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Q: Am I Still a Virgin???

asked by: gurl_frompville on October 23rd, 2004

New User

I have a question...Well more than one. I was a virgin until the other day..I think. The last couple nights ago...My boyfriend and I were making out and next thing I know...We had oral sex and than I let him put it in me...And it hurt too much that I told him to take it out. It wasn't even in halfway and it hurt. Last night, I let him do the same thing...But he actually got it in all the way. He didnt cum at all. He didn't go all the way. And he wasn't wearing a condom for the 2 times he did. But there was one time he did wear a condom. I didn't bleed though. He said he never came. Am I still a virgin even tho he didn't pop my cherry and...Is there a chance I could be pregnant? And we did do dry humping. There is no way to get pregnant that way right? Any help I can get...Would be grateful. Thanks! :d

Replies(70)

Magic_Tinkerbell

replied on October 23rd, 2004

New User

Re: Am I Still a Virgin???

Okay...Um... In my opinion, no you aren't a virgin anymore. If a guy puts his penis inside of you....You've lost your virginity regaurdless if he poped you're cherry or not. No, you can't get pregnant from having dry sex. Yes you most certainly can get pregnant from pre-cum if you're man doesn't wear a condom...Even if he didn't really cum. Believe me, i'v been through it!!! My advice is, if you are going to continue to have sex, use protection. There are alot of diseases out there...And it's easier than you may think it is to get pregnant!!! Good luck!!!!

MonsterKitty

replied on October 23rd, 2004

New User

Hola

Well even when you do pop the cherry it dosent always have to bleed...Mine didnt

PattyV

replied on October 24th, 2004

Extremely eHealthy

Nope ,not a virgin anymore.You may have lost your hymen due to sports or tampon use.Not eveyone bleeds their first time.Please do not have sex again without some form of birth control!!Pre-ejaculate fluid has semen in it!And the guy does not know that he has released this fluid!Please use birth control,you are playing russian roulette!Patty

kitty2luv

replied on October 25th, 2004

Extremely eHealthy

I dont think my "cherry poped" im not sure I had sex many time but only one I can rember is when I first rode a guy I bled Embarassed

and the blood got on his white pants ut oh lol but I dont kno nut hunny your not a virgin any more when I lost mine the guy didnt get it in all the way but it still went in and as patty said some sort of b/c

nippz

replied on October 26th, 2004

Extremely eHealthy

Nope not a virgin. Did ur cherry pop?

gurl_frompville

replied on October 26th, 2004

New User

He had it in me....For awhile but it didn't go that far to where he came.

nippz

replied on October 26th, 2004

Extremely eHealthy

Ehh well I can't really say and judge because I wasn't the one experiencing it.

Daile

replied on October 28th, 2004

Experienced User

If it was in you, you're not a virgin. It doesn't matter if he came, or if your cherry popped, or anything like that. If his penis was inside you, you lost your virginity!

Daile

oangelc543

replied on October 29th, 2004

Experienced User

You arent a virgin and u can get pregnant.

2ferano

replied on October 31st, 2004

Extremely eHealthy

Yes, if you were penetrated then you are not a virgin anymore.
And most women don't have a hymen by the time they have sex anyway, so you really cannot go by that.

sheilaif

replied on November 1st, 2004

New User

If You Cant Answer Those Questions

If you cant answer those questions yourself you shouldnt be doing it. Does anyone educate themselves before putting their self at these hugh risk?

Heathergirl

replied on November 2nd, 2004

Active User, very eHealthy

You are not a virgin. Listen to this: my name is heather, but 90% of my friends call me......... Virg. This nickname is even tattooed on me. Bc I was the only virgin left between the group of friends I grew up with. And then one day I let my bastarrrd boyfriend talk me into (while I was drunk) sleeping with him.....I was 18, and he put it in about 1/8th of the way, and I bled, and made him stop bc I knew it wasn't right. But honey, I wasn't "virg" anymore! I knew I had lost it, but my friends still know me only as virg, and insist in calling me that. Now, however, I am madly in love and in a long term relationship with my bf, whom I live with. And we do have sex, often, lol. He is the only man I count. I say i've been with one man, but I know deep in my heart, i'm cheating.

sally20

replied on November 2nd, 2004

New User

Right.....

From what you said, you are definately not a virgin, he entered you, so no. If you use tampons you may find you have "popped your own", I hate that term. If he didnt cum, you cant be pregnant but you are still vulnerable to std's if you do not use protection. Depends on his history. Dont do anything your not happy with though chick, he's lucky he's your first.

swimmer

replied on November 10th, 2004

Experienced User

Ya know, this reminds me of a story my friend told me one time...She said to me "amanda, he put it in me and took it out so fast it was like a sneeze- achoo- and then it was gone"- my dear, you are no longer a vrigin- when its in, its in- doesnt matter if your "cherry was popped" ( who the hell thought of that expression anyways), you arent a virgin-

PattyV

replied on November 10th, 2004

Extremely eHealthy

Yes,you Can Get Preggy If He Does Not Come!!!

Yes,you can get pregnant if the guy does not come!!!!!Arghhhhhh!Pre-ejaculate fluid has sperm in it -that is why so many ladies get pregnant, even if the guy does not come inside of her!!!!Patty

swimmer

replied on November 10th, 2004

Experienced User

What ever happened to sex ed?

kitty2luv

replied on November 10th, 2004

Extremely eHealthy

Sex is sucks lol they dont talk about caca liek that in skool

vengence1171

replied on June 5th, 2005

New User

Ummm can you get pregnant if the guy sticks it in there but doesnt do the motions or anything

Lucyinthesky005

replied on June 6th, 2005

New User

Just because he didn't "pop your cherry" doesn't mean your not a virgin... Everybodies is different,some girls are very sensitive and it could pop from anything...My cherry didn't pop until the second time, and you can get pregnant even if he didn't cum,sometimes the pre can be more potent then load.

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