Tonite my boyfriend confessed to me that he has fear of commitment, he said everything would be goign great then all of sudden he wont' want it anymore..He thinks alot of it has to do with his bro cause his bro was with someone for seven year and then bro ke up and then got married and hates his wife and is just with her cause of the kids and he's afraid that will happen to him, we have long distance thing so its hard already im not sure what to do, cause I love him so much I dont want to break up with him, but then I don't also want to just be investing my time and feelings to be dumped in the end, he's said hes' felt a few mixed emotions where when I was here he wised I wasnt' but once I was gone he'd miss me, so I dont know anymore, I love him and dont want to lose him, but I dont know how to make him feel better about this, he's had so many messed up relationships in the past its like messed up his mind..Please help!!