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Q: Girls, I Need Advice

asked by: Heathergirl on October 22nd, 2004

Active User, very eHealthy

Ok, after typing this and having it deleted....I'll do it again. Ok, I am so worried that I decided to track down a computer on my mini vacation so I can ask ya'll what you think...........One, can you take the flu shot while you are pregnant??????????? Bc my boyfriends mom brought one home to give me today...(she is a nurse) I am asking bc I think there may be possibly a very very very very slim like 1/100 chance that I am pregnant...But then again I don't........Bc I just had my period two weeks ago......And these symptoms that i'm having are too soon, right? I'm peeing like crazy, but I don't have a uti......I have massive headaches, I sleep sooooooooo much, I have no control over my body........I've been sick once but keep a feeling that I will be sick.......I am so weak, and I get dizzy so much.......But these symptoms should not show up so early in a pregnancy!!!!!!!! I don't know what to think, but I don't have a good reason to tell my mum-in-law that I can't take the shot she has ordered me to take????????? Any advice or any knowledge that will shoot down my scared and paranoid thoughts????????

Love ya and thanks soooooooooo much! Question

Replies(22)

sdwood2

replied on October 22nd, 2004

Active User, very eHealthy

Hun I am sorry that this has happend to you but yes it is ok to take the shot if you are pg that is one group thats is being told to take it. But the thing is they do not want you to get the shot if you are sick. You should be ok just try to relax I know its hard. Also maybe go talk to your dr too. I am shocked she brought home the shot to give it to you I would think she could get into trouble for somthing like that.

Heathergirl

replied on October 22nd, 2004

Active User, very eHealthy

Well she is a nurse and her husband owns the medical clinic......So yea. But it wouldn't be a bad thing if I were pregnant....I just wouldnt want to hurt the baby, ya know....Thanks for replying. : d

sdwood2

replied on October 23rd, 2004

Active User, very eHealthy

No hun its not a bad thing I promise you can go to the cdc.Gov web sight and type in flu and look up stuff if it makes you feel better

here hun go here
http://www.Cdc.Gov/flu/professionals/fluga llery/shortageflyers.Htm

this one tells you its ok

http://www.Cdc.Gov/flu/professionals/fluga llery/images04_05/whoshould2.Pdf

Heathergirl

replied on October 23rd, 2004

Active User, very eHealthy

You're a doll!

jessamyn

replied on October 23rd, 2004

Extremely eHealthy

Yay your back I missed you!

Doll is my word u cant use it haha! Smile

doll and darlin...

Yes u can take the shot

and omg omg I want u to be pregnant...Hahah Smile

Heathergirl

replied on October 23rd, 2004

Active User, very eHealthy

Omg I want to be too! I have always wanted to mommy first, president second...Lol....And I really think mitch is goin to pop the question!!!!!!! I yelled at his friend for calling me mitch's wife (just to see mitch's reaction) and he got all defensive and said it wasn't such a bad thing to be called that and blah blah blah.......I got sooo excited......And he started talking about our future children........I want to be, and I think mitch would get excited to........But I truely doubt that I am, I just had my period two weeks ago, ya know! And damnit, i'm missing out on my baby making abilities bc this week i'm most furtile and we're up north with his parents! Lol but of course, i'm now on mercette and we use condoms every time...So I would call in nature to do her best, lol.

jessamyn

replied on October 23rd, 2004

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Ditch the rubbers haha

Heathergirl

replied on October 23rd, 2004

Active User, very eHealthy

I've tried my best.......Even when I was on ortho lo, he would not touch me without a rubber.........And the only time he has is once when the mood just over took him, and I happened to be on my period....But there has been many occasions when he wont wrap it until a few minutes into sex......Which of course, can lead to a pregnancy........But he is a condom nazi.......Not only condom....But spermicide coated, lol he is soooooooo concerned over what 'his parents would think'.........He even thinks they don't know we're sleeping together....Every time he says this it angers me off, we've been living together since june!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Arg.........But I want to give him a son so bad......He even said he wants a son........I wouldn't care what it was....I love him and want to make children with him, is that so bad? Lol lol lol Laughing

jessamyn

replied on October 23rd, 2004

Extremely eHealthy

Hahahaha condom nazi I cant stop laughing hahahah

Heathergirl

replied on October 23rd, 2004

Active User, very eHealthy

Hahaha, you are too funny........And here I thought I could leave my ehealth addiction for the weekend, rightt! Lol. Oh, he is, so bad. When I was 2 weeks late in sept, omg, he kept sayin, this just doesn't happen in my family, not that I wouldn't love our child, but telling my parents would be torture, i'm like, mitch! You are 21 years old, grow some balls! It isn't like they don't know we're havin sex,.....His response: they don't...They trust me, blah blah blah.......Anyone with a 21 year old son who is living with his 19 year old girlfriend knows that they are bangin! Sorry, tmi, I know. Lol. But, we're making progress....I hope to demote him from a condom nazi to a simple condom fan soon........Sex is so much better when you don't use condoms anyway.......And i'm on birthcontrol damnit! Wink

Ixannahsmom

replied on October 23rd, 2004

Experienced User

Lol condom nazi. Sorry that is just soo funny. Totally understand my man was like that too but then after I got preggy and he had all the free sex he wanted he couldn't go back Wink

lol

Heathergirl

replied on October 23rd, 2004

Active User, very eHealthy

Omg, i'm envious.....Sex with and sex without...No comparison!!!!!!!!!! *sigh*

Dancinchick0587

replied on October 23rd, 2004

Experienced User

Why does he want 2 use a condom so bad? Just doesnt want 2 have a child right now? (besides the fact of telling the parents)

Heathergirl

replied on October 23rd, 2004

Active User, very eHealthy

I think (bc of conversations that we've had) that he does want children.......Esp. A boy...But yea.....His parents do everything for him.....And I think he is too much of a mamma's boy to be able to look them in the face and say, i'm having a child......And maybe bc he thinks condoms will desensify his peepee Smile

so he can last long enough to hear me moan at least once...Lol.....Sorry. Bad heather * slaps hand i'm being mean and vindictive...Lord forgive me for my evil moments

Dancinchick0587

replied on October 23rd, 2004

Experienced User

Lol! Yeah my ex-bf thought he would last longer with a condom... It only made it worse! But he blamed it on stress all the time.

jessamyn

replied on October 23rd, 2004

Extremely eHealthy

Needle the condoms hahah j/k thats unfair haha Smile

anyways u need to have a baby and join the mommy club haha...

Anyways even if you arent pregnant y.E.T i'm a walkign billboard go buy the book "hello my name is mommy" by sheri lynch its a birght pink book not too long but even if I wasnt pregnant id read it go go go !

Heathergirl

replied on October 23rd, 2004

Active User, very eHealthy

I needled one condom in front of him just to screw with him, but I threw it away, lol...It was a joke........I would forever be guilty! Lol........And I think he is getting suspicious bc i'm on here all the time....I tell him all the time, no, i'm not preggo.......But he isn't believing me anymore, lol......Even though i'm not! I wish he'd say, screw the condoms...Let's have good baby makin sex! Wishfull thinkin

jessamyn

replied on October 23rd, 2004

Extremely eHealthy

Hahah it will be like a pre bday suprise hi hunni were having a little hunni! Haha

pester him into it!

Heathergirl

replied on October 23rd, 2004

Active User, very eHealthy

Well I reaaaaaaaaally should be goin to bed.......Thanks for all your help! It's three am here.......Ouchie. Night dylan!

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