Joined: 24 Oct 2004 Posts: 632 Location: Louisiana girl!!!
Can I Share My Life Story With Yall? Posted: 10-25-04 21:37pm
In my family.. Im the only one that knows
almost what im doing. My mom and brother
smoke pot, cigarettes, and drink. My dad
and mom divorced when I was 4. I dont get
to see him that much. my mom
has this boyfriend (been dating since my
dad and mom split up) and he acts like 2
year old literally. I dont do anything in
my family.. No cigarettes, pot, or
getting drunk, pill popper nothing like
that. My boyfriend and I have been dating
snce last december. Its been a rough and
very hard relationship. He's sister hates
me for no reason I havent done anything to
her. People say she is jealous but that
is no reason to hate someone. My
boyfriend has went behind my back with my
ex best friend and its been hard trusting
him again. we
have money problems both sides of the
family. I dont think a baby coming to the
world is going to help anything.
Sometimes I just think im a big screw up.
::sighs:: my boyfriends dad doesnt let him
come see me that much.. Not like a
regular couple does anyway. My life is
really hard on me right now. I just would
like some support and friends.. My best
friend moved 100miles away from me she is
everything to me. I dont get to see her
much either. Seems like im alone ..
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linuxChique
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 05 May 2004 Posts: 4535
Posted: 10-25-04 22:39pm
Aw i'm sorry! Things take time, but they
will begin to look up!
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IDABABY
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 12 Mar 2004 Posts: 2236 Location: ***Wisconsin Baby***
Posted: 10-25-04 22:43pm
Awww honey, you are so not alone!! Im
here for you through everything, really.
I am very blessed with parents that have
good heads on their shoulders and values.
You are a wonderful person, and don't
deserve a lot of what you are going
through. I went through a similiar
situation with my boyfriend and his
mother, we butted heads so many times, but
now we are getting to the point where we
talked out our differences. Seriously,
you are welcome to email me or call me
anytime if you need someone to talk
too....And just remember there are people
out there that feel alone...But sometimes
you just need a friend. Its hard having a
relationship with someone when everyone
tries to keep you apart..Ive been there so
much with my boyfriend. *hugs* you are
going to be okay...Just talk about
things...We are here for you!
Start by smiling a little silly!
-kristin
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jessamyn
Moderator
Joined: 18 Aug 2004 Posts: 4107 Location: San Diego, CA
Thanks: 11
Thanked:3
Posted: 10-26-04 00:41am
Babe I dont want to offend you at all I
beg of you to tell me if this offends you
but have you ever looked into adopting the
baby out knowing he/she will be raised in
a better environment then you can at the
moment provide.?
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Xlil ne neX05
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 26 Oct 2004 Posts: 73 Location: fontana, ca
Posted: 10-26-04 02:20am
Hi, im new to this site thing, and im just
trying to help give advice and get
support. I am 18 and 23 weeks pregnant.
I am from a broken home and my mom and
brothers are hard core druggies, I live
with my dad who is a good hard working
man. He takes care of me pretty much. I
feel like you and I have a lot in common.
My babys father and I arent together
because he wants to cheat and lie to me.
I just dont need to bring my baby girl
into that. You know? Well I think you
should just keep your head up, and I am
sure things will get better. Feel free to
write me anytime or im me at caligirl1504
or xlil ne nex05. Email rene
e862004@hotmail.Com
things will get better :d
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GuitarJade
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 02 Oct 2004 Posts: 330 Location: Pennsylvania
Posted: 10-26-04 07:48am
I know what you mean. My family is pretty
broken up too... Thankfully neither of my
parents are doing anything anymore (my dad
was an alcoholic for a loooooooong time
and my mom quit drinking when she found
out she was preggo with me). When it
comes to bad family stuff, you're not
alone. Many of us know what it's like to
come from a "broken family" and we know
how hard it is. Just remember, you are
not a screw up!!!!!!!!!! Don't ever ever
ever think that, k?! We're all here for
you and we want to see you and your baby
safe and happy.
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JeNNy985
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 21 Oct 2004 Posts: 295 Location: INDIANA!!!
Posted: 10-26-04 11:29am
Ohh hunny! I'm so very sorry for the
situation you are in! Can I ask something
though before I go any further? Does your
dad choose to not see you as much or
what's going on there. Answer that
question and then i'll go further because
I don't want to say something w/o knowing
the whole situation there and not be
helpful...
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Ellie6388
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 26 Oct 2004 Posts: 201 Location: Destin Fl
Posted: 10-26-04 14:45pm
Hunny, I am so sorry to hear that you are
going through all of this. But no one's
family life is perfect we all having our
problems. I hope this all gets better for
you. When are you due?
Sweetie im sorry to hear this, its hard
when you cant even have your own family
for emotional and financial support.
Hopefully things will get better for you
soon, we're all here for you whenever you
need us. I rolled into this site one day
and im glad I found it because all the
people on here are so nice and helpful
with advice, I know there are other women
on here that are going thru similar
situations. Anyway we are all here for
you if you need help or just need to be
cheered up!
Im sorry you're going through this right
now. But hey everyone family lacks
something you know? There's no such thing
as a perfect family, hell I know I dont
have one. I always looked at myself as a
screwup, too. I have all my cousins that
hate me and think i'm a promiscuous
person, my boyfriend cheated on me 2
times, once with one of my bestfriends and
once with some other girl, my mom has
cancer and she's taking her chemo right
now, my dad has an ulcer and can't even
support me and the baby so he had to send
me to cali to live with my aunt, and as
for my brother and sister, I pity them.
Just look at it like this, everyday is a
new day. Everything happens for a reason.
This will all look up in the end and
everything will be worth it. I hope
everything works out for you and ur
family!
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LHSbabe0207
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 24 Oct 2004 Posts: 632 Location: Louisiana girl!!!
Posted: 10-26-04 16:17pm
Wow! Guys im so happy my friend told me
about this site. This place is just like
a family. Yall make me want to cry yall
are so nice to me. (happy
tears) thanks for being there for me! I
just need suppport right now at this point
in my life. People always say they would
never want to be a teenager again.. I see
why now..
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jessamyn
Moderator
Joined: 18 Aug 2004 Posts: 4107 Location: San Diego, CA
Thanks: 11
Thanked:3
Posted: 10-26-04 20:46pm
I can honestly say my teenage years were
probably the hardest part of my whole
life... I'm here for you babe if you ever
need anything adivce just friendship or
even to ramble about god knows nothin...
my mom
has this boyfriend (been dating since my
dad and mom split up) and he acts like 2
year old literally. I dont do anything in
my family.. No cigarettes, pot, or
getting drunk, pill popper nothing like
that. My boyfriend and I have been dating
snce last december. Its been a rough and
very hard relationship. He's sister hates
me for no reason I havent done anything to
her. People say she is jealous but that
is no reason to hate someone. My
boyfriend has went behind my back with my
ex best friend and its been hard trusting
him again. 
