So you can never have an orgasim??? Have you ever tried to just do it yourself??? I can tell you one thing i've learned to be able to have multiple orgasims all by learning more about myself and helping out my partner by not making him do all the work. Play with yourself let him watch. It may sound awkward but it works! You have to find out what turns you on and then tell him to do it this way or that way... Do you get it??? Kind of like masterbation but it's not cause your just furthering you knowledge in the sexual world. Good luck.

I will try and see what happends i'll let ya kno

Hi,
masterbation is great but orgasms from masrerbation are usually very short, high intensity and coming from only one spot--your clitoris. Most people's solutions to unfulfilling sex is the whole do it yourself advice. I would say yes, masterbate but do it when your are alone--it is so much more fun without a guy gawking at you!!

As for sex most men do not know about a woman's g-spot. It is a very sensitive spot right behind your pubic bone on the upper inner wall of your vaginal canal. During sex it's stimulated when the man uses shallow strokes, not deep penetration, goes very slowly and pulls all the way out. The kind of orgasms from the vaginal are exactly what you may heard about women's orgasms. They are like an overwhelming emotional, explosive feeling of pleasure that happens throughout you. There are several books on it if you are interested.

What are they called c like I can get my self off when I am riden a guy and taht bout it my friend trys to convince me to get a vibrator but I wont

Some women cant orgasm from sex.. Have u ever had oral sex performed on you?..It's sort of hard.. I dont know, when your a teenager.. Neither you or your partner may know what your really doing

But im with a older guy that seems like he knows what he doing but he a mintue man so mayb that it

Orgasm, minute, maybe.
Okay that was the lesson for the day.

You need to find you a man who can last, you know, a real man. And also someone who actually tries to get you off. That would help a great deal.

I kno I need a real man if there is any

Hey,

i am married, and so far the only way i've gotten my wife to orgasm is either with me using my hand, or doing oral on her.

I don't last forever, but it's not real quick either. I know that making sure you are very aroused before you start will certainly help. One thing that i've tried to convince her to do is to touch herself while i'm inside of her. I know most positions aren't right to stimulate the proper spot, but if there was other stimulation at the same time, it might help.

Ok. That was my point of view.

Zoomer

Hey,

i am married, and so far the only way i've gotten my wife to orgasm is either with me using my hand, or doing oral on her.

I don't last forever, but it's not real quick either. I know that making sure you are very aroused before you start will certainly help. One thing that i've tried to convince her to do is to touch herself while i'm inside of her. I know most positions aren't right to stimulate the proper spot, but if there was other stimulation at the same time, it might help.

Ok. That was my point of view.

Zoomer

Hey,

i am married, and so far the only way i've gotten my wife to orgasm is either with me using my hand, or doing oral on her.

I don't last forever, but it's not real quick either. I know that making sure you are very aroused before you start will certainly help. One thing that i've tried to convince her to do is to touch herself while i'm inside of her. I know most positions aren't right to stimulate the proper spot, but if there was other stimulation at the same time, it might help.

Ok. That was my point of view.

Zoomer

Hey,

i am married, and so far the only way i've gotten my wife to orgasm is either with me using my hand, or doing oral on her.

I don't last forever, but it's not real quick either. I know that making sure you are very aroused before you start will certainly help. One thing that i've tried to convince her to do is to touch herself while i'm inside of her. I know most positions aren't right to stimulate the proper spot, but if there was other stimulation at the same time, it might help.

Ok. That was my point of view.

Zoomer

Hey,

i am married, and so far the only way i've gotten my wife to orgasm is either with me using my hand, or doing oral on her.

I don't last forever, but it's not real quick either. I know that making sure you are very aroused before you start will certainly help. One thing that i've tried to convince her to do is to touch herself while i'm inside of her. I know most positions aren't right to stimulate the proper spot, but if there was other stimulation at the same time, it might help.

Ok. That was my point of view.

Zoomer

I would really like to orgasim but I cant. My boyfriend would really like me to too. We havent had sex yet and we arent in that point in our relationship yet. What can he do while just using his fingers or his tongue that can help me to orgasim?

I have never yet had an orgasim, I am young and inexperienced so I do not really know what to expect. What does it exacly feel like? How will I know when I have had one?

I would really appreciate your advice. Thanks

I had the same problem with my ex boyfriend. I know this sounds stupid but my ex-boyfriend's penis was actually bigger than my current one and my current one is always able to give me at least one orgasm during sex. I think i'm a little more relaxed with my boyfriend now. Maybe you could try to relax and not think about it. Whenever I really try to have one it doesn't come but when I just relax and enjoy sex it always does.

To me they feel kind of like pleasurable muscle contractions.

Just thought i'd give my input. I have never came from oral or fingers. Only from riding. My mom (i know this sounds wierd but we have a strange relationship) has only came from herself (a guy has never made her cum). Some girls just aren't as comfortable doing it a certain way or as comf. With who their with. I think I just like to be in control so its hard for me to relax and let go. Everyone is diff. So it doesn't matter if you can't cum or only can in certain ways----it may make it more fun and challenging for your man!

Omg me 2 I only cum when I am riding the guy weird huh I guess that my way of getting off then cause the guys doesnt help it so hey as long as we get off some how

First question is, have you ever gotten yourself off? Not to be crude, but you cant expect a guy to do it for you if you cant do it yourself- the women that say no "they dont masturbate" are lying- everyone does it lol, just no one wants to admit it- so, if your guy isnt doing it for ya, I say give it a try yourself then go from there- you cant expect him to please you if you cant please yourself first- secondly, not all women get off during sex- some need the hand, some need the mouth, some just need sex- it all depends-

I do masterbate but I do get my self off when I am riding a guy I guess its better then nothing right?
What are some ways to masterbate ?