Is It Wrong.... (Page 1)

Its not wrong - its just difficult to do. Inevitably one of you ends up having feelings for the other. Sometimes it works out but sometimes the other person has no feelings beyond friendship for the other person and the friendship fails.

I dont have n e feeling for him and hes a man prostitute so thigns are just no feelings for now but I dontthink they will grow I guess its a good thing

I hate some ppl on here they think I am lying about every thing I post so if u have ne q's just ask and I will tell the truth

I don't think it's wrong to have a friend with benefits, but it may be dangerous. Because you two are not emotionally involved, he will see no reason not to have other "friends". This can lead to you getting an std. Make sure to use protection with your friend, so this won't be such a worry.

Daile

It's not wrong,as long as everyone knows that the situation is just for fun.However, as someone else said,someone almost always gets too attached or starts to have feelings for the other person, and then someone gets hurt.So,no I don't feel it's wrong,sounds great on paper,but in reality, having sex makes people feel closer to their partner, and what you both said would be a no strings attached relationship ends up in knots.

Patty

Yes, it's wrong. It's using someone else's body, even if it's with their consent! And you'll probably end up getting hurt in some way, better avoid it.

I used to get attached to my friends w/ benifits but I dont wanna do that anymore too much drama to deal with when he/ she is prolly doing other people

I believe its wrong because thats just showing no respect for your body just sleeping with someone for the fun of it makes you look bad and makes the guy look great. I dont want to put you down or anything but the best thing is just to keep your legs closed keeps you from getting pregnant and getting stds, and when the time comes for you to find true love good guys love to settle with girls that dont sleep around with random people and have respect for themselves. I just see to many of my friends getting hurt from guys because they think when they spread there legs for them that they will find someone to love them or they just do it for fun but they just get knocked up with babies and get hurt all the time and then those guys they just having one night stands or whatever they just talks trash about them behind there backs on how easy they are and so on. Plz take my advice.

I know yr not putting me down yr just trying to help thanks yea I gotten hurt alot but men and my friend has to we are weeing ourself away from that like I met a guy and he is sooo sweet and like me for who I am and everything so I hope it works out with me and him

Im glad to hear that, I hope things work out good for you!

Me 2 but its too early 2 tell what happens

Benifits??????? Not sure what you're talking 'bout?

I have a really good friend that firmly believes in friends w/ benefits cuz she got hurt in too many relationships. I think its wrong if ur just trying to avoid getting hurt. Getting hurt is how u grow and change. Its part of life. However I don't think its wrong in general. I think its hard though. Depending on how long it lasts someone is bound to get attatched on accident. Just be careful.

"well hes not your bf so you know he is having sex with others"

and just cuz its friends w/ benefits doesn't mean that he is having sex with other people-it just means he doesn't want anything serious.

There's one big problem with friends with benefits someone usually falls for the other person usually the girl and that wrecks not only being friends with benefits but a friendship as well. I'd really think it over before....Is it going to be worth losing if things go bad????

Well as long as I dont have b/f feeling for him I should be ok

But what if he gets gf feelings for u? Then u end up hurting him....

Hi dont have b/f feelings for him and he is a kool guy but I dont kno he think im stupid and I know he trying to be smart about it but its all good cuz im not that dumb he thinks I am hahaha men are the dumb 1s

I've had a firend with benefits once. We never had sex I was a virgin but friends with benefits where I am from I a great friend who you do alot of stuff with and cuddle with from time to time kiss but not just have sex and it was fine until I met my boyfriend and well he didnt' like it they didnt get along and now my boyfriend is afraid if I have guy friends there might be more going on.