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Heathergirl
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Girls, I Need Advice
Posted: 10-22-04 23:29pm
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Ok, after typing this and having it
deleted....I'll do it again. Ok, I am so
worried that I decided to track down a
computer on my mini vacation so I can ask
ya'll what you think...........One, can
you take the flu shot while you are
pregnant??????????? Bc my boyfriends mom
brought one home to give me today...(she
is a nurse) I am asking bc I think there
may be possibly a very very very very slim
like 1/100 chance that I am pregnant...But
then again I don't........Bc I just had my
period two weeks ago......And these
symptoms that i'm having are too soon,
right? I'm peeing like crazy, but I
don't have a uti......I have massive
headaches, I sleep sooooooooo much, I have
no control over my body........I've been
sick once but keep a feeling that I will
be sick.......I am so weak, and I get
dizzy so much.......But these symptoms
should not show up so early in a
pregnancy!!!!!!!! I don't know what to
think, but I don't have a good reason to
tell my mum-in-law that I can't take the
shot she has ordered me to take?????????
Any advice or any knowledge that will
shoot down my scared and paranoid
thoughts????????
Love ya and thanks soooooooooo much! 
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sdwood2
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Posted: 10-22-04 23:51pm
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Hun I am sorry that this has happend to
you but yes it is ok to take the shot if
you are pg that is one group thats is
being told to take it. But the thing is
they do not want you to get the shot if
you are sick. You should be ok just try
to relax I know its hard. Also maybe go
talk to your dr too. I am shocked she
brought home the shot to give it to you I
would think she could get into trouble for
somthing like that.
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Heathergirl
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Posted: 10-22-04 23:58pm
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Well she is a nurse and her husband owns
the medical clinic......So yea. But it
wouldn't be a bad thing if I were
pregnant....I just wouldnt want to hurt
the baby, ya know....Thanks for replying.
: d
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sdwood2
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Heathergirl
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jessamyn
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Posted: 10-23-04 00:39am
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Yay your back I missed you!
Doll is my word u cant use it haha!  doll and
darlin...
Yes u can take the shot
and omg omg I want u to be
pregnant...Hahah
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Heathergirl
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Posted: 10-23-04 01:00am
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Omg I want to be too! I have always
wanted to mommy first, president
second...Lol....And I really think mitch
is goin to pop the question!!!!!!! I
yelled at his friend for calling me
mitch's wife (just to see mitch's
reaction) and he got all defensive and
said it wasn't such a bad thing to be
called that and blah blah blah.......I got
sooo excited......And he started talking
about our future children........I want to
be, and I think mitch would get excited
to........But I truely doubt that I am, I
just had my period two weeks ago, ya know!
And damnit, i'm missing out on my baby
making abilities bc this week i'm most
furtile and we're up north with his
parents! Lol but of course, i'm now on
mercette and we use condoms every
time...So I would call in nature to do her
best, lol.
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jessamyn
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Heathergirl
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Posted: 10-23-04 01:07am
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I've tried my best.......Even when I was
on ortho lo, he would not touch me without
a rubber.........And the only time he has
is once when the mood just over took him,
and I happened to be on my period....But
there has been many occasions when he wont
wrap it until a few minutes into
sex......Which of course, can lead to a
pregnancy........But he is a condom
nazi.......Not only condom....But
spermicide coated, lol he is soooooooo
concerned over what 'his parents would
think'.........He even thinks they don't
know we're sleeping together....Every time
he says this it angers me off, we've been
living together since june!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Arg.........But I want to give him a
son so bad......He even said he wants a
son........I wouldn't care what it
was....I love him and want to make
children with him, is that so bad? Lol
lol lol 
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jessamyn
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Posted: 10-23-04 01:11am
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Hahahaha condom nazi I cant stop laughing
hahahah
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Heathergirl
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Posted: 10-23-04 01:17am
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Hahaha, you are too funny........And here
I thought I could leave my ehealth
addiction for the weekend, rightt! Lol.
Oh, he is, so bad. When I was 2 weeks
late in sept, omg, he kept sayin, this
just doesn't happen in my family, not that
I wouldn't love our child, but telling my
parents would be torture, i'm like, mitch!
You are 21 years old, grow some balls!
It isn't like they don't know we're havin
sex,.....His response: they don't...They
trust me, blah blah blah.......Anyone with
a 21 year old son who is living with his
19 year old girlfriend knows that they are
bangin! Sorry, tmi, I know. Lol.
But, we're making progress....I hope to
demote him from a condom nazi to a simple
condom fan soon........Sex is so much
better when you don't use condoms
anyway.......And i'm on birthcontrol
damnit! 
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Ixannahsmom
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Posted: 10-23-04 01:30am
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Lol condom nazi. Sorry that is just soo
funny. Totally understand my man was like
that too but then after I got preggy and
he had all the free sex he wanted he
couldn't go back lol
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Heathergirl
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Posted: 10-23-04 01:37am
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Omg, i'm envious.....Sex with and sex
without...No comparison!!!!!!!!!!
*sigh*
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Dancinchick0587
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Posted: 10-23-04 01:37am
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Why does he want 2 use a condom so bad?
Just doesnt want 2 have a child right now?
(besides the fact of telling the parents)
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Heathergirl
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Posted: 10-23-04 01:42am
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I think (bc of conversations that we've
had) that he does want children.......Esp.
A boy...But yea.....His parents do
everything for him.....And I think he is
too much of a mamma's boy to be able to
look them in the face and say, i'm having
a child......And maybe bc he thinks
condoms will desensify his peepee so he can last long
enough to hear me moan at least
once...Lol.....Sorry. Bad heather *
slaps hand i'm being mean and
vindictive...Lord forgive me for my evil
moments
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Dancinchick0587
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Posted: 10-23-04 01:45am
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Lol! Yeah my ex-bf thought he would last
longer with a condom... It only made it
worse! But he blamed it on stress all the
time.
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jessamyn
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Posted: 10-23-04 01:46am
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Needle the condoms hahah j/k thats unfair
haha
anyways u need to have a baby and join the
mommy club haha...
Anyways even if you arent pregnant y.E.T
i'm a walkign billboard go buy the book
"hello my name is mommy" by sheri lynch
its a birght pink book not too long but
even if I wasnt pregnant id read it go go
go !
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Heathergirl
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Posted: 10-23-04 01:51am
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I needled one condom in front of him just
to screw with him, but I threw it away,
lol...It was a joke........I would forever
be guilty! Lol........And I think he is
getting suspicious bc i'm on here all the
time....I tell him all the time, no, i'm
not preggo.......But he isn't believing me
anymore, lol......Even though i'm not! I
wish he'd say, screw the condoms...Let's
have good baby makin sex! Wishfull
thinkin
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jessamyn
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Posted: 10-23-04 01:53am
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Hahah it will be like a pre bday suprise
hi hunni were having a little hunni!
Haha
pester him into it!
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Heathergirl
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Posted: 10-23-04 01:56am
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Well I reaaaaaaaaally should be goin to
bed.......Thanks for all your help! It's
three am here.......Ouchie. Night dylan!
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