Are you having trouble getting excited? It sounds like a lube issue *sorry tmi probably*

Maybe thats the problem...Hehe. I get excited though.

Are you having it too often? Like after I have painfull sex we have to wait about aweek to do it again so I can "heal"

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gaby

Could he be too rough maybe? With me.... It burns after we do it like when I pee and I had a c-section and like last night sorry tmi we had to hurry and take advantage of dom sleeping so we did our thing and when I went pee it burned and also I noticed I was spotting. I just got my postpartum pap at 10 weeks postpartum even though I was supposed to get it at six weeks cuz we moved n all anyway im nervous cuz I have been havin lil pains in my stomach and she asked how soon after the baby did I have sex and I told her the truth which was 4 weeks!!! I know and she said there could be a risk of internal bleeding cuz I could have made the stitches in my uterus break. Im so scared im waiting on the office to call me sometime this week about my results anyway for u try and realllly relax be4 u go for it so that way it'll be more comfortable. ~ erica.

One word ~ lube! Lol im the same way. It got so bad I didnt even enjoy having sex. The lube wont take away all the pain, but its only a little bit of pain for the first couple of minutes.

That used to happen to me, I think its because I could never get wet when I was having sex during pregnancy, so it burned ;[

Okay I used to use lotion as a lube and that made it burn so maybe its that? If u use lotion I mean

Ouch, I think it's the lotion. I know it hurts my boyfriend penis.

Hehe. I never had that problem. I always get wet. I hope I never have that problem.

ouch. Lol I believe that on most lotion bottles it says external use only, and using it as a lube would be internal use... I dont think it would be good to use lotion

Yeh sounds painful... I have an awesome lube from spencers (sex store)! We dont need it but jason looovess it so I use it when im giving him hand jobs

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gaby

Maybe you have developed an allergy to the condoms you use (if you use them) many people have a latex allergy, or you could be allergic to any of the ingredients of the spermicide/lube on the condom.

Try hypoallergenic condoms or a different brand and see how it goes. - however if you don't use condoms then my advice doesn't help at all sorry honey.

I get wet enough, so thats not the problem. I hadn't had a sex for a almost a month since the other night. So, having sex too often is not the problem at all. I think I may just be allergic or stretchign too much. I have no idea.

Thanks for all the help!


-kristin

Even though you may seem wet, you may not be. I get really wet (lol sorry tmi) and it still hurts, unless we use lube. I dont remember what it was all about, but some women seem to get wet, but inside of them really isnt actually that lubricated.

Happens to me sometimes. And sometimes it is either because I was ripping because we were doing it to hard, or because you have a bacteria infection (totally normal)...

So if you have an infection it can make sex painful?

Okay, used lube and that seemed to make it burn worse!!! Ouchie!!

I have no idea what the hell is wrong, I know that I do rip a lot almost every time that we have sex. I am thinking of what other routes to take.

How will I know if I have an infection?

-kristin

Go to a doctor and pee in a cup. They'll tell you. Hehe, i'm sorry its painful. Maybe you do have an infection.

I hope I don't either way, if I end up having an infection I would rather take care of it. How would I have gotten it? It only burns during and after sex for a little while. I dont have any other symptoms. I will have to call the doctor soon!

Thanks girls for the help!!

-kristin