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Q: Am I Pregnant?!?! Help!

asked by: rae_06 on October 22nd, 2004

Experienced User

I am 16 years old. Me and my ex hung out about 2 and a half weeks ago and me and my boyfriend broke up. Me and the ex--kevin still like each other and we've liked each other since my freshman year and we finally dated my sophmore summer..Kevin is 21.Im a junior right now. Im so scared I might be pregnant because me and kevin had unprotected sex and we were both a little drunk. He didnt blow it in me but he got it on my stomach and I was like.Oooooh kevin omg...And I sat up cuz I didnt know and next thing I knew it was on my legs and under me Confused

Could I be pregnant? I went home sick wednesday from school cuz I got cramps and I started bleeding. I havent bled much at all and scared. Im not using a tampon or anything cuz its not heavy---just a spot here and there--never done this b4. I shouldnt have my period till around the 30th and I got it on the 20th..Its pretty much over and its only lasted almost 3 days. Is this my period or am I pregnant?? I took a test last week but that was probably too early to even know---it came out negative.....Ive stayed home from school thursday and today--friday. All I do is sleep,i have back pains,headaches,breasts are sore, and all I wanna eat is crackers cuz thats all that sounds good. Can someone help me plz?!?! Me and my ex that I broke up with b4 me and kevin got back together---we are going back out....What would I tell my bf??? What\how would I tell my mom?? She'll want me to have an abortion and I dont wannal ive knowing I had an abortion the rest of my life. It would make me feel horrible.. What would I tell kevin??? Plz can someone help?! Plz. Sad

Replies(7)

GuitarJade

replied on October 22nd, 2004

Experienced User

Hmmmmmmm... The best thing you can do is wait and see if you get your period when you're supposed to get it, and then if you don't, take an hpt. Depending on when you were fooling around would depend on how high of a risk that you could be pregnant. I would wait to tell your boyfriend about you and your ex until after you're sure that you're pregnant or not... But I would definintely come clean about messing around with your ex while you and he weren't together. Obviously you'll have to tell your mom, boyfriend, and ex if you do find out that you're pregnant... But when and how is up to you. And if you don't want to have an abortion, your mom can't make you... The choice is, and always will be, up to you. Good luck and keep us updated on the situation!

kitty2luv

replied on October 22nd, 2004

Extremely eHealthy

Ok Hunny

The older guys thing good job jp older is better but n e ways I had the same things happen to me and I took a test yesterday and neg I was bleeding for a couple days 4 and only 1.5 days was kinda heavy so just call yr gyno and get checked out that what I am doing just to be safe and if u are preg tell him that u are and no one can make u get a abortion hunny I have had on and I will live with it for teh rest of my life so good luck

rae_06

replied on October 22nd, 2004

Experienced User

Thanx a lot you 2! Helps me out and gives me an idea of what I should kinda do. Im just so lost and confused.Ive never had back pains while feeling sick to my stomach and sleeping so much. I mean...Past 2 days I got to bed at 10 and wake up at 12..Not normal..Ususally I got to bed at 12:30 and wake up around 6...Just worried since this is all going on and me and my ex messed around and we were both kinda drunk.

rae_06

replied on October 22nd, 2004

Experienced User

If anyone else can help me out. Id be more than happy to hear what you have to say.

kitty2luv

replied on October 22nd, 2004

Extremely eHealthy

I Do the Same

Go2 sleep late n wake up not till 1 or 2 go 2 the gyno did u miss yr pd?

IDABABY

replied on October 22nd, 2004

Extremely eHealthy

Hey girlie-
none of us can tell you if you are pregnant or not. The first thing to do is to calm down, because you aren't even sure if you are pregnant or not. Once we know that for sure than we can think of ways to tell everyone. First thing is first, go to walmart buy a pregnancy test...Wait until your period is late...Then take the test. I know its hard, but you have to try not to stress over this. I hope everything goes well for you. Good luck
*hugs*
-kristin

linuxChique

replied on October 22nd, 2004

Extremely eHealthy

Yep! Take a test and then update us!

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