I am 34 and in my hole life I have never been this stumped about a guy, I need help trying to figure out if this guy I just meant is blowing me off or if he is truly as busy as he says he is? I just meant him a couple weeks ago and we really hit it off, I talked to him every night last week and I went to his house last thursday and we both had a great time and there was alot of feelings there. He kept telling me how glad he was to have me there and how he was digging on me, he even had his friends come over to meet me and he kept saying he just wanted to tell everybody and he wanted to take me places to show me off, it was great. He asked me to go to a party with him on sat and to call if I could make it well I called friday night no answer called 2 more times still no answer, called on sat morning no answer, left for his house called on the way no answer.(i didn't go to his house because I felt awkward just meeting him).
Called on sunday got his room mate he said he was hunting I told him to have him call, monday I get his room mate he wasn't there still I asked the roommate if he had gotten any of the messages I left he told me yes, and then I asked if he didn't want me to call anymore that is fine and the roommate said I don't now anything I am just the roommate and then he said he would tell him I called. Tue my girlfriend called down there and finally he was home she asked him what was going on and he said that he really liked me and that he wasn't trying to brush me off he has been just so busy and his room mate doesn't have his rent money and told him he was moving so he has been doing side jobs and working late so he can pay the room mates half, plus he has to put out 300.00 a week in child support so that is why he hasn't called and he wasn't for sure if he could call because my going to be ex is still there, so he told carren to have me call and I did and finally got ahold of him and the 1st thing I told him is that if he did want to see me or if he didn't want me to call him just tell me and he told me no it's not like that I would like to spend more time with you and he told me what he told my girlfriend on the phone and he didn't even know I was sitting there when she talked to him so his storys were the same. We talked on the phone for awhile and he told me to call after 8:30 on wed and if he wasn't there he had no clue were he would be well I called on wed,thur and no answer again! I am stumped I guess I just don't know what to think is he busy is he brushing me off what should I do?