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Q: Can I Share My Life Story With Yall?

asked by: LHSbabe0207 on October 25th, 2004

Active User, very eHealthy

In my family.. Im the only one that knows almost what im doing. My mom and brother smoke pot, cigarettes, and drink. My dad and mom divorced when I was 4. I dont get to see him that much. Crying or Very sad

my mom has this boyfriend (been dating since my dad and mom split up) and he acts like 2 year old literally. I dont do anything in my family.. No cigarettes, pot, or getting drunk, pill popper nothing like that. My boyfriend and I have been dating snce last december. Its been a rough and very hard relationship. He's sister hates me for no reason I havent done anything to her. People say she is jealous but that is no reason to hate someone. My boyfriend has went behind my back with my ex best friend and its been hard trusting him again. Crying or Very sad

we have money problems both sides of the family. I dont think a baby coming to the world is going to help anything. Sometimes I just think im a big screw up. ::sighs:: my boyfriends dad doesnt let him come see me that much.. Not like a regular couple does anyway. My life is really hard on me right now. I just would like some support and friends.. My best friend moved 100miles away from me she is everything to me. I dont get to see her much either. Seems like im alone .. Crying or Very sad

Replies(11)

linuxChique

replied on October 25th, 2004

Extremely eHealthy

Aw i'm sorry! Things take time, but they will begin to look up!

IDABABY

replied on October 25th, 2004

Extremely eHealthy

Awww honey, you are so not alone!! Im here for you through everything, really. I am very blessed with parents that have good heads on their shoulders and values. You are a wonderful person, and don't deserve a lot of what you are going through. I went through a similiar situation with my boyfriend and his mother, we butted heads so many times, but now we are getting to the point where we talked out our differences. Seriously, you are welcome to email me or call me anytime if you need someone to talk too....And just remember there are people out there that feel alone...But sometimes you just need a friend. Its hard having a relationship with someone when everyone tries to keep you apart..Ive been there so much with my boyfriend. *hugs* you are going to be okay...Just talk about things...We are here for you!

Start by smiling a little silly!

-kristin

jessamyn

replied on October 26th, 2004

Extremely eHealthy

Babe I dont want to offend you at all I beg of you to tell me if this offends you but have you ever looked into adopting the baby out knowing he/she will be raised in a better environment then you can at the moment provide.?

Xlil ne neX05

replied on October 26th, 2004

Experienced User

Hi, im new to this site thing, and im just trying to help give advice and get support. I am 18 and 23 weeks pregnant. I am from a broken home and my mom and brothers are hard core druggies, I live with my dad who is a good hard working man. He takes care of me pretty much. I feel like you and I have a lot in common. My babys father and I arent together because he wants to cheat and lie to me. I just dont need to bring my baby girl into that. You know? Well I think you should just keep your head up, and I am sure things will get better.

things will get better :d

GuitarJade

replied on October 26th, 2004

Experienced User

I know what you mean. My family is pretty broken up too... Thankfully neither of my parents are doing anything anymore (my dad was an alcoholic for a loooooooong time and my mom quit drinking when she found out she was preggo with me). When it comes to bad family stuff, you're not alone. Many of us know what it's like to come from a "broken family" and we know how hard it is. Just remember, you are not a screw up!!!!!!!!!! Don't ever ever ever think that, k?! We're all here for you and we want to see you and your baby safe and happy.

JeNNy985

replied on October 26th, 2004

Experienced User

Ohh hunny! I'm so very sorry for the situation you are in! Can I ask something though before I go any further? Does your dad choose to not see you as much or what's going on there. Answer that question and then i'll go further because I don't want to say something w/o knowing the whole situation there and not be helpful...

Ellie6388

replied on October 26th, 2004

Experienced User

Hunny, I am so sorry to hear that you are going through all of this. But no one's family life is perfect we all having our problems. I hope this all gets better for you. When are you due?

babyluvwu

replied on October 26th, 2004

Experienced User

Sweetie im sorry to hear this, its hard when you cant even have your own family for emotional and financial support. Hopefully things will get better for you soon, we're all here for you whenever you need us. I rolled into this site one day and im glad I found it because all the people on here are so nice and helpful with advice, I know there are other women on here that are going thru similar situations. Anyway we are all here for you if you need help or just need to be cheered up!

~becca

nippz

replied on October 26th, 2004

Extremely eHealthy

Im sorry you're going through this right now. But hey everyone family lacks something you know? There's no such thing as a perfect family, hell I know I dont have one. I always looked at myself as a screwup, too. I have all my cousins that hate me and think i'm a promiscuous person, my boyfriend cheated on me 2 times, once with one of my bestfriends and once with some other girl, my mom has cancer and she's taking her chemo right now, my dad has an ulcer and can't even support me and the baby so he had to send me to cali to live with my aunt, and as for my brother and sister, I pity them. Just look at it like this, everyday is a new day. Everything happens for a reason. This will all look up in the end and everything will be worth it. I hope everything works out for you and ur family!

LHSbabe0207

replied on October 26th, 2004

Active User, very eHealthy

Wow! Guys im so happy my friend told me about this site. This place is just like a family. Yall make me want to cry yall are so nice to me. Crying or Very sad

(happy tears) thanks for being there for me! I just need suppport right now at this point in my life. People always say they would never want to be a teenager again.. I see why now.. Confused

jessamyn

replied on October 26th, 2004

Extremely eHealthy

I can honestly say my teenage years were probably the hardest part of my whole life... I'm here for you babe if you ever need anything adivce just friendship or even to ramble about god knows nothin...

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