i'm sorry you're having trouble... Maybe count to three in your head before every response... I dunno... I hope things get better for you two!

Aw im sorry. Maybe you should go out with your friends to try to forget about it for a lil

<3
gaby

Think about what you would do without him in your life, if he ever got taken away from you. That helps me cool and be lovey. We always talk through our problems with each other, when we have fights. I wouldn't suggest happy pills....Because that isn't going to make the problem go away. Ya know?

-kristin

Everytime you start to fight...Tell him to get completely naked and go lay in the bath tub. And then you go put down the toilet seat and sit next to him. And continue to fight. If you can fight with him laying in the bathtub naked, your crazy!

Thanks guys your the best, I hope it works out to, (he is the baby of his family and you can tell), and my daughter has gotten so attached to him that she calls him dad (her real dad left me when I told him I was pregnant, and never heard from him again, and she is 5 years now, so that was five years ago) he just wants everything his way and he dont care who he hurts just as long as he gets its his way. So for the sake of the kids I just hope that if I let him do what he wants for a while that he might grow up and ralize that is more to life than his stupid friends and car. Tonight was supposed to have been my night to relax and unwind, but he just had to go with his friends, I just left it go and he left. I was so pissed. Sry, a little stressed, but thanks again

Hey take a nice bath if you have a dog take the dog for a nice long walk, scream in a pillow listen to music really loud and sing your lil heart out hehe

To deal with my frustrations I put in a good song and sing a long.

When frusturated.. I blast loud rock music and sometimes I clean

hence why i'm going deaf practically

Paul and I argued all day today not really fighting but like biting at each other ya know? We never really do that but today was crazy...

So like hes like medical question I am just gunna sleep on the floor so i'm like whatever

anyways it continued to "whats wrong" "nothing" and all that crap... So yeah then like I finally just closed the door turned off the lights grabbed a blanket and got down on the floor with him and put my arms around him...

You gotta be the bigger person find a way to compromise hun even if it makes you upset... Find a way to make him laugh and just kiss and make up... Fighting hurts you and the baby...

Smile for a mile and just know it will work because you love each other...

you guys give great advice, but michelle's is by far the best!

The strongest thing to do is walk away from a fight.
Then talk when you have both calmed down.

However in a confrontational situation, to give yourself an edge never look the other person in the eyes but look instead at a spot on their forshead between their eyes. They still think you are looking at them but you aren't and this can be all it takes.

Remember at school when you used to see who could stare each other out for longest - do this and you will always win that game.

But seriously, it's best not to fight, try to find somwthing to diffuse the situation, even if it's just saying "i'm not going to have this conversation right now".