Four years ago I had a hysterectomy for a large fibroid tumour in my uterus and also a prolapsed uterus. Sex was not the same afterwards. The sensation internally was gone. Now four years later I have found out about "supracervical hysterectomy" and how it can help the sexual problems a hysterectomy brings on and how it can prevent against inconstinence which I also have now. I didn't know you could keep your cervix. I feel so depressed and angry and cheated by my doctor. Why didn't he give me the coice to keep my cervix. I read that in a non-cancerous hysterectomy women should be given that choice. I am now finding women all over the web who were given the choice to keep their cervix not only for the purposes of their sex life but also for support of the lower organs in the body and to prevent against inconstinence. I don't know how to stop obsessing over this. I take anti-depressants but that can only help so much. I feel my life is over because of the way I was abused by my doctor. I can't seem to get some peace of mind on this. I feel destroyed. I have written to him and thoroughly spoke my mind and it helps to get that out but I feel damaged for life. Is there anyone out there that has a decent sex life who lost their cervix? Is there anyone out there that can help me come to terms with this so I can carry out the rest of my life. Thank you. Marcia in salt lake city