Coheed, i know i've got poor absorption and i get the undigested food thing sometimes. Have you noticed if it's when you've eaten something particular? I can't digest things like corn, pepper skins, peas, mushrooms.
HW, been thinking about your 'situation' and i know you'll get there with it. Just think back a few months when you were adamant that you couldn't go to the doctors and would no way have a blood test. You were sure they'd send you for loads of horrific tests but you did it and it was no where near as bad as you thought. I think you underestimate what you're capable of.
The thing with this problem of ours is that certain things we can't do, simple as. I know my limits-i couldn't sit through a play or a day of lectures etc because i've been there and i know how it ends! But somethings we can achieve even though they terrify us.
The key for me is to go with your heart and ignore your head. My heart is telling me that i would desperately love a baby, that i'd be a great mum and it'd be the best thing in the world but my head is screaming 'no-way, you'll never cope, what about all the doctors appointments, antenatal classes, years of parent teacher meeting etc', the list goes on but i'm ignoring all that, i'm blocking it all out. Maybe im living in cookoo land but if i didn't do this id still be at my mum and dads, sitting alone in my bedroom with no qualifications, no job, no boyfriend, no mates.
We've got to keep moving forward or these stupid noises will beat us. So anyway, you'll get there. You're concentrating on your health at the moment-so one step at a time but it will happen. Sorry to rant but i see myself in you so much, i've been through it all so i know how you feel and i wish i'd had someone to tell me that it'll all be alright. It will be, if you moved in together tomorrow you'd never regret it for a second.