guys being here for me.=) *hugs*
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nippz
replied on October 26th, 2004
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Ohmyy michelle, im sorry things aren't going as you would expect with chris. Yeah, guys are assholes, that's why you need a woman in ur life! Ahemahem Wink Wink Rolling Eyes lol jk. U deserve so much better. Ur a great personn and u don't need a guy like him in ur life.
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lauren22
replied on October 26th, 2004
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Do I need to come to houston and take the phone away?!?! Because I will! Wink

i'm glad you're doing better! Take it a day at a time! Love ya girl!
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sparklypixie12
replied on October 26th, 2004
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Omg what a caca-he doesn't deserve you or his son. I know it'll be hard but it'd probably be best for you emotionally to cut ties with him-you don't need people in your life that make you feel so sad. Hope things start looking up :d
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little_woman
replied on October 26th, 2004
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Dont take that from him girl, not even as a friend

remember: god only invented men cause vibrators cant mow the lawn *he11 men dont do it either half the time!
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nippz
replied on October 26th, 2004
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little_woman wrote:

remember: god only invented men cause vibrators cant mow the lawn *he11 men dont do it either half the time!



lmfaoo!!!!
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LHSbabe0207
replied on October 26th, 2004
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Im sorry gurl! You dont need a guy like that if he is just gonna put you down. Soemone will come along and will love you forever. Dont stick around for that if he is just gonna be an problem! You can do better. Trust me!
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bellax0x
replied on October 26th, 2004
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Im glad youre feeling better! Laughing

<3
gaby
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jessamyn
replied on October 26th, 2004
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Even though it hurts do you love him above it all?
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nippz
replied on October 26th, 2004
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jessamyn wrote:
even though it hurts do you love him above it all?


ughhh omg, for me, even though it hurts like hell when he lies to me and cheats on me, I still love him. Its that whole "first love" thing. I can't get over it ;\
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