Okay.............. Theres this guy that i've kinda been seeing.But the thing is were fwb(friends with benfits). In the begining when he first found out that I liked he suggested it but never figuered i'd say yes.But after alot of consideration I said yes. Now we've been fwb for a little bit and have had our ups and downs. Now I have feelings for him and want to sleep with him.Ofcourse that would qualify as a benefit. I'm afraid to sleep with because were not in a relationship and he really doesn't understand.I don't want him to feel like i'm forcing him to be in relationship with me. Because I like our fwb.I don't really want to be in a relationship.But i'm worried benefits is all he wants. I've talked to him but none of it's making any sense. Can someone please help?